Not even kidding I’m so grateful for everything that I have rn but I’m really praying for more connections, more joy, more happiness, more love, more people, more energy, more life in the years to come and I know I will be receiving all of that + more
i hope you know that you deserve a place in this world. that there will always be someone who’s life will be made better by you existing in it
tomorrow’s gonna be just fine. that conflict you’re having with your friend will blow over. no one secretly hates you. the world is not out to get you. it’s ok to feel stressed out. it’s ok to crack under pressure sometimes. you are perfectly capable of enduring whatever life throws your way. everything will be alright. you’re gonna be ok.
tbh life’s too short to be embarrassed by little things ??? wear that outfit ur mom said was ugly & laugh ur natural too loud laugh & talk to intimidating people u find interesting !!! join cringy clubs & read books everyone hates & wear too much eyeliner !!! if shit doesn’t work out who cares !!! people who are worth being around will stick by u anyway !!!
please go to sleep knowing you are needed, wanted, beautiful and lovable. don’t be so harsh on yourself; you are doing just fine, and your happiness and well-being is the priority. eat something. drink water. get some rest. i love you. you can make it through this
Happy New Year! 🎉✨
This is a good time of year to reflect, reset, and start working on new goals one step at a time! It’s also a good time to remember that you are wonderful and enough just as you are, and taking things one day at a time is progress too! Remember every day is a new chance to reflect on where you are and reset your goals if needed, so if today’s not the day, that’s cool!
Live life at your own pace and do things when you’re ready. <- This will be one of my many goals for this year!
“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something. So that’s my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody’s ever made before. Don’t freeze, don’t stop, don’t worry that it isn’t good enough, or it isn’t perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life. Whatever it is you’re scared of doing, Do it. Make your mistakes, next year and forever.”
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25% is better than 0%. trying a little is better than not trying at all. eating a protein bar is better than nothing. using dry shampoo is better than not showering. cleaning one section of your room or house is better than not cleaning any of it. writing a paragraph of your essay is better than not starting it. whatever you can manage today is okay. you can try again tomorrow. little steps are to be proud of.
please make sure that wherever you’re at in life, you don’t treat it like a transitory period. don’t waste your college years wishing to already be graduated & have a job. don’t waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. if/when those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. but there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you were hoping for something better. while it’s important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don’t neglect the present because that’s where you are now and it’s your now that determines your future.
I really love confrontation, I love addressing issues I have with people… I hate letting things fester inside me, I refuse to sacrifice any sleep due to unresolved conflicts!
tomorrow will be better and if it’s not I’ll say it again
there is no audience to perform for, there is no approval, no admiration to attain. there is no role worth playing, there is no one to convince. let it go
✨better see you there✨
[Video transcript: I know today was a rough day, but there’s this party happening called “tomorrow” and I better see you there. Be there or be square you freaking nerd. /end transcript]
every now and then the internet decides it should revamp the ole “stop texting first and see how many friends you lose” when in reality you could literally just communicate that u feel bad that ur the only one texting first
mfs are legit assuming that their friend isnt texting first because of how little they care abt their friendship when in reality they literally just dont know ur upset and didnt realize there was a problem in the first place. just talk to ur friends its not that hard and if they’re a bitch just tell them to kick rocks
Also just in general, texting is a tough way to communicate emotions. For clearer communication you could give them a call or meet up in person and mention it. You also don’t have to directly say “Why do I always text first?” if that’s too awkward. You could say, “Hey, I feel like we’re always doing things I suggest. What do you want to do next time? Text me and let me know.”
Keep in mind that some people are also just bad at texting, forget to text back, or have other things going on their lives. We’re all human. If you are invested in the friendship and you think they are too, it’s worth finding out the best way for you to communicate. Maybe it’s just not over text!