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bianca (she/her) - made of dreams and stardust.
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people with big extended families that are all super close do u know how lucky you are. like this isn't a shame post to make u feel bad this is genuinely a soft reminder bc i know how easy it is to take something for granted when it's such a normalised part of your life, so this is me saying you're lucky. you're so so lucky. people who live near or with grandparents and adore them. people who laugh with their aunts and uncles. people whose first friends were their cousins and first memories are of them getting up to mischief. people whose families meet up for huge meals and parties that are loud and annoying and messy but fun and full of love and people you know really well even if it is your grandma's second husband's daughter. entire communities built around one last name. you're so fucking lucky, make sure to appreciate them <3

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My heart goes out to the Irish in these trying times. May you not contract alcohol poisoning from celebrating the news

i think that at this point. at THIS point of Things. you can pretty safely assume that almost no one is Doing Well, so instead of being a real shitlord about tiny problems, maybe instead go out of your way to be kinder and more patient to everyone around you.

or at least fucking fake it.

or at least just be quiet.

these are the guiding principles of 2022

  • assume no one is OK
  • use that as fuel for kindness and bridge-building, not pettiness
  • if you can’t be kind, be quiet
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No but in all seriousness, memes aside, much love to all my friends in the UK right now. I know shit's about to be chaotic and nationalistic and shitty, and I hope the media circus ends as quickly as possible.

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the chris pine thing is so funny

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like here’s chris pine living his absolute best life reading books and loving film and definitely not writing erotica and he’s dropped into a movie that seems like it’s going to be fine like you’ve got florence pugh and former boy band superstar harry styles and nick kroll (??) and shia labeouf (?????) but whatever it’s fine olivia wilde is directing except whoops she falls in love with harry styles and pisses off her boyfriend (ex boyfriend) who’s been having his post-snl renaissance with an apple whatever tv show and so then olivia gets served custody papers while she’s on stage at a film convention and then it turns out florence pugh is actually friends with jason sudeikis and was going to cameo on ted lasso because florence’s ex (zac braff???) was directing some of it and here’s chris pine and living his best life but he’s in a movie where the director is dating the male lead and the female lead isn’t talking to the director because of the everything and then shia laboeouf leaves the film and it’s probably because he’s a pos and the director implies it’s because he’s a pos but then shia posts a vague video showing olivia wilde calling florence pugh miss flo and it’s from month’s ago over nothing but it’s chaos and it’s the venice film fest and you’re chris pine and you’re trapped in venice with these people and harry styles kisses nick kroll on the lips and harry styles is saying the movie is a movie that feels like a film like a real film and florence pugh is fucking gone and it’s just you and then harry styles spits on you (????) and it’s caught on film and you’re chris pine and all you wanted was to be in a movie and write some erotica on the side

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Hey what the fuck.

and you’re chris pine and you only have a flip phone so you have no idea that the whole internet is cheering you on