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these days I mostly post about podcasts and LGBT stuff she/her, call me R, ace greyro💜💚, 20

Just an asexuality related rant

Its really tiring that most of the content in the ace/aro community isn't really about the people in it, but about educating others outside of it. Sure, raising awareness is very important, but I'd really like to see more posts talking about aro and ace experiences.

It has gotten to a point where half the posts are explaining very basic terms and the other half are just jokes about dragons, cake and garlic bread... it feels like its catering more to allos than the ace community itself.

I'd love to see more posts made by aces/aros that talk about their feelings, experiences and opinions. Especially sex favorable aces and romance favorable aros who arent represented as much as they ought to be!!!

GUYS!! You can watch Käärijä's next live show from anywhere in the world!!

Käärijä is performing in Helsinki this Saturday, May 20th and you can watch it live online, no matter where in the world you are!

Since it's going to be streamed on the Finnish public radio's (YLE) site, I'm assuming it's free to watch.

Show starts at 8 pm Finnish time at yle.fi/euroviisut

Just a year or two ago Finns were saying that a Finnish language song would never do well at Eurovision because our language is too “weird” to foreigners, and now here is Käärijä proving them all wrong. The fans are going crazy for him and trying to memorize the Finnish lyrics so they can sing along. Cha Cha Cha winning the public vote really shows that it’s not about the language, it’s about the quality of the song. I love that nowadays more eurofans appreciate songs performed in national languages.

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honestly esc is getting more and more boring each year and the risky, fun, different, camp entries getting ignored and insulted is only going to lead to them disappearing

congrats, you made eurovision straight and beige

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honestly esc is getting more and more boring each year and the risky, fun, different, camp entries getting ignored and insulted is only going to lead to them disappearing

congrats, you made eurovision straight and beige

Let me get this straight. Almost everyone here hates the jury. Has for years. You can see it here every year. People want only the public votes to count.

So people are not just upset bc Loreen won. They are upset because without the jury Käärijä would have won. He got so many votes from the public, so much more than Loreen, although she did good too in public votes.

People here always hated the jury. So yes, we are going to be upset when we can CLEARLY see that if it was only up to the public, Käärijä would have won by far.

So no, we are not just being sore losers. We just hate the jury. So this win feels like something the public didn't want, so it is not surprising that many are upset that Käärijä didn't win. The public wanted him to win. That is clear by looking at the votes.

it fucking breaks my heart hearing käärijä go "...but i wasn't the best :(" when he literally scored the second most points EVER in eurovision public vote, second only to ukraine in 2022, like sweetie NO LISTEN, you WERE the best actually

germany didn’t deserve that last place like they did everything right this time sending a song that is not forgettable for once and the public especially did them dirty (bc let’s be honest no one expected juries to give them points but the public? pls what was that)

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look alright i just want to have someone whose hair i can run my fingers through and who will kiss my neck and who i can try and bake pancakes for and someone who i can cuddle at night and someone with which casual intimacy is a given and someone to hold when it’s nighttime and storming and perfect in the moment because you’re together and your problems are a little bit further away. no i don’t need anyone, but I want someone, i want someone so bad, because humans aren’t meant to be alone and i just want someone to love and live with and smile at whenever i inevitably burn the pancakes because i’m ass at cooking. it’s crazy because we live in a love and touch starved generation yet somehow at the same time we’re pressured from all sides and told that we need another person to make ourselves complete. 

and its the simple things i want the most and maybe one day i’ll get them, but for now I can’t have them and it hurts and i get euphoric when a friend lays their head on my shoulder because physical affection is frowned upon between friends and you can’t touch someone if you aren’t together romantically and i’m sick of it despite the fact that that very thing is exactly what i crave. 

you caught me admiring your beauty

i saw your reflection

looking at me while i was looking at you

can we kiss?

can we look at the stars and hold hands?

i feel like im not good enough for you

you deserve someone perfect

because you are perfect

you make me feel so shy

i wish i had the strength to kiss you

and tell you you’re beautiful

and that your smile is so precious

your eyes so full of life and joy

your hands so soft yet strong

every time our hands meet

i feel sparkles

so can we kiss now?

Me making food for myself: Why must I be subjected to the torture of maintaining this mortal flesh. When will I be free of the trials of Sisyphean mundanity.

Me making food for someone else: yay! yippee! woo! yeah! hurray! yahoo! hurrah! yeehaw! woo!

Pros of having a brain that makes very fast associations: Good comebacks and jokes.

Cons of having a brain that makes very fast associations: that story about how you broke your foot reminded me of a fun fact about lizards.