my silly little playlists
a collection of all the spotify playlists ive made
pretty much all of these are made to be on shuffle

@chocobosdungeon2 / chocobosdungeon2.tumblr.com
a collection of all the spotify playlists ive made
pretty much all of these are made to be on shuffle
How can we trust historians to tell truth? :(
You can't! Like any academic field, History is a process of publishing findings, getting fact-checked by your peers. Historians aren't allowed to cum unless they're calling someone else a fraud.
Please respect my privacy at this time.
I got a guy on Tinder to start reading Gideon the Ninth
losing my mind at this article about a guy trying out the meta verse
Oh, I'll do.
Things I've seen tumblr memeing about James Somerton doing à la "How did no one see how bigoted he was!" as if those things haven't been a significant part of tumblr culture for over a decade :
And I'm probably forgetting stuff or there's stuff I have internalised myself and don't recognise as an issue
Like idk but I feel like the takeaway from Hbomberguy and Toddintheshadow's videos should maybe be "be aware of such patterns in your communities bc they definitely exist" and not "this guy is uniquely awful" and I feel like a lot of the discussion I've seen surrounding this has been severely failing at that. Most ppl who've spent any significant amount of time on tumblr prob either have internalised at least one of those thought patterns, have had to de-internalise them, or have had to be extremely vigilant to not internalise them (which is done by, you know, seeking out other sources, which also seemed like an important takeaway from the videos)
To give an idea how widespread these ideas are: I've had to take a break from working through the list of good queer youtubers Hbomberguy linked to in his video, because the amount of gender essentialism, biphobia, and erasure of non-binary people was making me dysphoric(*). One creator who shall remain nameless(**) used the logic that because a non-binary writer is afab and doesn't identify as a man, then they have a "female POV" (or something like that, going back to check exact wording would make me feel bad!), even though (afaict from a brief google) this writer does not identify as a woman at all.
Because a lot of this rhetoric is rooted in rigidly gender essentialist binarist thinking. They really want there to be, like, a Unique and Clearly Defined Gay Male Experience which is easily recognised and agreed upon by literally every gay man (or every American gay man which is of course the only valid POV), and that the only alternative is the similarly uniform (Straight) Female Experience, and vice versa for Lesbians vs Men. To acknowledge otherwise beyond vague shallow gestures at inclusion would require accepting that while there are significant general patterns, there is no neat line between your gender and gender experience and that of The Other Gender, and that experiences of other people within your gender/orientation vary from yours significantly. A lot of queer people would rather throw non-binary people (and anyone else whose experience differs from theirs) under the bus than accept that.
(*)Which is not to say these are the only issues, just the ones that made me, personally, feel bad. I'm sure there were unfortunate attitudes to lesbians etc that went over my head.
(**)Because pointing to specific creators and demonising them as The Problem Ruining Everything is bad enough before you do it to overall well intentioned, if flawed, trans people who screw up one time about another trans person. James Somerton required an individual callout, most other flawed creators are just small parts of a bigger problem.
Things I've seen tumblr memeing about James Somerton doing à la "How did no one see how bigoted he was!" as if those things haven't been a significant part of tumblr culture for over a decade :
And I'm probably forgetting stuff or there's stuff I have internalised myself and don't recognise as an issue
Like idk but I feel like the takeaway from Hbomberguy and Toddintheshadow's videos should maybe be "be aware of such patterns in your communities bc they definitely exist" and not "this guy is uniquely awful" and I feel like a lot of the discussion I've seen surrounding this has been severely failing at that. Most ppl who've spent any significant amount of time on tumblr prob either have internalised at least one of those thought patterns, have had to de-internalise them, or have had to be extremely vigilant to not internalise them (which is done by, you know, seeking out other sources, which also seemed like an important takeaway from the videos)
To give an idea how widespread these ideas are: I've had to take a break from working through the list of good queer youtubers Hbomberguy linked to in his video, because the amount of gender essentialism, biphobia, and erasure of non-binary people was making me dysphoric(*). One creator who shall remain nameless(**) used the logic that because a non-binary writer is afab and doesn't identify as a man, then they have a "female POV" (or something like that, going back to check exact wording would make me feel bad!), even though (afaict from a brief google) this writer does not identify as a woman at all.
Because a lot of this rhetoric is rooted in rigidly gender essentialist binarist thinking. They really want there to be, like, a Unique and Clearly Defined Gay Male Experience which is easily recognised and agreed upon by literally every gay man (or every American gay man which is of course the only valid POV), and that the only alternative is the similarly uniform (Straight) Female Experience, and vice versa for Lesbians vs Men. To acknowledge otherwise beyond vague shallow gestures at inclusion would require accepting that while there are significant general patterns, there is no neat line between your gender and gender experience and that of The Other Gender, and that experiences of other people within your gender/orientation vary from yours significantly. A lot of queer people would rather throw non-binary people (and anyone else whose experience differs from theirs) under the bus than accept that.
(*)Which is not to say these are the only issues, just the ones that made me, personally, feel bad. I'm sure there were unfortunate attitudes to lesbians etc that went over my head.
(**)Because pointing to specific creators and demonising them as The Problem Ruining Everything is bad enough before you do it to overall well intentioned, if flawed, trans people who screw up one time about another trans person. James Somerton required an individual callout, most other flawed creators are just small parts of a bigger problem.
[It's hard to rest right. With a different pillow every night. Still I close my eyes. And dream I'll make it home. And ever now and then I. Find my dreams before I learn. That every mountain call of what I yearn. It's a blessing and a curse.]
Is making a lot of incredibly shitty, possibly bad or outright horrifying mistakes actually a viable survival strategy in life? Maybe even a wise one?
Earlier today I made a remark that wasn’t necessary
you actually don't have to go on dating apps to find girlfriends. many beautiful women are waiting for you on rocks out at sea
ⓘ This user is a malicious entity made of seafoam.
due to many foreseen circumstances i will go insane