Ran into this on a playlist and wanted to share - good shit

Watch "What Is A Biggest Fear Of A Narcissist? #narcissist #narcissism #npd" on YouTube

Wow. Sounds about right.

Some Patrick Stewart realness

PSA TO MY STALKER AND HER CREW OF GOONS:

If you all don't get the fuck away from my fucking door in the next 5 mins, I'm calling the police NOW. Then I'll start pointing out vehicles and faces and showing video, and you all can explain why you're camped outside MY DOOR so I feel trapped and threatened in my own home. This is not a drill. We can do this right now.

5 minutes starts now..

Don't make me have to add more information here. I just want to be left alone and go about my business.

@chasingserenity - see the note above I just talked over with you.

I am going to make a very clear, direct, impossible to misunderstand, request that you stop.

I have given you a million opportunities to have a normal conversation (in public) about anything you need to express that is leading to these behaviors so this doesn't go on and on. That option remains if it's not going to lead to further escalation.

Following me with the drone and whatever filming you may or may not be doing MUST STOP.

I worked out that (because of the recent shenanigans) that you are almost certainly at one of the apts that's closest to my building and from which you can monitor my door. If you are, that means you moved from your original unit (which I know well since I helped you pick it out) to that one. That would have been an INTENTIONAL move to permit you to monitor me better. (I'm hoping I'm WRONG about this but I doubt it.)

I care about you still BUT I'm a human being and I can't navigate this shit without disrupting my own peace and calm. I can't and I won't. Your behavior is out of control now. And I couldn't even say what it was that you were after for sure or wtf is going on because you are doing everything in the most INSANE and CONFUSING way possible, like it's a savage play. And maybe that's the entirety of it.

I don't know. It's not my problem. Talk like a non-scary, normal human or kindly shut up and leave me alone. Find other uses for your time. Live life fully, in the world and not online via fantasy - there are lots of people in the world.

I'm exhausted and I don't feel like putting more time into this.

You get my point.

Gideon and Harrow

I don't know which artist to credit, so DM me if you know and I'll add here.

Gideon and Harrow - Coffee shop AU (HtN)

Artist: @exmakina - go pay them homage/show them love if you love this as much as I do.

I have a collection of Griddlehark faves I've collected over the years from wonderful artists (I'm not this talented) that I'll continue to share here.

REAL TALK

What do you want from me?

Hello Tinted Window Coward Girl...you done yet? We good for the night?

You need to STOP.

What you gonna do? Stare at me to death? What exactly are you planning on DOING? Maybe I'll even be impressed...but probably not...who am I kidding lol

Today..

.uh, drunk so no part..

Date cool

Will make a good friend.

Must drink some more..

Today (part Whatever):

Don't know that I'll get to the whole graceful exit stuff all the way through today.

I for real just don't have the energy to process it.

And there's of course the part that's fundamentally very very simple and just ain't the vibe here. People mend, make friends, find love, part ways, reconnect, a million things, all via the wondrous vehicle, that backbone of human existence and all it's success.

IMO if it ain't happening, it can't and doesn't matter. That's not reality. It's a mindgame that only one person is playing and only one person enjoys.

Stuff is super simple. Like, you text a girl cuz you want some company and a drink and she seems cool, and you get a straight up 'fuck yeah' response with no waiting and no bullshit. (And this is a pretty consistent trend among the women you know, despite not trying on the dating front.) Anything less than that in friendship or love has become far less appealing over time. I don't need to put up with less - so I'm not.

I like real life girls. I like real life friends.

And I like them a THOUSAND TIMES better when they're nice and don't subtly threaten me with bodily injury or spy on me to try to scare me. (Which I really don't recommend at all because it's fucked up - and sometimes leads to seeing things you don't want to see. So please stop. I mean it, take the simplest meaning here.)

(So, no, my Tumblr lovelies that may relate to this PSA, this isn't Play Time. Kindly act grown and it will move mountains for you and make you much happier. Thank you.)

TODAY - last day (pt 1)

Took the day off to sleep and recuperate like a human.

It was worth it.

I'm not sure whose this is. DM me so I can credit.

I'ma about to say some very direct things and am wondering about where I should say them.

Gonna take a little break and revisit.