anyway I love things like having independence, being intelligent, taking pride in my skills, not feigning incompetence, referring to myself as a woman instead of a girl, aging unapologetically, having pores, stretch marks, grey hairs, wrinkles and body fat, listening to my body's needs, eating as much as I need to satisfy my hunger, being bare-faced, wearing comfortable clothes, etcetera
adding to this that I love trans people and they're better equipped to understand the sentiment of this post than any transphobe ever could. transphobes will never be my allies in battling misogynistic expectations for women as they're part of the problem



