Name: Lex/Avery
Age: 31
Identity: nonbinary futch dyke. Don't be a little shit about it, but feel free to ask questions and I can explain
But futch isn't real/it's just a meme: I mean it definitely is real and has been for a long time (search my futch tag, my link broke) but also words are made up to describe our experiences. New words crop up all the time. That's how language works. Butch and femme were once new words, and I'm sure anyone who was told that they were "just made up" wasn't too pleased by that. There are more pressing issues for queer liberation than policing harmless language, my friends.
Random shit: biracial Latine, autistic/adhd, some ailments.
Special interests: music, space, worms, the ocean, witchcraft/magic, writing
Shit that doesn't bother me: people calling themselves fags/dykes/queer, futch (obviously), bi lesbians, transmen who are lesbians, etc. Queer is messy, always has been, and your attempts to put everyone in neat little boxes will never work.
DNIs are pointless, so instead I'll say that if you fit these you really won't have fun here: terfs, radfems, exclusionists, anyone who uses the phrase "transandrophobia truther", people who ignore the intersection of queerness with race, class, religion, etc. the list could go on forever. You get the point.
✨️ some of you are drinking the radfem koolaid while insisting that you hate radfems and it shows ✨️
Last but not least....I'm actually very nice! I'm just thoroughly over the unnecessary infighting that tears our community apart and makes it easier for conservatives/radfems/terfs to target us. But I'm pretty friendly and I like making connections with others. So come talk if you want to! Otherwise I'll be here being weird and occasionally angry.






