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I'm Becky. This is my Tumblr.

@beckyhop / beckyhop.tumblr.com

31, she/her. I draw stuff, I like animals and weird biology trivia, and I overthink things. Feel free to tell me if I need to tag something. Opinions are mine and not those of any employers. Please don't drag any fandom posts I make into ship discourse, I am very tired.
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Rant I did recently regarding "puriteen" discourse that could also apply to shipping discourse, or really any post involving "problematic" media because holy HELL is this a pattern I hate.

And you know what? Tumblr folks have less of an excuse for being vague, because you DO have more room to provide context. Just SAY WHAT YOU MEAN.

The answer is they always mean “any acknowledgement that sex exists unless it’s in media I personally like”.

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Okay, hold on, is this something you've actually seen said? I don't want to jump to conclusions, in fact, jumping to conclusions is the reason WHY I made this post.

They don’t say it, but it’s definitely the way they act. Lots of antis throw fits if a fanficcer hints at anything unseemly but themselves enjoy media like Hetalia and Homestuck (which are both full of pedophile and Holocaust jokes). See @just-antithings​ for examples and I’m sure they can point you to more.

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I'm...not interested in that blog, thanks. I'm not an anti or pro or whatever and I don't want to fully align myself with either side, I just prefer to know the context before I judge any piece of media, and wish people would just explain what they mean, and I don't know why they simply won't.

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Rant I did recently regarding "puriteen" discourse that could also apply to shipping discourse, or really any post involving "problematic" media because holy HELL is this a pattern I hate.

And you know what? Tumblr folks have less of an excuse for being vague, because you DO have more room to provide context. Just SAY WHAT YOU MEAN.

The answer is they always mean “any acknowledgement that sex exists unless it’s in media I personally like”.

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Okay, hold on, is this something you've actually seen said? I don't want to jump to conclusions, in fact, jumping to conclusions is the reason WHY I made this post.

Rant I did recently regarding "puriteen" discourse that could also apply to shipping discourse, or really any post involving "problematic" media because holy HELL is this a pattern I hate.

And you know what? Tumblr folks have less of an excuse for being vague, because you DO have more room to provide context. Just SAY WHAT YOU MEAN.

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Oh this hit all my red flags, I've torn down 3 already just walking Malaya to the park

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If you see shit like this Especially outside your local highschools rip it down there's a 80% chance this is a trafficking scam

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Thankfully seems I'm not the only one in town who feels this way

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This is totally ok to rb by the way

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Scam signs:

  1. Targeting teens
  2. No actual mention of the job company or what you'll be doing
  3. Paid daily
  4. Promises of trips and prizes
  5. Encouraging you to bring a friend or relative who's also a teen

this ad contains a US phone number. i’ve volunteered with/for survivors of human trafficking in the US for over five years and underwent training to do so. only a very small percentage of human trafficking occurs as a result of kidnappings in the US. thinking every scam number is a front for traffickers is a byproduct of moral panic and does not actually help address the issue.

the vast majority of trafficked youth are young people who are either manipulated by someone they know (family members are involved in at least HALF of all child trafficking cases) or turn to labor trafficking or underage sex work due to vulnerability and desperation. children who have runaway, been thrown out of their homes, are in the juvenile justice system, are in foster care, and/or are migrants are among the most vulnerable to being trafficked. LGBT+ youth have a notably high vulnerability.

human trafficking very rarely looks like a white van, or an agency pretending to hire you for after school work before spiriting you away to be trafficked. successful human traffickers would not advertise this way.

it looks like corporations and farms that violate workers’ rights, abusive family members or guardians, older partners, and online predators who ingratiate themselves into children’s lives and become trusted friends.

this poster is almost definitely for an MLM or some similar scam.

Either way, see this shit. Steer clear.

Also, it may not be a *super sucessful* method for traffickers, but dont be fooled, they do have this up like the above but in different designs/posters. Also, traffickers dont want just 1 kind of person, thats why they're traffickers. They are looking for anyone vulnerable enough. They could be trafficking you for sex, for making children to sell, for luring other people away, for black market selling of your organs, like you never know the intentions of people but there are many bad intentions of traffickers/kidnappers. Please just fact check anything before jumping on it. Hell even report it to the police and ask them to verify if its real if you have to.

I will say, some volunteer programs with low budgets sometimes post flyers but they'll never look like that. They will always have the name of the company on them and a name that you can mention to call. ALSO, BIG RED FLAG IF YOU CANT LEAVE A MESSAGE ON THAT NUMBER.

no offense but you’re incorrect and not helping. moral panic and paranoia is not useful.

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You know what, I'm gonna need to see people's sources on how they "know" stuff like this is done by human traffickers, because it feels like so many urban legends I've heard before.

