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By Alexander Milov

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50 Unusual Date Ideas

Have an 80’s movie marathon.

Go shopping; pick out outfits for each other then wear them to dinner.

Cook a fancy dinner from scratch.

Watch terrible television shows and make fun of them.

Attempt a DIY project together.

Write letters to each other.

Have an impromptu living room dance party.

Make a blanket fort on a rainy day.

Look at old photos from when you were a kid. Yes, even the embarrassing ones.

Do something completely out of your comfort zone together, like go to a rave or maybe a sporting event.

Make a cheesy couple video to annoy your facebook friends with. You know the type.

Read the same book and swap notes. Avoid calling it a book club. Bring snacks anyway.

Go out dancing (the classy kind, like swing dancing, not just jumping up and down and rubbing together in a sleazy club).

Learn a foreign language together.

Go window shopping.

Rent a movie you’ve never seen before, and watch it with the sound off. Make up your own dialogue and story for the characters.

Volunteer somewhere together. Relish in the feeling of helping others.

Visit a museum or a planetarium. Learn new things. Don’t forget to stop by the gift shop.

Make up an entirely new game, like “True American” on New Girl.

Have a picnic in the park, on the beach, or in the woods. Lie on a blanket and look for shapes in the clouds.

Tell each other all the reasons you love each other. Better yet, write it down for times when it isn’t so easy to remember.

Make food together

Make a spontaneous trip to somewhere you have never been

Make a scrap book together

Decorate cupcakes or a cake

Watch your favourite childhood movies together

Have a bonfire with lots of s’mores

Go on a scavenger hunt at a local shopping centre

Have a marshmallow fight

Read Shakespeare to each other

Watch an entire season of your favourite TV show

Play board games

Visit garage sales

Play Frisbee

Go kayaking

Go ice-skating

Go for a carriage ride

Dress up as a ghost and Pac-man, and then walk around town holding hands

Create photo evidence that you went on an adventure that didn’t actually happen

Dress up as superheroes

Build forts out of blankets and pillows and start a paper aeroplane war

Write a story together at a café. Ask strangers for help when you get stuck

Pretend to be a tourist in the city you live in. Do the lamest tourist things your city offers

Go around the city with sidewalk chalk

With a camera and pair of boots make a photo log of the day of an invisible man

Write love poems to each other

Do karaoke

Have a dance party at home including karaoke video games

Read your favourite children’s books together

Start a new hobby together

In love with how beautiful it looks after a snow storm ♥

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