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Bi-Them On Standbi

@bi-them-on-standbi

Hey! I’m a Biromantic, Bisexual, Nobinary Agender with They/Them pronouns. I’m super open minded so don’t be scared to tell me anything! (Except Pedo stuff) Not looking to date, or make friends, but wouldn’t mind having fun conversations! Sorry that’s so long, but- Have fun!

My abusive mother is trying to institutionalize me & put me in a conservatorship. Please help me fund my escape plan across a few states.

Long story short my mother called me this morning informing me to be ready that I will be institutionalized against my will (as she is a manipulative person and has made her friends believe her and agree with her on this stance). I rather die than be put into conservatorship or to be institutionalized. I have a place to stay a few states away, but I need to save enough to have the professional movers haul my belongings I CANNOT leave behind as I am disabled and cannot make the long trip myself. The professional move will cover gas, fees, boxes, insurance, and the move itself, but it will be around 2000 dollars. (The price is steep, but it keeps me from driving 2 - 3 days, paying for the gas myself, having things happen along the way to the rental, etc. The moving company will cover everything - U-Haul will still cost me around 1.2k plus + gas + whatever else comes up.)

I am going to try to save up enough around the time I planned on visiting my beloved anyway as we bought a plane ticket for July a month ago. I added some supplies to my wishlist for packing my stuff as I won't be getting any of the packing materials I need now like these until when the movers are on their way. I will be packing what I want to keep, selling what I can part with, and I can find boxes locally for free at least.

The goal price is higher if the move turns into an emergency move and the movers charge me even more for the up-front schedule, and if it's still around July then the excess will go towards the bills + fees of me registering for a new state license, rent, etc.

I would not be moving until things were in better condition, but with my mother threatening me I needed to make this move sooner. Again, I am so sorry to be asking for help again, but this is life or death for me I REFUSE to let this happen to me and I cannot bear to leave my belongings behind for her to put her greedy hands on.

paypal: partange1 cashapp: par1demon amazon: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/37P45EQYVHZZT?ref_=wl_share GOAL: 2500

$105/2500! Tysm for those who are able to donate + those who have shared this! Please keep sharing this, and thank you to those who sent me encouragement over this horrible situation! ;;

$676/2500! I am in tears! We are almost already halfway to the goal! Thank you for sharing still! I am getting the help I need in this dire situation! Thank you! ;;;

Like and reblog if your account is a safe space for trans lesbians. It feels like trans lesbians in particular get shamed and ridiculed a lot by people in and out of the community. If you’re reading this I want to let you know you’re valid and I hope your safe and doing well.

Very irregular reminder that this is a radically inclusive space! All good faith identities are accepted and warmly welcomed here. It's okay to not understand certain identities, but please treat the people who hold them with kindness and respect.

If you would wish to gatekeep - please move along. Thank you.

Hello and welcome to ipsevague-culture-is!

I'm mod Z or Zephyr and I use they/he/xe pronouns. I'm ok with all neos as well.

My main blog is @pissy-shitty-boi

So, what is ipsevague? Well it's a term coined by @/digicoinz and @/katsukascarf. It's a term for people who have so many identity labels they often lose track of them all. You can also use numeipsvague too if you want. It means you have difficulty counting or keeping count of all of your identities. Here is a more detailed description of the term(s)

Here is the flag

DNI: homophobes, transphobes, xenophobes, queerphobes, anti mspec gays/lesbians, anti a-spec, anti mogai, pedos/maps/people who sexualise minors, nsfw blogs (I'm a minor), terfs, just the basic dni criteria

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If any of my posts blow up please let it be this one:

Australia is currently petitioning to make it that all gender confirming surgeries for transgender individuals are covered by Medicare. This is absolutely huge as surgeries are super expensive even with private health insurance.

It doesn't ask for an address or phone number or anything so I think anyone in the world can sign for it? But I'm not entirely sure.

EDIT: yeah you gotta be a citizen, so if you're outside the country, if you could reblog this to reach more Australians, this would be amazing!

Here's the petition link:

Petition information:

Please reblog this and spread it as far and wide as you can, this is super important!

@gnc-culture-is idk if you take these you're just the only one i know with a wide reach-

normally we don't, but I'll make an exception for this. - Mod Rob

Hello! Hey, don't mind but umm how do you know you're bi coz like I'm absolutely freaking out that I might be bi or if its just a phase...H e l p

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While I may not be the best for this, all I can really say is that you need to think about yourself. Have you ever had a crush on a girl? Have you ever had a crush on a guy? What about an Enby? If you answered two or more of those with yes, then... yes you’re possibly Bi. I hope that’s hopeful, I’m not great at this type of thing ^^;

I know this joke above is a normal one for Bi people to make, and heck! Even I laugh at it, and say it. Because it’s true. It is an experience I’ve had, and I’m sure I’m not the only one.

But I wanted to say that this thought process is wrong.

You are Bi. No matter whether you like Girls more, or Boys more, or Enbys more. You are Bi.

Bi isn’t a 50/50 even split, and if you are a 50/50 split well thats fine too. But it isn’t always.

Being Bi is a diverse label that a lot of different people can, and do, use.

So don’t worry about how many people you like, or how many people you date. Just because you have a crush on someone/date someone it doesn’t make you any less Bi.

Remembers its not always a 50/50 split, and that’s ok.

Love y’all! <3 <3

good morning! what a wonderful day to normalize straight girls having crushes on trans guys and straight guys having crushes on trans girls!

terfs don;t even fuckign look at this post thanks

AND NORMALIZE CIS LESBIANS HAVING CRUSHES ON TRANS WOMEN AND CIS GAY MEN HAVING CRUSHES ON TRANS MEN

(via @kayas-wife)

Reblog to piss off a TERF

How about reblog to support trans people instead

Reblog to support trans people and piss off TERFs

Beautiful!

This is the Rage-Filled Bisexual pride flag!

Red is for being fed up with bi erasure and biphobia

Dusty purple is for getting sick of biphobia and stereotyping perpetuated by people in the LGBT community as well as by cishets

Purple is for knowing that bisexuality is inclusive of trans & nonbinary people and getting tired of having to correct people on that

Free to use with credit!

[biphobes dni]

Now do a super bisexual flag that excludes trans people

I love this flag!

Today is the only day you can reblog this

[ID: a tweet by ‘Progress Bar 2021’ @/ProgressBar202_ reading, “2021 is 69% complete,” with an image of a black progress bar filled in till 69% in green. it was posted on 10th september 2021 at 1:54 am. /end ID.]

incase it wasn’t clear - i am and my blog is anti-terf 👍

I just lost some followers :) Good

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Remember to love and uplift trans women, not just hate terfs.

Loving the hurt instead of attacking the hater will always be more appreciated

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second image: a black batter with green accents reading: pro trans women /end id]

we are pro trans people on this blog, just in case anyone forgot 

If ur anti-trans or anti-any member of the lgbtq+ community BEGONE

Just lost a follower

good riddance :)