@maleyphoto
Ladies to achieve anything worthwhile in this life you have to get very comfortable with the idea of embarrassment ,disappointment, resistance and ostracization from your current environment.
When you start out posting on socials, your current friends, family, classmates, and neighbors will laugh at you. They'll call you pretentious and put you down every step you take. Online trolls will call you a wannabe and put you down and compare you to others. You'll deal with six likes on a post that took you hours to perfect. When you get your first brand deal, it'll be as low value as it gets.Then there will be all the virtue signaling and getting canceled and character anhiliation that comes with projected envy. When you start that business, your friends will expect discounts and debt and cut you off for not giving them one. When you start getting successful, they'll feel entitled to your success and hate on you for not crediting them to it. When you decide to leave the country, your own parents will come at you from angles higher than 360°. When you decide to dress better and sit upright and smell nice, your current friend group that's used to low balling you will have a group chat called 'lmaoo she looks so stupid'.
This is the price of success. Success is lonely. Its hard work and being underestimated. It's losing best friends and rifts in your family. You'll shower in tears and triple guess every decision you've taken. Success is uncomfortable and slow, and it will cost you friendships and relationships, and comfort.
If you can't stomach this, don't try. If you can't imagine not being friends with your current friends or your own family backbiting and badmouthing you at family gatherings and your cousins laughing at you and ex classmates from 2014 trolling your work stay where you are.
If you decide to chase your dreams understand you'll be running solo. Understand your mom and bf and bestie said 'I'll support you through everything ' to be polite and they might even have meant it but the second you start showing up as a different person than what they're comfortable with there will be resistance and be ready to work through it with them while staying true to your goals.
If you choose the success way forget the romanticized success stories. It's gruesome . It's survival only for the fittest, and either go big or go home mediocre, there is no mid point.
do it anyway.
Ты ушла непривычно резко. Не оставив ключей и писем. Без возможности попрощаться и загладить свою вину. Оттого мне сейчас и тяжко, что среди пары тройки женщин (тех, кого ты мне не простила) я любил лишь тебя одну.
We all have days where we just don't feel like doing anything, and that's totally normal. But, when we consistently let our emotions get in the way of our goals, that's when we have a problem.
Discipline is key. If you set a goal for yourself, you owe it to yourself to follow through on it. Letting yourself stay comfortable might feel good in the moment, but it won't help you in the long run.
When you make a plan and stick to it you're taking control of your life. You're showing yourself that you're capable of making positive changes, even when it's hard. And, let's be real, it's not always easy to stay on track.
But, here's the good news: you're stronger than you think. You're not going to die from doing that 15-minute workout. You’re not going to miss out on anything. In fact, you'll feel better afterwards. Your mind will feel clearer. You will probably gain motivation too.
It’s all mental.
The next time you're struggling with motivation, try to shift your focus to discipline. Retrain your mindset that now feels safer when you’re operating out of your current routine and habits. Remember that you're in control of your actions, and that small steps lead to big changes. You got this!