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@wisteryas / wisteryas.tumblr.com

your friendly local useless asian Jia 25/F/♋️ (she/her) My Art Twitter
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as posts gain notes they tend to lose steam a bit so making a new updated post with new information: im miles! im 22 and have been living pretty unhappily with my family for all 22 of those years. without getting too into it my mom regularly misgenders me, my grandparents are very christian and anti-lgbt, and my sister tries her best but struggles with anger issues that make living with her very volatile. 

at the moment im on disability and unable to work, and at the same time my grandparents are seeking to sell this house and move into an old folks home. though ive been working hard to save money, between the things i need to replace (most recently a new mattress, etc) and the things i need to buy, first and last, etc im in a rough financial situation. moving back in with my family in a new place is not and cannot be an option for me and so ready or not, i need to move into a place by my own means.

the way disability works here means ill be paid more when im no longer living with family, and between that and some other things ive worked out i should be able to support myself monthly– but i need some help covering the costs of moving itself, furnishing a place, etc. i take commissions which you can see here, but i also accept any and all help through ko-fi (here) or paypal (here)

thank you to everyone whos rbed and helped out so far, i appreciate it beyond words and hopefully ill be able to stop making a fool of myself soon

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update (may 6th, 2022)

so im looking at moving either late june or early july at this point (hopefully, provided things go ok– my grandparents selling the house has been delayed but im desperate to get out of here for my mental health) and as such i need as much help as possible to get prepared to do so, especially as unfortunately ive had some unexpected expenses in the form of clothes (due to health issues most of mine werent fitting) and food

that said im incredibly thankful to the donations ive gotten thus far and not to exaggerate but idk if id have found the strength to keep going if not for the kindness of others– things have been rough lately and the fact that i know there are so many people willing and ready to help means a lot, plus like… when i had to buy my mattress i almost lost all the savings i had and had to restart and ive surpassed that amount once again due to the help ive recieved

its my dearest hope that ill stop needing help once i move and am settled in but for now everything counts, thank you all so much

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die girlies reading this 🥰

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oh my god I meant in a german accent I did not mean to wish death upon girlies