𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝 | 𝐁𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐱 𝐁𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞
𝐏𝐑𝐎𝐌𝐏𝐓𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐌𝐄 𝐆𝐎 👀.
okay so i got like, three books delivered this week, and in anticipation i reread another book that i had, and lads, let me tell ye, it was like quicksand. so now i have a list, some from my head, many from my wonderful friends’ heads, of prompts that basically made us all very soft or very “pleasantly scandalized rich lady from the sixties who just found out a juicy bit of goss about the new neighbor”. i hope ye like them! (DO NOT ADD TO THE LIST. I WILL MAKE A PART TWO. AND THREE. AND FOUR. MANY MANY PARTS. EVENTUALLY. )
- [ HAIR ]: sender slowly reaches out to catch a loose strand of the receiver’s hair and tuck it gently and securely back behind their ear, letting their touch linger afterwards. (if the receiver has short hair, then the sender reaches out and gently runs their fingers through their hair to smooth it back.)
- [ CLOSE ]: while standing remarkably close to one another, the sender is unable to stop themselves from running their gaze across the receiver’s body, lingering for a moment on their lips, before returning to initiate prolonged, intense eye contact.
- [ CHIN ]: as they stand close to one another, the sender hooks a finger and tenderly lifts the receiver’s chin, tilting it up so that they can look at one another, and running a thumb across their skin lightly.
- [ THUMB ]: while cupping the receiver’s cheek in their hand, the sender slowly glides their thumb across their cheekbone in a tender, sweeping caress.
- [ WOUND ]: upon noticing a recent injury on the receiver’s person, the sender carefully moves closer, running a thumb (or hand) across the wound in a gentle, troubled manner.
- [ INHALE ]: while standing in very close quarters to the receiver, the sender shakily inhales with desire/anticipation as they realize how intimately close they are to one another.
- [ DANCE ]: when alone together (e.g. the bedroom, the kitchen, literally anywhere once they’re alone) the sender takes the receiver’s hand, and pulls them into a graceful yet intimate dance as a spontaneous act.
- [ BARE ]: as they get undressed, the sender gently places a soft, tender kiss against the receiver’s bare shoulder.
- [ SCAR ]: noticing a scar on the receiver’s skin, the sender tentatively stops them from covering it up, and rests a gentle, soft kiss over it.
- [ FOREHEAD ]: placing a hand on the back of the receiver’s neck, the sender guides them close and rests their foreheads together.
- [ PALM ]: taking the receiver’s hand, the sender brings it to their mouth, and places a tender kiss against the receiver’s palm.
- [ LINGER ]: taking the receiver’s hand, the sender lifts it to their lips, and gently kisses their knuckles, lingering for a moment before withdrawing.
- [ BEHIND ]: upon entering the same room as the receiver, the sender steps behind them, and winds their arms around the receiver’s waist, drawing them close against them.
- [ WAIT ]: realizing the receiver is about to leave the room, the sender hastily reaches out and catches their wrist, preventing them from continuing their departure.
- [ ARM ]: after holding their hand, the sender releases the receiver, but slowly glides their hand up the full length of their arm, lingering on the upper arm, then the shoulder, then resting their touch against the side of their neck.
- [ HOLD ]: while close to the receiver, the sender wordlessly takes a hold of their hand, for no other purpose than to be holding it.
- [ PLAY ]: while sitting together, the sender absently lifts the receiver’s hand, idly running their fingertips across the lines of their palms, mapping out every inch of their hand with slow, lazy touches.
- [ GUIDE ]: in the process of guiding the receiver through a crowded place, the sender’s hand protectively grazes against the small of their back
- [ TOUCH ]: while touching the receiver’s waist, the sender’s hand briefly dips beneath the hem of their shirt, skimming briefly across the bare skin of their waist.
- [ CUP ]: bringing both hands up to cup the receiver’s face, the sender draws them in closer to them in order to get a better look at their face.
- [ TUG ]: the sender tugs the receiver close against them by resting a hand against the small of their back, pulling them flush against their body.
- [ HUSH ]: while standing close to one another and hiding from pursuers, the sender reaches up and places a finger against the receiver’s lips to prevent them from speaking and revealing their location.
