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April 23 1:05am

He is stealing my sleep. I dream about my TC without having to Close my eyes. He haunts my dreams with a sweet indulgence, warm nebulous portraits of happiness, heady aromas of attraction and anticipation. I dream of my TC nearly every minute of every day. And I wish this throbbing ache in my heart would just go away.

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I fucking hate having a tc like I’m so over it

What i tell myself 24/7 but then i’m back to it, lmao

last time i did this my wish really came true. so im going to wish again

nothing to lose. :))

Let’s hope

Why not? :)

*crossing fingers*

pretty much^^^^

i got nothing to lose. (:

Last time i did this my wish came true.

Jesus Christ if my wish comes true I will piss

please work omg

looks fun lol

please 

IT SERIOUSLY WORKED

Well, i got nothing to lose, might as well try it

This shall be interesting😌

I really need this.

Hopefully it works

Please God!

What is the most important thing to remember when you have a tc?

The most important thing to remember is that he is your teacher. His profession forbids you to go anywhere near him personally and forbids him to go anywhere near you. You may have these feelings for your tc but you could never take action on them unless your tc has made it extremely clear he feels the same as you do. Because we are so infactuated by our tc, we often mistake their kindness with passion and it hurts but its reality. They might call you beautiful and compliment you but this is just their friendly nature and when it comes down to it, you need to accept the harsh fact that he is your teacher and you are his student. Nothing more and nothing less.

Do you think teachers dream about their students

Not even in a romantic way they just make a random appearance because sometimes students dream about teachers for no reason and i wANT TO KNOW

Yes. One of my female teachers said she had a dream about a girl in my class. It was about the girl dropping out of school, lmao!

Crushes, Infatuation, and Love in a TC context

As an English teacher, one of my biggest problems with the English language is that we only have one word for “love.” (The Greeks had it figured out. They had four.) But I think that whenever you’re attracted to someone, it’s important to understand the nature of that attraction. For instance, I think there’s a huge difference between infatuation (a crush) and love.

I think it’s important to consider whether what you’re feeling is infatuation or love, especially in the case of a TC situation, so I thought I’d offer a few thoughts:

Infatuation:

Infatuation is like a drug. Infatuation is wonderful and miserable at the same. You can’t stop thinking about him. Your universe revolves around him. Your days are filled with elation and despair. He seems like the perfect person, and a smile sends you into the stratosphere, the same way a cold shoulder leaves you sobbing. Every time he looks at you, your world melts. I probably don’t need to explain any of this to you. The fact that you’re a part of the TCC community means you know all-too-well what these feelings are like. 

Infatuation is a great stage to be in, and it’s a feeling that can lead to love. I’d say if you’re infatuated with your teacher, enjoy the feeling. There’s something about being young and hopelessly wrapped up in someone else that is incredible. Enjoy those feelings – when you’re older, it will be more difficult to feel so deeply or to fall so hard. Everyone feels infatuation for other people, and I think a lot of young people end up being infatuated with a teacher at some point in their lives. That’s totally normal and ok. Just don’t confuse infatuation for love.

Infatuation, generally speaking, usually ends up one of three ways:

But infatuation is NOT love. When we become infatuated with someone, we don’t fall in love with them, we fall in love with the IDEA of them.

Do you know your teacher’s biggest hopes? His biggest fears? His most intense regrets? Do you know his favorite band and his most embarrassing moment? Do you know his worst habits and have you seen his worst sides?

If you don’t, then there’s a good chance you’re infatuated with your teacher but not in love with him, because you don’t really know him. You simpy have an idea of who he is and are in love with that idea. Again, that’s not a bad thing. Just don’t call it love.

Do teachers get infatuated with students?

Sure, sometimes we become infatuated with students. A student may look beautiful, may act intelligent, or may display incredible passion. That said, we have a few more years of experience. We know infatuation is not love. We understand that we’re in love with the “idea of you,” not your real self.

Love:

Real love puts the other person first. It’s that simple. Instead of saying “I would be so happy and fulfilled if he loved me,” you say, “I love him and I want the best for him. I want to be a gift in his life. I want him to be a better person for his having known me.” See the difference? It’s no longer about you, it’s about him. And that changes everything. But I’ll explain that later.

My Story

I vividly remember driving to school one day, thinking about this student (we’ll call her “S”) that I’m really close to. I was struggling with how I felt about her. Did I love her? Was I simply a creepy dude? Did I actually know her, or was I simply in love with the “idea of her”? Did I really love her, or was this some sort of weird personal need to feel desired and wanted?

All these thoughts bombarded my mind. As I turned into our school parking lot, I realized I did love her. But if I really loved S, then that completely changed how I ought to act towards her. I realized that she was (and is) a gift in my life. She’s the best part of my school day. And sadly, she’ll probably only be a part of my life for a few short years. I’m determined to love her the best I can while she is a part of my life. That’s all I can do.

Let me stop here to express that I DON’T THINK ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN STUDENTS AND TEACHERS ARE OK. There’s too much going on there. There’s an age gap, a power gap, social stigma, and many legal issues. I think if a teacher or student love each other, they SHOULDN’T engage in a romantic relationship. A romantic relationship of this kind is not putting the other person first – it’s making their lives way more complicated, and it’s opening yourself  to heartbreak, manipulation, scandal, and possibly abuse. No teacher who really loves you would put you through that.

That said, I truly believe that teachers and students can express great love for each other – just not the romantic type. This is what I realized with S. I could still be there for her. I could still make her day better. I could still celebrate and mourn with her. I could still show love in many, many ways. And that’s what I’ve been doing. I desperately hope, years from now, she looks back and see me as an important, good, inspiring person in her life. If she does, I’ll know I’ve loved her well. She’s been a gift in my life, and I hope that I am in hers. That’s love.

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