TUMBLR MILESTONE PLEASEEE
Thank you @amanditaz and everyone who got me to 10 reblogs!
omg this new feature is cracking me up THE IMAGE… but so true. thank you all💗
Anonymous asked:
you were always ✨that✨ girl to me before it became a concept in which ppl try to replicate on tiktok. anyway hope ur well
😹😹😹 i'm so fascinated by that trend i feel like i am the opposite and chaotic lol thank you T-T <3 i'm good just you know. old as fuck now
Anonymous asked:
Shut the fuck up
I needed this. thank you so much
crazy to me that only one person ever said this to me. always getting less than i deserve..
i used to love pissing ppl off on tumblr so much omg i am getting nostalgic like yeah idk i had my nose in others business jst the kind of girl i am
Ummm i’ve had tumblr for over 10 years jst letting that sink in.... now i come back with a fully developed brain to say hi everyone
i am dying my mum has these training zoom calls right and they’re at 9pm bc they’re based in australia. she told me she sleeps during the calls and i said do you turn off your camera? she’s like wait can you do that? i just put a pillow and hide behind it. idk if they could see me or not though. LOUISA????
the way my brain didn’t work until a year ago is so funny like i think back and i was just chaotic i never had a straight forward day that went right i was so unorganised forgetting things losing things like there was no pause in my life
best thing to come out of the last year is working from home bc it wasn’t fun to work from home in 2020 but it started to slay in 2021 . best purchase apple watch. best memory was my birthday. best thing i did for myself was walk in every direction from my house everyday til i found my favourite every day walk ! Thanks
I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.
Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.
The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.
I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.
