adulthood gets such a bad rep and like yeah, a lot of adult things do suck (thanks, capitalism). but i do worry about what constant complaints about adulthood do to depressed kids and teens who feel trapped and sort of like adulthood is the only way out of their current situation.

so let me tell you, in case you haven't heard this ever, that in my experience, being an adult is 100x better than being a kid or teenager. being able to more or less control my living space and who i spend time with, being able to prioritize my health and wellbeing, being able to be who i truly am and pursue my interests and hobbies... all of that is worth the other dumb stuff, and none of it was possible when i was a minor. honestly, I've just gotten happier and happier the older I've gotten.

being an adult is GOOD. and it can be good for you too.

im loving that so many people are rbing this to agree that adulthood fucking slaps. cuz it does.

Big Warning

If you see a police car or a cop with a speaker looking thing on it, FUCKING RUN. It's known as an LRAD (Long Range Acoustic Device), a device that, when activated, can permanently damage your hearing and cause serious harm. If you're too close, you'll be left in a lot of pain and squirming on the ground permanently deaf. Ear plugs do not work. Unless you have one of those shooting range headphones, you do not stand a chance against them. Again, if you see them pull up, RUN. This is what they look like.

Stay safe.

led zeppelin moments i think about a lot and cherish (not including a lot of their song moments/improvises that i enjoy bc that’d be a lot)

please add on more if anyone has any 

girls this is important as fuck

I will never not reblog this. Nothing is more important than this. Remember it always. 

this needs to be signal boosted for all to see.

This goes for lgbtqia relationships too kids.

leave while you still see the early red flags, before it becomes really dangerous.

What Are the “Warning Signs” of an Abuser?

Red flags and warning signs of an abuser include but are not limited to:

What Traits Do Abusers Have in Common?

There is no one typical, detectable personality of an abuser. However, they do often display common characteristics.

I wanted to add a few, since sometimes it’s much more subtle. These can absolutely be manipulating even if your partner is not physically abusive.

- Minimizing not only physical harm, but mental or potential harm

- Continually trying to offer an alternate narrative if things look bad on them

- Like the externalizing mentioned above: Justifying, (even prematurely) bad behavior with sob-stories and past baggage

- Isolating you. This can be hard to see at first if you still interact with people, but pressure, even subtly to keep things quiet can still happen (this can go along with creating a narrative, i.e. “no one else understands”)

- Feeding into bad habits you already have, especially low self esteem. This can happen even if they’re complimentary to you, but things like “the world probably won’t accept you” or “your goals aren’t attainable” can further isolate you and make you more dependent on them

- Frequently pushing the envelope to see your comfort level, especially trying to do so subtly, instead of establishing boundaries

I was at a John Mulaney show but the lighting was all yellow and green and he was just standing there giving super deep life advice. I don’t remember much of what he actually said but I woke up feeling enlightened af. One thing I do remember is him saying, “Don’t waste your time - you have so little. Make a difference. Work hard, it will pay off, so that you can make a change.”

Inspired @connorsquarter ‘s post

now THIS is an ally

Awe dude his sister died last year and she was gay.

And he had this huge mass wedding party to honor her.

And he called a bunch of celebrity chefs to make the food for it.

Wow this is… really cute?

I’m… sympathizing with Guy Fieri?

(And he did 101 gay weddings because he was trying to compare the Attorney General against marriage equality to Cruella DeVille, like, 101 dalmations.)

THE TRUE UNPROBLEMATIC FAVE

Come to think of it I never actually found a single reason to dislike him. To my knowledge he’s just a goofball who likes food.

Michael Sheen in The Good Fight as Roland Blum Roland Blum being a cute sassy bitch. Feel free to reblog ♥

…zoom in close

GO WATCH THIS SHOW, HONESTLY IT IS SO AMAZING. 

IF THIS POST CREATES 1 NEW PUSHING DAISIES FAN MY LIFE = MADE. 

Alright let me help out then:

1) Most of the cast is female. In fact only two main characters are male.

2) Both male characters take typically non-masculine hobbies. Emerson Cod knits almost non-stop and makes pop-up books. Ned is literally called “The Pie-Maker” because he bakes homestyle pies from his mother’s method. Both are shown to be very nurturing and even maternal characters. Conversely, the women? A pair of professional travelling show performers that have gritty sexual scandals the way men usually get (see the entire “Chuck’s father” storylines), a beekeeper who is the single most positive and optimistic character imaginable, and a former professional jockey- Three of four pro athletes.

3) You could very easily make the claim Ned is asexual.

4) Yes, the storyline is about romance. But it’s also about the positive side of a love story, and their only drama lies in overcoming their inability to actually share contact.

5) A very good friend of mine recommended this show to me as “Disney for adults.” I told her it was already on my list to watch because “It’s by Bryan Fuller, from Wonderfalls and Dead Like Me.” Bryan Fuller is now most known for “Hannibal.” The same camera methods and bright colours and lighting techniques Hannibal is known for? Perfected in this show, just using a different tone- The same colour methods in reverse, upping the vivid greens and yellows instead of reds and blues, which sells emotion both ways.

7) Probably one of the best examples of a modern day fairy tale possible.

8) Narrated by Jim Dale- The narrator for the HP audio books.

I don’t know if anyone’s already added links to this, but all of these here work and if you hover over the links, an episode description shows :)

Season 1:

Season 2:

Updating to say all episodes are available in the us for free on the CW seed website and app

Moss Graffiti: A How To Guide

are you fucking for real

Imagine being the criminal who returns weekly to make sure his fucking plant art is doing alright

Later

I found it! I fucking found it! In my fucking dash! Nothing can stop me now! *EVIL GIGGLES*

OMG SAME RIGHT I SAW IT A YEAR AGO AND WAS UPSET I COULDNT FIND IT AGAIN

Anyone who does this is a chaotic-good

wait omg this is so pretty

weekend plans

In New Zealand, there is a man legally known as ‘The Wizard’ who is an educator, comedian, magician and politician. Some of his political ideas include:

“Wizard, The”

This is The Wizard, reblog in 35 seconds to reveal the secrets of the center of the universe and abolish old fashioned gender roles.

The Wizard of New Zealand is not just legally named “The Wizard” so he can appear on his driver’s licence that way.  He is actually, literally, officially, the Wizard of New Zealand and was appointed to that role by Prime Minister Mike Moore in 1990.  

fucking boost this

I’m going to be honest with you I don’t know exactly what this means but I think I really want to know

reblog if ur bi, ur not biphobic, or ur best friend is a beautiful valid bisexual

@nothing-to-see-here-bud

hhhhmmmmmmMMMMMM VERY INTERESTING

The fact that Michael Sheen knows what the 🍑🍆💦 emojis mean but also tried to peel an onion with a potato peeler is the funniest thing to me, like what a dichotomy of knowledge, this man has the most chaotic feral energy that I have ever seen

The Them giving snake man grief