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Pure of Heart, Dumb of Ass

@caffiniated-gremlin

call me Rain/Puppet. once every blue moon I post art or writing. hyperfixations won't leave me be. sideblogs are when-will-patton-say-fuck (countdown blog) and pining-after-mothman (art sideblog) [pronouns: they/them rey/rem fae/faer e/em vae/vaem it/its he/him cryptid/cryptidself]
snarkyschizo

It's not bots or Neurotypical Karens™️ who run positivity and recovery blogs - it's fellow mentally ill people who are struggling to get better themselves. Every time you leave a rude, mean or otherwise negative comment on a positive post, you're actively ruining someone else's attempt to work on their mental health. It's not cute, it's not funny and it's not fair to the person in question who has to see all your bullshit in their notes. So please learn to just scroll past the harmless positivity posts you don't personally relate to for whatever reason. There's really no need to drag others down with you - and dragging others down with you is exactly what you're doing when you choose to have a public meltdown on someone else's post.

Alright. I normally would not make this sort of post here, but I recently discovered the existence of “cultcore”. Seeing the trauma that myself and other close friends experienced growing up in this situation romanticized by many people who clearly did not go through any of it is shocking and somewhat horrific.

Here are some things I would like to say on the matter:

“Cult” is not a funny word. It’s not a word you should call your friend group, it’s not a word you should call a fan base, and it’s not a word you should call your Discord server. Cults are not some otherworldly mystical beast. They are not the grandiose horror film and campfire story depictions of blood sacrifice or chanting in circles, at least not most of them, and not in ways that you would expect. Cults are sneaky. They make their control seem healthy to the people they draw in, and condition their victims to believe that the rituals they take place in are normal, and nothing out of the ordinary. Cults want your time, your money, and your family. Cults teach you that they are the only right way to live. They engulf you. They convince you that any other way of life, any attempts to leave, will result in misery, damnation, and hell. Cults are very real. It is more likely than you think that a person you know is involved in a cult. It is more likely than you think that someone who know has been hurt by a cult. It is more likely than you know that a friend of yours was raised in a cult. Cults are not a joke. They are not funny, your aesthetic, or something that you should make light of if you are ill-informed of their reality. I am begging you, whoever you are, to stop treating cults like a joke. Stop saying things that erase the suffering of cult survivors.

sleepybitchcity-deactivated2022

Hospitals are struggling for nurses right now because people are leaving the profession entirely or leaving for temporary travel contract positions that pay well. They have been treated poorly, underpaid for the work they do, and inadequately protected this year, and they’re done.

My brother in law said they’re advertising for a position in his normal unit, offering twice his salary. But they won’t offer him extra to stay after risking his life working in the COVID unit for months, so he’s out. It’s absolutely insulting, and so many industries are going to have a major reckoning coming up.

My father retired early because they refused to hire just one person to help with the work load. They had to hire 5 people to replace him.

This is a common occurrence amongst his retired coffee group.

One lady was a head nurse that ran two floor at her hospital. They wanted her to take on more work. She agreed to do so oy if they gave her a small raise and hired an assistant for her. They refused so she retired early. They had to replace her with 20 people.

You are NOT replaceable!!! They tell you this to make you complacent to their exploration of you.

I want to tell y’all a story about supporting and loving your partner, starring my amazing wife.

I’ve mentioned before that I had an eating disorder for many years, and though I consider myself “recovered” there are aspects of my disorder that I still struggle with today — being quite a bit heavier than my wife is one of them.

When my wife and I moved in together back when we were still girlfriends, I was at my skinniest. She used to pick me up all the time and lift me off the ground, and I’d laugh and kick out my legs ‘cause I was just delighted to have her holding me.

But I started gaining weight as I went through recovery, and where once we were pretty close in size, I began to get bigger. And bigger. And bigger. And she remained her naturally petite self. I began to almost dread when she’d try to pick me up, sure that this time she wouldn’t be able to get me off the ground.

But every time, even if I protested, she’d lift me up and say something like: “See, you’re not so big that I can’t lift you!”

And one time I just blurted out: “But someday I’m going to be so fat you won’t be able to.”

She looked me dead in the eye and said: “No you won’t. Because if that ever happens, I’ll start working out.”

It was the best possible thing she could have said to me, because she wasn’t saying I wasn’t going to get fat — neither of us knew that for sure. She was just saying that I was never going to be “too fat” for her.

And every time I worry about getting bigger, I remember that I’ll never be so big that she can’t lift me, because baby knows how much I love being held, and she’ll change her own habits to ensure that I never feel “too big” or “too heavy” because in her eyes I’ll never be “too” anything.

Anyway, there’s a moral to this story: Find yourself a partner who will never consider you an excess. You should never be “too much” to someone who loves you — too big, too loud, too passionate, too awkward, whatever your “too” happens to be. And even as you change and grow (in my case, literally), the right person will be there through the changes, to tell you that you’re always just right for them.

My strongwoman, the wind beneath my wings, the arms under my ass.   😍😍 😍

AU Idea:

Logan gets an old family heirloom that has cursed him to relive the same week over and over again. There is a ghost attached to it, who being the one that has cursed him, will not uncurse him.

Only for him to find out...

The only reason he is living this loop, is after the week is up and has happened.

He died.

So the ghost being protective of him decided to use the only curse he knew to his advantage and keep him alive until he can figure out just how he dies and if there's even a way to prevent it. And in the mean time, Logan gets to learn a little more about this ghost and just who he was when he had been a living person.

Duck it folks, I have a whole scenario in my head, might as well write it.

Your existence matters. Even if it feels like it doesn't. It changed someone's life, it made someone's day better, it made someone think differently. You're not always a tiny part of something big, you are your own big thing itself.

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