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For That Laid-Back Ignorance

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Attention all marginalized groups, tired of the rampant rise of "casual" ignorance?

Casual ableism is people calling me "r****d" and "s**z" for how I moved, talked, and interacted with others as a kid.

Casual ableism is people telling me I'm "fortunate" I wasn't "gorked" by my premature birth.

Casual ableism was my parents calling me their "miracle baby" that I survived VLBW prematurity without obvious or severe disability.

Casual ableism is my family and doctors conspiring to overlook my actual challenges and sequelae for fear of "limiting" my potential with a "label".

Casual ableism is people refusing to admit that I might have lifelong medical and developmental consequences of prematurity without a formal diagnosis and telling me that I'm "crazy" to "want to be r******d or something" when I mention my suspicions. 

Casual classism intersected with ableism is people making fun of my attempts to make sense of my life without a formal diagnosis, and ignoring the fact that since I'm an adult and these evaluations are only covered for children, I'd have to fork out $2.5K for each assessment - and who can afford that?

Doug Walker AKA "The Nostalgia Critic

It’s been a long time coming, but I’ve had it. I’ve finally decided to boycott the Nostalgia Critic, as well as TGWTG in general, because I’m quite frankly fed the hell up with their ableist bullshit.

It is bizarre to think that thatguywiththeglasses.com totes itself as being open to diversity and welcoming to differences in race, gender, sexuality, and ethnicity; yet most of their reviewers, especially the Nostalgia Critic, are so retrograde in their approach to talking about people with disabilities. In comparison to the episodes in which anyone on that website mouth off on their opinions on how to solve problems with representing general minorities, none of the content creators (I’ve checked) ever did a commentary or say something substantial about people with disabilities and their representations (or lack thereof) in media. To be fair, there have been some accommodating features to the website, such as trigger/epilepsy warnings in Matthew Buck’s (Film Brain’s) videos (BMB episodes with strobes) and Kyle Kallgren’s (Oancitizen’s) episodes on Lars von Trier’s “The Id*ots” and “Melancholia” were damn amazing at diving into perception of disability issues.

Those sentiments, however, are overwhelmed by the vast majority of the website proper, not just the Nostalgia Critic’s, and often people with disabilities find themselves the butt of crude jokes, outdated humor, or the token minority to be pushed under the bus when defending other minorities.

I think I reached my boiling point during the Nostalgia Critic’s episode of “The Purge” in which, not even five minutes into the review, he compared people with “serious mental illnesses” to terrorists and equated them as extremely dangerous individuals. That’s not “satire”, that’s not making any bold statement, (hell, in the context of the video, he wasn’t even being funny), and what Walker just did was reinforce a horrible and fallacious stereotype that, sadly, many (otherwise astute and perceptive) individuals strongly believe in.

After that moment in the video, I felt horribly sick, and I decided to write him an email and a post on his Facebook wall. Needless to say, I have not heard back from him (or anyone from that website) at all. Not even anyone working in PR.

In fact, ever since Todd in the Shadows reviewed a Jason Derulo song in which he used the r-slur and did not even apologize for, I sent the website several emails, none of which were ever responded to. While we’re on the subject of the r-slur, the Nostalgia Critic is notorious for using the r-slur. Also using the c-slur when talking about one of the few television shows out there that does not completely slander disability. It’s absolutely disgusting given the context that he supports better roles for women in media, is against racist stereotyping, and has a rather keen insight into the movies he watches for problematic material.

In other words, if the Nostalgia Critic can do more than enough research into a relatively small niche of the Japanese porn industry, he has absolutely no excuse not to do any research into how to make his videos and other content more accessible for people with disabilities and how to avoid problematic language in his videos.

A rant like this was a long time coming. Walker has been using ableist slurs more than any other minority slur (both casual and explicit ableist slurs), Walker has made fun of people with disabilities more than any other minority, and, to be honest, a lot of people are fed up with ableist content from an otherwise healthy and intellect-cultivating website. Reviewers in general happen to use ableist slurs a lot when describing material they do not approve of, or want to convey a certain material’s ineptitude in economic fashion without divulging into pretension, but internet reviewers are/should be smart enough to understand the ramification of problematic language toward vulnerable minorities (seeing as how most of the really popular internet reviewers are white, able-bodied, heterosexual males). The Nostalgia Critic is no different, and the Nostalgia Critic (and anything Walker does really) needs to rectify this grievance before he loses any more fans. The TGWTG hasn’t been doing all that well lately, and if the producers and content-providers on the site want to amend this downturn, they must be willing to change the way they approach minorities, especially people with disabilities. It’s rare to find a reviewer comment on ableism or avoid ableist content altogether, and I, as a person with multiple disabilities, would greatly appreciate the inclusiveness that TGWTG can feasibly provide.

