the saddest sight in the world is a married couple at a musical and the wife is super excited and happy and the husband looks like he was dragged along and he’s making a big deal about how much he doesn’t want to be there and the wife gets embarrassed or ashamed. this isn’t a funny post, it’s actually heartbreaking and i see it happen at like every other musical i attend.
Yeah, as an usher what makes me sad is when I see wives clearly dressed in their Sunday best, beaming and buying merch and smiling at me as I hand them a program, toting some guy dressed in jeans and a sweatshirt who declines a program. And that’s at least a quarter of the couples who come in or more. Like come on man, she really loves this stuff, can’t you try to enjoy it for her at least?
About as bad as when you see a big-eyed kid who looks like this is the greatest day of their life, all excited to see this show, and their parent/grandparent/aunt/Cousin/Friend/whoever they convinced to take them keeps making fun of them and saying how dumb or ridiculous they’re being. For Gods sake, this is a person you care about and this is a thing that means a lot to them. Smile, get off your phone, and be happy for them.
This goes for ANY loved ones’ interests. Doesn’t matter the interest, doesn’t matter the loved one. Example: my hubby loves airplanes. He works in the aviation industry. He basically has avgas flowing in his veins. No matter where we go on trips, he’ll find an aviation musuem. I don’t mind aircraft museums, but he will literally stop and take photos of rivets. Seriously. One time I was with him at the National Air and Space Museum and I had my nice DSLR camera and he asked if I could take some photos of the seams of the SR71 with “your good camera,” and you know what? It wasn’t my favorite subject to photograph, but I gladly did it because it made him happy.
BTW, we’ve been doing this for the 30+ years we’ve been together. He comes with me to symphonies and art galleries and lets me have the remote during hockey season to the point where he’s now a fan. I know he’s daydreaming about airplane engines a majority of the time, but he’s there and trying and I love that about him.
So yeah, be present for your favorite people and make an effort. It will pay joyful lifelong dividends you can’t begin to imagine.
I do not give a shit about yoga or education. My sister loves yoga, my mom is in love with her teaching job with her whole self. You better believe I will get excited about that shit. Least I can do for the amount of times they’ve listened to me fangirl various media properties.
Come get this dick-fil-a
I’m tired of y'all reblogging this every Sunday
My Oshi…..
The first ever Vtuber i watched…..
I respect your decision Mysta even if it makes me upset and sad.
I’ll support you in whatever you want to do, i hope these coming last days us Mystakes spend with you are filled with happiness and smiles….
Before i was recovering from Yugo, than Nina..and now my own Oshi…
Fucking hell…when i saw the announcement on Twitter i could feel my heart sinking, i could feel tears blurring my vision.
I know that eventually all of Nijien will graduate one day but…why does it have to hurt so much?
Fuck..
I give everyone hugs and headpats who just found out this news…..
Imma go and process things more a bit…..
Luxiem will always be five❤️🧡💛💙💜
to all the mystakes out there...
i know this is hard. but life wasn't over now.
everyone could be stressed and burned out. he deserves a rest.
🥀
luxiem will always be five.
Mysta is graduating.... Damn.
Honestly very understandable, as he really seems to be done with everything and has been for a while but.. that doesn't make it less hard hitting. I knew Luxiem since their debut, but I was only watching them here and there. Though seeing them grow was sure a sight to see. I'm curious as to how things are gonna be after he's gone.
Definitely gonna try to catch his streams until the graduates on 27.08.
I'm not surprised by Mysta's announcement with how he's been talking in streams to be honest. It's obvious he was burnt out. As a streamer though it's interesting (and a cautionary tale) to see such big talents like Mysta and Nina struggling in their current environments. I wasn't a Mystake or a Honeybunny (is that what Nina fans were?), but as a general Niji fan it does hurt. Nina's graduation stream was really inspiring. She really did know how to compliment the best in her coworkers, and it made me want to improve so that I could match their energy. Hopefully Mysta has a good final month.
Man July fucking sucks
Honestly this one doesn’t feel as much as a shock as Nina was. As much we all hate to admit it i think we all saw it coming poor guy seems to be burnt out, tired, stressed and sad for awhile now plus im sure some of us saw the leaks and were just hoping it was a rumor to be proven wrong. Hell i was hoping if we can make it through July then it would be the end of it and we could make it through the rest of the year just fine. Sadly life isn’t like that. It’s sad to see him go but I hope he’ll be happy again without feeling the weight of the world is on him and everyone is watching. I wish the same for Nina as well I bet foxbaka will go do something amazing.
Note: Idk if I’ll still write for the two of them I really want to, but I don’t wanna rub salt in the wound you know so I’ll think about it. Maybe I’ll just be on break fro writing them idk. However the exception is matchups if anyone whos im my current inbox matches with them I’ll still write it but beyond that lets leave it on hiatus for now.
i’m just so sorry to all the mystake’s out there. reminder that if anyone needs anything, or just to rant, my anons are on and my messages are open for anybody <3 it is a tough time to be a fan of niji livers.
Me: Mom, can we get Jacksepticeye?
Mom: No, we have Jacksepticeye at home
Jacksepticeye at home:
Yasha getting defensive about Beau.