Like if y'all really wanna talk about retraumatising yourself, imagine having a fucking anti as your therapist
tired-user
The suicide rate would go up. I’m not even kidding right now, imagine if your therapist was constantly judging you, putting you down and telling you deserved your abuse because of what you read and you tell me there wouldn’t be a body count.
Imagine telling your therapist you have intrusive thoughts that you can’t stop having them and your so scared and your managing them the best you can and imagine that therapist telling you your a fucked up individual who belongs in a psych ward for having INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS.
Imagine telling them you wrote about your experiences and posted it on your private blog, tagged so that anyone with those triggers can avoid it, and imagine that therapist tells you your as bad as your fucking rapist.
Now imagine after you leave that therapist because you can’t take being verbally and emotionally abused and then you find out they called your parents to tell them what you told them in confidence in their office. Then the cops show up at your house because they said you were a predator and didn’t mention they reached that diagnosis because you ship Sheith.
Just fuck them. They’d break people.
yoonbum-in-drag
Actually, there’s evidence of those with Anti / pros censorship / puritan mindsets attempting to wiggle their way into therapy and psychiatry.
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They are literally capable of causing more damage than good in the real world, with victims and the mentally ill.
As someone who goes to therapy and psychiatry this scares me.
fandomsense
I hate this.
That very tweet was what inspired this post. It gave me chills.
anti-anti-survivor
Holy fuck.
In case you need anymore reason to encourage people to not become antis, to not support antis, and to learn how to spot anti bullshit coming so they can head it off.
Yo, in case anyone is wondering why I am so against antis, not personally, but as a Social Worker- THIS is why.
Antis are dangerous. Antis having access to vulnerable people is dangerous. Antis being able to do things like this and push their own ideology on those seeking help for what are complicated issues, where no two people are the same, is dangerous.
I cannot imagine someone sitting in a room with a client who is speaking about trauma and telling them, point blank, that they are hurting themselves by engaging in something like safe and consensual BDSM. The idea that that to me, as a Social Worker, is not only ridiculous, it is malpractice. I can PROMISE you that if anti rhetoric and this kind of bullshit makes it into the therapy scene- and I am sure it already has in some places- people will get hurt.
Antis are vile and disgusting because they are willing to take advantage of and put down vulnerable people seeking help. And for those of you who insist that this isn’t always the case- at BEST antis are so violently ignorant of psychology, sociology, the human psyche, and how trauma operates that they are doing serious harm to people. That’s the BEST case scenario. Which I am less inclined to believe for every time I see an anti disregarding what is common, best practice knowledge- that everyone copes in their own way, that a “thought crime” is not a thing, and that approaching trauma as something black and white will ALWAYS do more harm than good.
Antis don’t care about actual victims, the recovery of actual victims, or keeping real people safe from being victimized in the first place. They care about the *appearance* of being a protector of the innocent. That’s all. Full stop.
Don’t do anything I would do, and definitely don’t do anything I wouldn’t do…
1los
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omfg that is just too adorable
This kitteh having a little halloween adventure is one of my favourite posts of all time :)
Every fall like clockwork this photo set pops up and we all must reblog it
You know it’s getting close to Halloween when you see it appear :D
satanic-princess
This will always be one of my favorite comics ever. It gives me warm fuzzies~
waffl3jones101
my heart….
Oh little baby kitty ❤️
Alright fine I’ll reblog this one…
my heart is being sent to space
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request for Steve and Bucky (+I am not getting request anymore)
He wasn’t expecting stuff to blow up either.. guess it’s just that kind of a night.
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So don’t waste your time trying to make anything cool or pure or awesome ‘cause the man’s just gonna call you a fat, washed up loser and crush your soul, so do yourselves a favor and just give up!
SCHOOL OF ROCK (2003) dir. Richard Linklater
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Scott and Tony being Very Proud Dads
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The best dads
can we all agree that pressing foreheads together is an underrated act of affection??
sometimes I tweet about the funny/cute/utterly bizarre shit my 3rd graders do and say
the latest dispatches from room 156
happy monday folks
room 156 is BACK bitches and better than ever!!!!!!!!
a special room 156 update in honor of election 2020
2020 continues to be A Time but at least my 3rd graders continue to be the funniest people on the goddamn planet
have not updated this post in a while so here, enjoy some room 156 content in these trying times