I think it’s fascinating how Kingpin in ITSV and Miguel in ATSV are foils for each other. Both of them lost their families and tried to cheat death by replacing them with other versions from different universes, and they both failed.
The tragic thing about Miguel is that he’s so lost in the trauma of losing his original family that he doesn’t see that in creating the Spider-Society, he’s built himself a new family. He could be the friend, uncle, brother, father, that so many of them crave, but he keeps himself closed off, making himself their General instead. Miguel keeps everyone at a distance because losing another family would break him.