June 2012 – September 2015

10/9/2015

It’s time. I have not been active on Tumblr for a long time. It was fun while it lasted and now I would be more comfortable removing this blog. I have kept it up for people to look at if they wish for over a year now, while I moved all relevant content over to the blog helpfultransinfo.tumblr.com

If you want to contact me – message me on whereeverythingnowis.tumblr.com Can’t guarantee I will reply to every single message. If I don’t get a ridiculous amount I will try to.

If you want to know why I have deleted this blog, continue reading

Although I have thought about doing this for a long time, right now, this is sudden. I simply don’t want this here anymore, for many reasons. I would feel more comfortable without it. Mostly because some people are ill willed and I don’t need to upset the wrong crazy even when I have been irrelevant for a long time, which leads me to say I realise this isn’t a big deal. In the scheme of things no one cares, I don’t care much too, but there have been people who have liked me, what I have had to say, and even people who hate me and what I have to say but appreciated the effort I put into gathering and spreading resources. If you fit into any of those categories, thank you. Glad to have helped if and when I did. Glad to have given any of you advice you found handy, or anything positive I did. This message is for those people. I thought it would be funny to delete my blog and just fuck off without a word, but I know some people care about me or this blog.

I have mellowed more over time, and I lack the free time to update this blog. Frankly, I just don’t care. It’s a cycle that annoys me and others I engage with. At the end of the day, idiots will do what they want. It’s evident from the amount of “trans” people I see now who think transitioning medically is bad. Because they are a boy, but icky, a penis, icky, facial hair, icky, a deep voice. With how much attention being trans has got in the media since I started transitioning myself, it hasn’t all been bad.  It was very hard for me to adjust for a long time and I still am. Now I try to accept how life is now and to let the negatives impact me as little as possible by ignoring it and living my own life.

Most trans bloggers I follow are inactive so even if I did want to continue blogging, I wouldn’t have the same circle as before, and views have shifted since. It’s not the same anymore and it hasn’t been for years.

If anyone claims to be me on a new blog or any other website, do not believe them. Not that I think anyone would, I’m irrelevant as anything and I think if anyone was that bored, there would be better targets to mock. I am just covering all grounds here. My goal on Tumblr for now is to continue updating HTI semi-regularly. I am not interested in engaging in discussions I once did and I will not continue blogging as myself under some new Tumblr.

Thanks and good bye. :)

- Nick Ross