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PSA: JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN STAYS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP DOESN’T MEAN THE MAN IS ANY LESS OF A PIECE OF SHIT.
That is all.
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It’s really hard to see what an abusive relationship looks like until you’re finally out of it.
You tell yourself that everyone experiences the same trials.
That everyone goes to sleep crying.
That everyone fights daily.
You start counting the number of days you actually feel happy.
And they always add up to zero.
You tell yourself that you have to stick it out, because “relationships take work.”
It’s not until you’ve been out of it, you realize that you were the only one doing the work.
That he/she was the reason you were crying,
That they were the ones yelling, while you were sitting there taking it.
It’s not until you’ve taken a step back and admitted to yourself that:
Yes, I was in an abusive relationship.
Yes, I have a lot of work to do.
You have to learn to be patient with yourself.
You have to learn that relationships should never be that hard.
You were not at fault. Ever.
You are the victim.
But there is hope.
Be gentle with yourself, you will heal.
Maybe this will help someone else. (via mysweetsuki)
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So I took you back, thinking somehow this time it would be different. We would do it right. And the first few days were lovely, the summer breeze, refreshing smell of roses, how are hands fell perfectly in each other- like puzzle pieces finally put back together. But how could I expect the storm to not hit again? The words out of your mouth were suddenly just as cruel and conniving as they were not so long ago. And now I’m back in the same self destructive position I had allowed myself to become trapped in before. I put myself back here. So I deserve to wallow in my own self pity.
- Classy (via classymuthaafuka)
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You colored me black, blue, and purple then called me beautiful.
You fed me lies and bullshit then disguised it as truth.
You hurt me and broke me then had the nerve to call it love.
Abuse / deepthoughtsofanobody (via deepthoughtsofanobody)
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“My puddin’s a little rough sometimes, but he loves me really”
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WOW.
Truer words were never spoken.
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There’s no going back, but there is a way forward.
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Just a reminder that breaking up with someone who is toxic to your life is not a two person decision. It isn’t up to them whether you break up with them or not, don’t buy into the whole “you can’t do this to us” bullcrap. Yes, you can.
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Source: kushandwizdom
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Yes!!
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Source: twitter.com