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Oh this hit all my red flags, I've torn down 3 already just walking Malaya to the park

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If you see shit like this Especially outside your local highschools rip it down there's a 80% chance this is a trafficking scam

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Thankfully seems I'm not the only one in town who feels this way

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This is totally ok to rb by the way

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Scam signs:

  1. Targeting teens
  2. No actual mention of the job company or what you'll be doing
  3. Paid daily
  4. Promises of trips and prizes
  5. Encouraging you to bring a friend or relative who's also a teen

this ad contains a US phone number. i’ve volunteered with/for survivors of human trafficking in the US for over five years and underwent training to do so. only a very small percentage of human trafficking occurs as a result of kidnappings in the US. thinking every scam number is a front for traffickers is a byproduct of moral panic and does not actually help address the issue.

the vast majority of trafficked youth are young people who are either manipulated by someone they know (family members are involved in at least HALF of all child trafficking cases) or turn to labor trafficking or underage sex work due to vulnerability and desperation. children who have runaway, been thrown out of their homes, are in the juvenile justice system, are in foster care, and/or are migrants are among the most vulnerable to being trafficked. LGBT+ youth have a notably high vulnerability.

human trafficking very rarely looks like a white van, or an agency pretending to hire you for after school work before spiriting you away to be trafficked. successful human traffickers would not advertise this way.

it looks like corporations and farms that violate workers’ rights, abusive family members or guardians, older partners, and online predators who ingratiate themselves into children’s lives and become trusted friends.

this poster is almost definitely for an MLM or some similar scam.

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btw a lot of harry styles looks hes been praised for being gnc are like. direct copies of juan gabriel's suits

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Fun fact! the reason you associate colorful suits with being latino? The reason is him :)

He actively pushed the boundaries of how a male ranchera singer should look, behave and write.

Cantantes de ranchera usually use charro inspired outfits, but they were unchanged for decades until he started making music and innovating in the fashion industry :D just look at the comparisons. The Vicente Fernández picture is from around the same time as the picture next to it.

He didn't behave like the typical ranchera singer, which earned him quite a bit of following because ranchera singers are usually very "macho" while he was the entire opposite.

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I ADORE that a hellraiser reboot with a lady pinhead is one of the things generating outrage about “wokeness.” Someone out there as we speak is angry at the liberal hippie suggestion that a woman is also allowed to be tortured and mutilated into an avatar of the leviathan

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Willing to bet good money that most of the people making those complaints don't know who Clive Barker is

HOLLERING

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I mean hate on the rich kids, that’s great, but hate on em for the right reasons lol Perfectly legal consensual relationships between adults is kind of a weak reason. Unless u just wanna go on about men being slimey. Yes, we know. They be like “KILL HIM” in the comments lol I also always enjoy the addition of “white”. “Old white men need to be stopped” - a comment. As if it’s exclusive to any ethnicity that middle aged men are attracted to younger women. You do realize these are just the people you get confronted with 24/7 by the media? There’s wayyy worse endless cases of actually dangerous and rapey age gaps outside of the western world where it’s still often considered a “norm” to marry children or there’s laws against women driving, educating themselves etc. What is this obsession with a handful of Hollywood celebrities and blaming everything ever on them lol These are all way past legal consenting adults and this is a class issue and not a race issue, idiots. Rich men get young women. Let’s dive into why shall we then? Because society raised us to expect men to be sole providers and women to conform and use their sexuality. Which sucks duh. That’s the bottom line. Everywhere, always. Not just in Hollywood. I know people my age-ish who would get with him in a heartbeat despite the 20 year age difference merely due to attraction. You might not think this person is attractive but this is clearly subjective. Why you acting like he’s Harvey Weinstein?

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Bro, I just like to make fun of him for not being able to handle his girlfriends turning 25. What, did he base his dating policy on Logan's Run?

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Here’s something for y’all:

(…) Camila Morrone told the Los Angeles Times, "There's so many relationships in Hollywood—and in the history of the world—where people have large age gaps," adding, "I just think anyone should be able to date who they want to date.” Source: https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/news/g27849/leonardo-dicaprio-dating-history/

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1. You know not all age gaps are created equal, right? You can have a healthy relationship with a noticeable age gap, it's more about whether or not there's a power imbalance

2. No one is calling DiCaprio the next Harvey Weinstein, we're just making fun of him for acting like women have an expiration date.

HOLLERING

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I mean hate on the rich kids, that’s great, but hate on em for the right reasons lol Perfectly legal consensual relationships between adults is kind of a weak reason. Unless u just wanna go on about men being slimey. Yes, we know. They be like “KILL HIM” in the comments lol I also always enjoy the addition of “white”. “Old white men need to be stopped” - a comment. As if it’s exclusive to any ethnicity that middle aged men are attracted to younger women. You do realize these are just the people you get confronted with 24/7 by the media? There’s wayyy worse endless cases of actually dangerous and rapey age gaps outside of the western world where it’s still often considered a “norm” to marry children or there’s laws against women driving, educating themselves etc. What is this obsession with a handful of Hollywood celebrities and blaming everything ever on them lol These are all way past legal consenting adults and this is a class issue and not a race issue, idiots. Rich men get young women. Let’s dive into why shall we then? Because society raised us to expect men to be sole providers and women to conform and use their sexuality. Which sucks duh. That’s the bottom line. Everywhere, always. Not just in Hollywood. I know people my age-ish who would get with him in a heartbeat despite the 20 year age difference merely due to attraction. You might not think this person is attractive but this is clearly subjective. Why you acting like he’s Harvey Weinstein?

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Bro, I just like to make fun of him for not being able to handle his girlfriends turning 25. What, did he base his dating policy on Logan's Run?