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good morning simulation farmers

@charlespng

charlie, 24, he/they (side blog: @b0ngwaterwizard)
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pancakeke

she put her paw on my foot and started purring

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3amsnow

[ID: the first image is of a dilute calico with green eyes and a pink nose, lying in a grey green blanket on a sofa, where a person with grey and white striped tabby cat socks and black pants is lying. the cat has her paw on OP's foot, her eyes very slightly squinted.

the second image is of a reply by @/spontaneous musical number that says "holding hands (smiley emoticon)" and another by @/superb-fox, who says "she loves you (smiley emoticon)"

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genderyomi

am i not supposed to get horny when i girl starts acting really autistic in my vicinity

like. most of us have been told that passion and sincerity are hot and like. autistic people are so good at being passionate and sincere about the things we really care about. also like, how much hotter is it when someone is being really passionate about something or in some way that's deemed socially impermissible. and ik there's an image of autistic people lacking self-awareness but tbqh i am quite self-aware about how talking about my special interests is seen as off-putting or tactless and sometimes you just care more about your passions than you do being seen as suave and knowing that and expressing yourself anyway that's really beautiful. im kissing autistic women on the lips

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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

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catmask

"your birthday doesnt even matter after you turn 25 nothing even happens-" WRONG. when you are 25 you will try and enjoy so many new foods. you will learn the importance of probiotics and a good ice pack. you will start understanding the meaning of 'im still watching i promise im just resting my eyes'. and. you will learn the importance of a reasonably priced piece of grocery store produce

every year what you get is the accumulated knowledge of having lived a year. and you never think its that exciting until you have it!!! and then youll wonder how you lived without it before.

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every post i see that's like "if you're scared of being like [bad person] that's means you're better than them and won't be like them" and it's like. lmao. my dad used to have crying sessions where he would confess his fear of being like his mother and causing me to grow up to hate him. usually after he did something fucking awful, to redirect the attention to his own pain. the girl who sexually assaulted me had panic attacks sometimes about the idea of maybe being a rapist, making it impossible to set sexual boundaries with her without her freaking out. whether you're afraid of being some kind of bad person has basically no bearing on whether you are that way

LITERALLY ANXIETY ISN'T AN INHERENTLY MORAL SOURCE OF SELF-CRITICISM. BEING AFRAID THAT YOU ARE BAD DOES NOT MAKE YOU GOOD IT JUST MAKES YOU ANXIOUS!!!

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I think more leftists need to recognize the gap between “this should happen eventually” and “this would be feasible to achieve in the near future”

Like, I’m an anarchist. And I think an ideal world would have no nation states or borders. But that’s not going to happen tomorrow, or next year, or for a long time

So while I wait, instead of endlessly hemming and hawing over what the would should look like, I try to focus on what I can do right now to improve the world in material ways and to lessen the suffering of others