bruce really said: yesΒ Iβll dress like the parody of a factory worker because my father spent his entire life working hard, menial jobs he couldnβt keep because he was driven to addiction by untreated mental illness both familial and worsened by the war, and he despised my softness, and insulted my sensitivity and my scrawniness and my long hair and called me a sissy and screamed at me all the time, so when Iβll be onΒ stage doing the one thing he hated the most - also the only thing I know how to do - Iβll look exactly like the kind of man he wanted me to be