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We are fundraising for Ian, who was just diagnosed with Stage 3 ALK-Negative Anaplastic Large T-Cell Lymphoma, after we found a large tumor in his lung. This is a pretty uncommon and aggressive type of cancer, so we are expecting a lot of money to go into beating it. Any little bit you can contribute helps us SO much. Thank you for your support!
we are 25% of the way there!
No donations in the last 7 days so im reblogging again 💙
btw if you do want to complain abt tumblr post plus theres a feedback survey staff posted in regards to it so go buck wild folks
what cis people dont realize is that i have genders and im not afraid to use them
PSA to singlets. No you do not have to give your opinion on if did exists/a sysyem is faking/how did actually works/how common did is ect ect every time you see a system online. Theres actually a really fun alternative: shutting the fuck up
DO:
• Accept them. Tell them that you still respect and care for them.
• Tell them that you are there if they need your help.
• Tell them to let you know if there are any triggers that are important for you to know. If they choose to tell you any, be patient and understanding. Listen attentively.
Helpful things to say or ask:
• “Is there anything you need me to do to make sure you feel safe in our relationship?
• “If you want to tell me more about it, I am here to listen.”
• “If there are any triggers you think I should be aware of, please let me know.”
• “I’m here if you need help with anything.”
• “I still love you and you are still my friend/family/partner.”
DON’T:
• Ask if they are dangerous or if they are going to harm you.
• Ask them what their trauma is.
• Call them crazy.
• Suggest that their mental illness is caused by supernatural or pseudoscientific means. (AKA, NEVER suggest that someone is possessed or haunted.)
• Bombard them with questions.
• Demand proof.
• Force then to switch as evidence.
• React in an unkind or rude way.
• Minimize or invalidate them.
• Tell them DID isn’t real.
• Deny their existence or refuse to call their alters by their names.
• Demand any answers from them.
Unhelpful things to say or ask:
• “I’ve known you for [span of time]. I would have noticed if you had it.”
• “It’s fine as long as you aren’t going to murder me.”
• “What’s your trauma? Did [traumatic event] happen to you?”
• “Isn’t that really rare? How could you have it?”
• “You had an easy childhood so there’s no way.”
• “You don’t know what ‘hard’ is.” “You were lucky to have the childhood you had.”
• “I just don’t get why you’re doing this to me.”
• “Can you imagine how hard this is for me?”
• “Tell me your triggers.”
DO:
• Be patient with them.
• Tell them that it’s okay, and to take their time.
• Politely ask who’s fronting.
• Reintroduce yourself, as if a new person just walked into the room.
• Fill them in if they are unaware of what is going on.
DON’T:
• Snap or clap in their face.
• Express that you only want to interact with the previously fronting alter.
• Raise your voice, or try to force them to “snap out of” their dissociation.
• Ask if they are going to harm you, or if they are “evil”.
• Tell them “they should know what’s happening”, or refuse to fill them in on what is happening.
• Accuse or blame them for not being a good friend, not listening, or dissociating. 
🖤 Delphine
can i get some love for psychotic systems.
psychotic systems who doubt their plurality because of their psychosis.
psychosis systems who are fakeclaimed by others or doubted by proffesionals because of their psychotic symptoms.
psychotic systems where all alters hallucinate, or have delusions.
psychotic systems where one alter takes the brunt, or even all of the symptoms, or only a handful hallucinate or have delusions.
we need more psychotic system appriciation
you are extremely good looking and it makes me want to cut my hair the same length
thank you!!!!!! I think you should try it!! The great thing about hair is that it grows out, I highly support everybody exploring their hair and styles!!!!
I’m the Animal and I kill things
thats so problematic
Literally rooting through your garbage for meats right now
you know there's an entire delicious steak here under this box held up by a stick
Oh fuck yeah oh fuck yeah oh fuck yeah oh fuck yeah oh fuck yeah
Instead of requiring my henchmen to wear matching uniforms, I allow each of them to design their own costume and encourage them all to develop their own unique battle techniques, making each henchperson a minor villain in their own right rather than simply one of a horde
My facility encourages evil career development
male gaze in the left eye female gaze in the right now i gaze upon you all in the most disrespectful ways possible from every direction
imo all movies being some kind of superhero shit paid for by disney is kind of like when every painting and sculpture was some jesus shit comissioned by the catholic church
marvel movies
cathedrals
i'll be honest this was less an attempt to make a serious point and more of an attempt to upset marvel fans and catholics with one post
I'm sick of being one of the Good Trans People™ I want to start throwing rocks at people who say that shit to me
"It's so cool how you don't make a big deal about pronouns" oh I want to kill you when you misgender me I just don't start shit because I know nobody in this room would back me up
