B18 Departures
1. When they are asked about their religion, most Japanese answer they are Shinto and Buddhist. Why do they belong to two religions at the same time? Why don’t they think it’s contradictory? Explain why you think so. Shinto and Buddhist practices can co-exist because they are not restrictive religions, like most religions practices in America. These religions consider logical and ethical values instead of faith, they are open to interpretation based on each circumstance. Since these religions consider each circumstance open to interpretation on how it should be handled between the two of them they have considered many different scenarios and sometimes to convey a message about the same thing a different perspective has to be brought to the table.
2. Considering Zoto, “Public and Private” and “giri” have deeper relationships. Thinking about those two concepts while Japanese people do “Zoto”, which scene of this film is a good example that “‘Private gifts’ that are not considered as important” (p.240) ? After a ceremony, some of the family member related to the deceased would give a gift to the ‘departures’. Though mostly at the beginning of the ceremony they seemed to be quite reserved and appear to be madder that they touched their loved ones like they did. During they realized they are being professional and presenting the best clean version they will see of the person sending them off this Earth looking good. The one example that private gifts are not considered as important would be when they arrived late to a wake and by the end the guy who yelled at the departures gave them food and apologized after the well performed send off. They said it was their fault to him and then ate the food informally inside the car parked in the lot. People gift to keep harmony and everyone who gifted originally seemed to be private and shut off but afterwards awarded them to basically keep up the good work, and to give hope to the next person they send off.
3. Daigo was a cellist, but his orchestra was dissolved, and he takes a job as “Nokanshi.” What kind of job is “Nokanshi”? From the film, what is the general perception of this job? How does Daigo feel about his job? Describe the transition of Daigo’s wife perception toward his job. “Nokashi” is a professional job where, they send the deceased soul off the next life. They clean the body in front of the family; washing with a rag, trimming facial hair, dressing and laying the body into the casket. Everyone seems to genuinely hate the people that do these jobs. They had gotten this reputation from what was seen at the end of the movie, a quick crew to bow their head over the corpse then toss them in and move to the next house. Daigo at first was forced into this job by his persuasive boss (and money). The first job was the worst of them all and once he got over a few bumps he felt good about what he was doing. His wife leaves him and everyone displayed their hatred towards him. His wife could not handle him touching dead bodies, then she found out she was pregnant. She gave him a second chance to quit and what do you know the largest coincidence happens, the bath house lady dies. The wife wanted to go to the ceremony and see his work along with his old friend that just gave him shit a couple scenes before. They witnessed him perform his send off and they retracted everything they said and he became respected.
4. Japanese funerals have many rituals and customs. In your opinion, what is the biggest difference between the Japanese funerals you saw in the film and the kind of funerals you have been to? Japanese funerals display all the clean up in front of the family which I’m assuming is to avoid any foul play and to remind them they are being sent off to a better place. American funerals are more based on sharing past times about the dead, and the body has been cleaned and prepped prior to anyone arriving to the wake. The biggest difference in my opinion is the talking aspect. American funerals share past times with the person others most likely didn’t know about them to remember what they did and how they were as a person. Japanese funerals focus on making sure their sendoff goes as smoothly as possible to the next journey, only display what they used to look like alive.
5. Movie—What does the stone that Daigo has mean? I believe it meant how someone feels about someone they will feel in the rock that was given to them. It also represented his dad showing his love for his son sending him a, what appears to be, rare smooth white small rock. Seemed like a nice rock.
6. Movie— Was Daigo able to meet his father? What kinds of situation was it? Daigo wasn’t sure if his dad was still alive or not and seemed to not care, then he was given his death notice. Daigo resisted to go, then after some internal conflict and a story from his coworker about a similar situation she had done to her child (left when he was six years old) he decided to go with his wife. The Nokashi hired came off as very disrespectful towards Daigos father so he stopped them and did his ceremony. Mid-ceremony inside Daigos dads folded hands he held onto a small white smooth rock. Daigos dad was thinking about Daigo when he was dying. Daigo gave his wife the rock after holding it to her (pregnant) belly.
7. What other PRIOR Japanese key concepts do you see in this film? Explain what and why you think so. I notice Shudanshiki occur twice times in this movie. The act of standing up to the wrong doings someone has done. Shudanshiki when Daigo was sending off the daughter of a man who did not want the gang and the man that caused her death there. He also didn’t like the way his daughter was being handled, and in the heat of the moment he called out Daigo for doing a job his whole life because nobody else will do it just like the lives of the yakuza. He was upset about everything and didn’t care for either party present at the wake. The other Shudanshiki that happened was when Daigos father was being thrown into the casket, Daigo stopped them by speaking up after giving them a minute of respect playing along to how they would send him off.
8. What did you learn about the Japanese culture through the film? What do you think about the movie overall? I have learned a great deal about my own opinions along with a glimpse of how Japanese have developed culturally. This class has broadened my horizons on a harmonized culture that has its own set of traits and unique experiences. The movie was good, it had subtle humor at times and an eye opener to jobs that may seem less desirable don’t always have to fit the stereotype. Do what makes you money and if you are forced until you get over the outer premonitions you have, eventually you’ll love your job and won’t know how to quit, so embrace it.
