Hey, you. I… I couldn’t help but notice you are having a rough day… May I offer you some snuggie rats in consolation?

Hi I cannot believe the sheer volume of notes on this post every time it pops up in my notes. Like fuck it’s fucking ¾ of the way to being one of those 100K notes posts

Apocalyptic literature needs to be weirder. Too many psychopath lone wanderers and machine-worshipping cults, not enough people devoted to copying fanfic by hand in fandomonasteries.

This profoundly resonates with me for some reason.

More wandering nomad groups with complex hospitality rituals.

More traders of woven plastic fibres

Children playing in wrecked machinery making up stories about Times Past

Wandering Story Keepers and musicians and artists and artisans creating and shaping and bringing colour and joy and catharsis in their wake

Bizarre festivals that only barely resemble familiar ones, like The Feast of Kris The Giver who the Tellers say was crucified by people who thought he was hoarding resources when in fact the Red Garbed Man was giving them all away as he found them

Ok but you know what I want more than anything? Jewish people doing their fricking darndest to not change their culture. Grapes may be extinct but that won't stop them because you can use bread for the kiddush instead. In a few millennia when pigs do fly (they are some really scary predators now), dinosaurs walk the Earth again, and civilization is but ash, the Jewish people still keep Shabbat and study Torah.

I mean, it's not the first time that Jews lost their civilization (nor the second, or even third or fourth). The only difference is that this time everyone else lost theirs as well.

Yellow headed day gecko

I think it’s important to recognise that hostility toward competing access needs is an inevitable consequence of treating “neurotypical” and “neurodivergent” as a pair of binary categories into which all people can neatly be sorted. If you’re thinking about neurodivergent people as a monolithic group who all have certain specific traits, and neurotypical people as a complementary monolith who all have the exact opposite of those specific traits, there are a lot of legitimate access needs that are going to sound like bullshit to you.

(And no, it’s not merely a matter of failing to distinguish between broad neurotypes. Just look at all the lateral aggression you run into with different subsets of autistic folks each insisting that the other’s communication style is neurotypical bullshit!)

Today's mood

Ig shes not done hating the poor yet…..

upset and don’t know why? Appease the Brains

lizard brain

questions: do i have food, water, and safe shelter? 

solutions: drink more water. drink things with electrolytes. make and stick to a food schedule that works for you. clean your room. if you are in an unsafe situation, talk to someone trusted about creating a plan to get out 

toddler brain 

questions: have i had enough rest? am i been getting what i need to be healthy? am i cared for? am i frustrated? 

solutions: make sure you’re getting enough sleep on a schedule that works for you (people naturally sleep better at different times and need different amounts of sleep. if youre young you will need to sleep more than 7 or 8 hours). make sure you have varied nutrition in your diet. make sure your medications and supplements are working for you and take them on schedule. work on developing a support system that meets your needs. take breaks from things if you feel burned out, even if it’s only for a day 

monkey brain 

questions: have i had enrichment in my life? am i stuck in a rut? have i had socialization, entertainment, and creativity? has anything challenged me lately? 

solutions: limit your time on social media. make an effort to be in new environments - even if its another room in your house or backyard. examine what is or isn’t working in your routine. pick up a new hobby (if you’re more physically active, consider a hobby like writing or coding. if you’re more mentally active, consider a hobby like woodworking, bookbinding, or a sport). write stories, make art, and write analyses (if you haven’t tried original work - focus on that for a little while). try new music. try a new food. build something with legos. consume a new type of media even if you’re not sure you’ll like it (like graphic novels, radio plays, or watching ballet). take on a long term project and set aside time to work on it on a schedule (whether its every day, every few days, or specific days each week) 

human brain 

questions: do i feel loved? do i feel understood? am i existentially fulfilled? do i have a sense of purpose? do i have a sense of meaning? am i contributing to the lives of the people i care about and are they doing the same for me in return? 

solutions: reach out to friends and loved ones, and do activities together, like play a game online or walk in the park. talk to safe people about things that upset you, such as a trusted friend or a therapist, and find steps to improve your mental health. interrogate whether your religious beliefs are working for you, and if they are, make an effort to practice your faith, whether that is attending services (including digitally if they have them), reading and discussing your religious texts, or following holidays. read self help books or blogs from trusted professionals. read about philosophy and interrogate your own understanding of things. learn how to communicate your needs, thoughts, and desires to people who will listen. be active in your community (whether in community service, activism, or getting involved in local politics). adopt a rescue animal. give money to causes you care about. make an effort to learn about points of view and lived experiences that are different than your own. challenge assumptions about how you are expected to live your life and decide whether you want those things or not. express love for the people you care about - through kind words, good acts, crafts, or otherwise. if there are steps in your life you have been afraid of taking, make a plan to take them 

if you fulfill higher needs before lower needs, you will still feel bad. if you feel bad and don’t know why, start lower and work your way up. basic needs must be met before moving on healthily 

Fuck personality tests. Who comes to your mind when I say "Michael"