what advice would you give to your 20 year old self? i’m 20 now and it feels old -_-
I would say
go to the library, study, you know nothing about anything you think you know.
embrace yourself sooner mentally. physical manifestation takes a while, there’s no avoiding that. but be honest with your own thoughts, feelings, persona, and just accept them. it’s time to stop criticizing and silencing yourself.
don’t rack up a credit card, don’t do it bitch
delete social media every other month at least
you don’t have to do something that makes you uncomfortable, as in you don’t have to hang out with people who don’t treat you right, you don’t have to do drugs if you don’t want to, you don’t have to go out if you don’t vibe with that type of scene, you literally can do what makes YOU feel happy and fulfilled. and be honest about what fills up the emptiness that and what is just a distraction from an empty feeling.
learn how to cook, actually cook. learn how to cook vegetables properly. learn how to cook rice so it’s all fluffy. learn how to fry things in oil, learn how to properly cut a vegetable.
you really don’t have to impress people
good mental health takes a lot of time, discipline, and doing things you sometimes don’t want to do. you are taking care of yourself now, you have to learn how to look out for yourself. don’t be afraid to ask for help.
you are still really really really really young




