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A mess of a blog

@meew3 / meew3.tumblr.com

A personal random collection of things I like. Bigots of any kind fuck off espeically aphobes of any kind.  

While I don’t ever see myself being in one, I love the idea of queer-platonic relationships. I love that they give aspec individuals who are interested a way to indulge in relationships that can be molded and shaped into anything. I love that there are no expectations of what it needs to be or what specific things need to happen. I love that every person has the opportunity to make it fit to their own needs and wants. I love how aphobes get so angry about relationships that don’t fit their inherently-romantic standards. QPRs just simply are, and no one can mess with them. I love that. Shoutout to people who are in/want QPRs, especially those whose relationships look very different from the amatonormative standard. Y’all really rock for saying “screw you” to romantic relationship norms and making it work by creating your own instead!

Allo people never even seem to realize how pervasive romance is in virtually every facet of our lives. I go to the hairdresser, and she asks me if I'm married. I go to work, my coworkers play matchmaker. I turn on the radio, a love song is playing. I turn on the television, a love story is being depicted ad nauseum.

I once had an argument with my sister about how often songs are about romantic love, then annoyed the shit out of her by pointing it out every time for the next hour when another love song started playing.

I would kill to live in a world where romance isn't so inescapable, but since I can't reach that dream, I'm going to continue to annoy the shit out of everyone by pointing it out, godbless. <3

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it’s actually so baffling me to me that when loveless aros express not wanting their identities to be defined by love ppl will literally whip out the most specific n strange tangents on ‘love’ that you’ve ever heard under like EVERY one of these posts. theres always at least one person going ‘ok but have u ever seen a bee pollinate a flower. have u ever smiled at an old lady on the street. do u not relish the smell of fresh horse shit in the countryside’ like. sorry but appreciating the general world around me isn’t what i’d personally call love and frankly i don’t think it’s what most alloros would either!!! it’s interesting how y’all r suddenly so insistent on expanding the definition of love when and ONLY aros question and/or reject it 🤨

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very based tags by @seafoam-blues

Some people are naturally wired to be ace or aro, some people find their asexuality or aromanticism is related to or caused by outside factors.

It doesn't matter why you relate to asexual or aromantic as labels, only that you do.

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The defense(‘s family) rests

[ID: A digital drawing of DGS characters as they appear in DGS2. Going clockwise from the left, Susato, Ryuunosuke, Herlock, Gina, and Iris are on a couch under a blanket. Ryuunosuke is sitting in the back, sleeping. Herlock is leaning on him with his mouth wide open. In the front, Gina is dozing, cuddling Toby, and Wagahai sits near her. Iris is laying down sideways, head resting on her arm. Susato is sitting up sleeping as well. Susato and Ryuunosuke are in their DLC outfits, and the entire drawing is in soft tones. End ID]