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In my mind you're the image of victory

@bolthedoor

I have a soft spot for Lee Dong-wook. And rainbow-sprinkled doughnuts. Multifandom. πŸͺ΄πŸŒ»πŸͺ»πŸŒ±πŸŒΎπŸŒΏ "Once you wrote an essay on how we're all convinced we're going towards the sky and we don't notice that the ceiling's in the way. But I was thinking that if we all jump togheter, maybe we'll break through this ceiling."
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being an adult is just dragging urself kicking and screaming to things that you will enjoy and that will be good for you

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clenching my teeth and muttering under my breath "you'll be happy you did it you'll be happy you did it you'll be happy you did it" as I physically force myself out the door to go Do Things

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being very firm with myself every time I think about bailing and saying "no. you committed to this. it will improve your quality of life. you will enjoy it. now put on your big boy pants and go."

Can we implement a rule for next year that everyone has to sing in the native language of their country? I'm so sick of everyone just singing English

Give me DRAMA Give me CULTURE

GIVE. ME. FUN.

when i tell you that all i ever wanted out of a period drama is for them to show the modern day location at the end and seven kings must die did that

Honestly we really need to stop being weird about older adults who are virgins.

& not even purely in a "I'm sex repulsed &/or ace &/or not into the idea of so I willingly didn't have it" but also in a "I'm 80, I would've loved to have sex, but it takes two to tango & no one wanted to have sex w/ me-" and in a "I'm 60 & I wanted to, but I had anxiety so bad I just didn't put myself in a situation where I could've" way, etc. [But yes also the people who are like "I'm a virgin because I never wanted to have sex"]

Someone made a post about having their 40th birthday & still being a virgin & someone commented about how it was heartbreaking... [The OP talked about all their other achievements they reached & how they were happy - just never had sex btw. They weren't lamenting about how they never had sex]

You don't need sex/sexual intimacy to be happy. You don't need romantic intimacy to be happy. [Obviously having those may add happiness, but like you won't live a sad depressing empty life if you're single forever &/or never have sex]

umm i need reassurance that my presence is wanted but i can’t ask for reassurance because that’s really Embarrassing and it wouldn’t feel genuine if i asked for it

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the language of the flowers as a concept is so romantic. say things with a bouquet, with a handful of petals, with a single blossom representing your devotion

i think we need to abolish subscriptions. im tired of remembering passwords and giving out my email. check out as guest, no you may not know my name. die

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

I think it’s kinda cool that my ancestors survived plagues, famines and literal wars just so that I could sit in my room all day and stare at the screen until my head hurts

when I was 14 I worked in a grocery store and one day I got to bag Stephen King’s groceries and of course, being the little horror fiction nerd I am I was completely starstruck

I think he thought I was gonna ask for an autograph because I was not even lowkey staring I was full on moon-faced and bouncing and he kept looking over at me hesitantly like aw jeez kid fuck off

anyways I finally managed to squeak out that I was a huge fan and asked for advice on writing, β€œhow do I write as well as you do?” in my horrible thick German accent and broken ass English and he gave me the best writing advice I have ever received

β€œshit kid, stop worrying about how other people do it and just write your story”

14 years later my wife and I nearly hit him with our car because he was jaywalking

However you think this story will end is wrong