you know what’s underrated? lulling a guy to sleep
starting off by playing with his hair and brushing it all out of his face, gently caressing his cheek with your hand, scratching his stubble a little, kissing his forehead and lightly grazing your thumb against his lips... wow just wow
boys being shy about wanting to be dominated? so hot. the little blush on their cheeks when they have to ask for something. when you make them describe what they want, and they squirm just a little, so hot so hot so hot
oh, to slap a boy’s ass while they’re masturbating and hear them cry out in pleasure from it...
Cute boy i’m on a date with: *ears turning red* Sorry… I’m a bit nervous
me: *thinking about sucking the soul out of his dick* omg don’t be! (: (: (: (: (:
Boys who squirm and thrash around when they’re about to cum are everything 🙌🏻
Do not touch your body with bad intentions. Rub your belly when it is full. Stroke your soft skin. Hug yourself, even if it’s silly, because it feels nice. Pleasure yourself. Do not touch your body with bad intentions. Do not pinch at the fat on your stomach. Do not scratch at your skin. Do not hate the shell you’re encased in.
when you’re watching a guy jerk off and you can hear the change in their breathing when they cum? that’s some 👉🏼💞❣️💛💗❤️💜❣️💕💘💝❤️💞💓💛💘💓💗💖💕
Where’s the bdsm porn about dominant who are encouraging and fun? Where’s the scene where the sub is going down on the dominant and they’re all “good, good. I’m so proud of what a good little slut you are.”
Why the fuck does every fucking kink scene, regardless of gender pairing have to be some mean piece of shit being a total asshole?
(This is really not directed at self produced porn. If I’m being completely honest, it’s pointed directly at kink.com and its shitty copycats , like all of my rants like this are).
It’s freaky how many notes this has. I may have touched on something important.
THIS. Especially when it comes to femdom. There are now some more lighter BDSM things aimed mostly at sub women where the dom isn’t basically abusing them, and like, that’s great and all but…
I want a cute boy sub who is red in the face and whimpering, whose domme is telling him what a good boy he is, how proud they are of him, how happy he makes her, etc. I want a boy sub who wants to be snuggled and kissed as much as he wants to be edged and teased. I don’t want to see ball-busting, corset-wearing, hardcore abuse.
I want something that actually reflects what ACTUAL FEMDOM LADIES want in a scene. I want something that actually caters to us.
“I want a cute boy sub who is red in the face and whimpering, whose domme is telling him what a good boy he is, how proud they are of him, how happy he makes her, etc. I want a boy sub who wants to be snuggled and kissed as much as he wants to be edged and teased. I don’t want to see ball-busting, corset-wearing, hardcore abuse.”
God yes!!!! @bdsmsnark, I applaud you for writing this post!
Reposting this one because male subs matter a whole fucking much! PS: I’ll keep reposting this on a regular base :)
A reminder not all subs are the same. Tumblr sub blogs almost appear like a monoculture of “popular” kink but remember not all subs like being degraded, not all subs like being used, not all subs like being bratty. Not all subs are poly or play with multiple partners, not all subs enjoy sex, not all subs like being slapped, not all subs like being spit on, not all subs like being spoilt financially, not all subs like older partners, not all subs enjoy being tied up, not all subs are masochists!! And this doesn’t make them any less of a perfect sub.
I want a cute boy I can snuggle in my lap, spoil endlessly, call pet names, make blush and giggle, boss around gently, remind who is in charge, punish when he’s cheeky, make gasp and writhe and moan and beg, and basically just make the most important thing in my world~