  P.S.: Walker also needs to stop using that Chester A. Bum character. The “bum stereotype” is indicative of the enormous homelessness spike for people with mental illnesses when many were forcibly deinstitutionalized from proper healthcare facilities. To see Walker further caricaturize that harmful stereotype is both classist and ableist and, given his better-than-average research into many things media-related, he should seriously know better.

Casual sexism is turning the focus from a woman's anger about men leaving unwelcome, sexist comments in women's social media accounts into a debate about the importance of "freedom of speech".

Casual ableism is my family members telling me that I'm using my anxiety disorder as a crutch and an excuse to not do my school work.

Submitted by anonymous

Casual racism, sexism--ALL OF THE ABOVE

This blog to which I have provided a link is full of the casual ignorance and hate that perpetuates a discriminatory society. It makes me sick that there are still people like this in the world, disgusting, living artifacts of a way that many people used to think, and some still do. But don't take my word for it--see for yourself. http://theantibullshit.wordpress.com/2014/03/20/feminism-because-ugly-women-need-to-feel-important-too/

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Hello, I just read the ask about the person from Iran who has to fill out "white" on college applications, and I'm simply blown away. I'm not american so I don't know anything about how college works over there, but why on earth would you need to specify your ethnicity on a college application ? It just makes no sense to me at all. Sorry if this is a stupid question, but I'm really clueless on the subject.

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colleges give scholarships to people of color and also students from low income families because rich white kids are pretty much the only people who can afford to go to college and can afford the quality of education that gets one through college. colleges want rich white kids who pay full tuition and whose families donate a lot of money but to avoid lawsuits they look for a few applicants of color to let in. more recent applications have tried to include middle eastern peoples and they are usually listed as white even though that makes no sense because most of the middle east is brown skinned.

i'm part of the 1st generation in my family to be born in the US- my parents are from iran. recently, when I fill out college/scholarship applications, im forced to check off the box for "white". this feels offensive on two levels- 1, white doesn't mean caucasian, which I am. 2, I have never felt "white", nor have i been treated as such in school, on the street, but i also can't relate to the torment some POC have experienced. is my frustration unwarranted? are middle easterners considered POC?

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POC isn't an ethnicity or race it's a political term of solidarity. Caucasian is an outdated term. White refers to people of primarily western european descent. And in the United States someone from Iran would not qualify as white due to outdated supreme court rulings and designate which ethnicities look white enough to qualify. claiming the term poc means claiming a history of colonialsm, imperialism and institutional violence especially at the hands of the US capitalist,regime. claiming the term means claiming a similar lived experience as other marginalized people.

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"but the CELTS wore dreadlocks/tattoos/body mods!!!11!!1"

first off, note-a-bear has a great post on how those dreadlocks that the Celts were supposedly wearing actually weren’t dreadlocks as we define them today. that’s when shit like historical context and knowing of what the fuck you speak come into play.

but here’s the thing. the Celts were a really long fucking time ago. and it was one ethnic group amongst MANY of ancient Europe. now, i don’t do Ancient European Shit so i’ll leave it to someone who does to be a bit more detailed but at the end of the day, if you as a descendent of Europeans (i.e. if you as a WHITE PERSON) can only name ONE. ethnic group. that you are more than likely not directly descended from? that invalidates your argument that dreads/tats/body mod was a European “thing.” Just because ONE group of Europeans at one point did it, *does not make it a part of the culture*.

conversely, how many ethnic groups in Africa practice scarring, or piercing, or tattooing, or wear dreadlocks? How many indigenous groups in the Americas? In the Pacific Islands? hint: WAY more than just ONE. a SHIT ton. *more than* europeans ever did.

thusly, dreads/tatts/mods is NOT a european cultural tradition. it’s just not. repeatedly referencing the exception to the rule does not make the exception the rule. it just makes you an supremacist, appropriating jackass.

like, if dreads/tats/body mods really was a European thing, wouldn’t we have seen MORE of that shit? like, wouldn’t maybe early modern Europeans *at the least* still be into it? but no. you don’t see dreads/tats in Renaissance artwork, you don’t see it being worn by King Henry or some shit, you don’t see any baroque-era symphonies with “tattoo” in the title or some shit………like, throughout the cultural products that modern europe has put forth since rome fell, dreads/tatts/mods are nowhere to be found, and that would be the place that they would be found.

but you know when europeans did start writing about tatts? when they starting going to places where brown and black people lived. and there’s a long history behind tattoos and colonization specifically that i’m not going to rehash here, but what do you think made tattoos taboo in western society to *begin* with? it was the fact that the only people who got tattoos were those savage, bestial, filthy natives and the heathen sailors who steered the ships to and fro. racism + classism. plus empire, because colonization was the reason why there were white folks in them brown folks house to begin with!

i mean, what cultural European tradition has been taboo in the west? the ballet? the english language? straight hair? like, think about it. if this really was a european heritage, do you really think it would have been as marginalized in western society as it has been?

i always think about Woodstock. like, if white folks were ever going to support dreadlocks en masse, *that* would be the time you’d see it. but you don’t. at. all.

you know when you do see white ppl starting to rock dreads, tho? after Bob Marley became an international mega superstar. but it’s not appropriation. right.

seriously, if you can find me a picture of a group of white people (from either the U.S. or Europe) wearing dreadlocks *before 1965ish*, and they *weren’t* consciously setting themselves off from the mainstream in some way (i.e. a religious cult or something) but wearing them as a cultural expression of their own culture, you win. you win everything, actually. because i’m pretty sure you’re not going to find it.

but don’t worry. i’ll wait.

ETA: i guess maybe the vikings had “dreads” too? even still, two(ish) ethnic groups a continental/racial tradition do not make. see: the rest of my post.

the struggle of being a woman of color in the media

LISTEN THIS IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE THE ARTICLE IS ABOUT WOMEN IN TV AND THESE FUCKERS MADE MINDY KALING’S COVER BLACK AND WHITE THEY WHITEWASHED A BROWN GIRL IM SO TICKED

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my English class is reading to kill a mockingbird rn and sometimes we read it aloud in class and I was wondering what's correct in terms of what I as a white person should say when we come across the n word

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I would just go with n word.

Hi. I'm trying to understand this whole "appropriation" thing and I don't know if you're the right person to ask but i'll go ahead anyway. How is white people making their hair into and afro or cornrows offensive? Can you just try to explain how appropriation in itself is offensive. Thanks for your help, i'm just trying to become a better person and would love for you to help me on that journy :)

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Look through our tag, it'll give you a lot of information on cultural appropriation.

http://casual-isms.tumblr.com/tagged/cultural-appropriation

How would you define culture appropriation? I've heard and seen numerous examples, but a clear definition would be extremely helpful.

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Sure, we have a tag full of information on cultural appropriation.

http://casual-isms.tumblr.com/tagged/cultural-appropriation

hey, I'm the person who asked (like a month ago) about how poc can be considered offensive in the uk. since then, i've noticed a lot of discussion has erupted over the post and i would just like to clarify that I am not white, and I was referring to non-white people who are offended by the term. My close friend asked me to send that message because the term makes her uncomfortable as a result of bullying. I was not suggesting you don't ever use the term - just that people would consider ---->

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" listening to the opinions of non-white people outside of the us who are offended by certain terms and maybe considering alerting them when the term is used"

Okay, the term people of color was created by a group of non-white women in the United States because they wanted a better term than non-white. And also wanted a term that conveyed solidarity between oppressed peoples. It's a political term not a replacement for ethnicity/race. And it is not something that white people came up with. If y'all in the UK want to call yourselves something else go for it. 

Hello there! I'm a human being. My skin is not black, like the colour of this text, nor is it white, like the colour of this background; it's somewhere in between. My question is, what would you say to me not wanting to define myself by the "colour" of my skin? I do not want to use a label like "black" or "white", for these are never true. I believe that we are ALL coloured people, and that is such a beautiful thing. For it means we are varied and different. And yet we all share this jointly.

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Wait.. are you being serious? 

-Micky