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That's Mister Arkadiy to you

@bestmannequin2018

I don’t know what to put here. He/him, 20, white slav
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why are christian bale and patrick bateman the exact same person

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like. ok

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who was going to tell me that christian bale is the actor that played the fictional character patrick bateman. and who was going to tell me that patrick bateman is not an actor that looks like christian bale. who was going to tell me this.

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STOP REBLOGGING THIS IM DELETIMG MY BLOG

if you told me your dog was heterosexual i'd be like. uh. dogs don't have a concept of gender or sex dipshit. but if you told me your dog was gay i'd be like that fucking rips bro hell yes

My dog from when I was a kid/teen would fuck any dog that was down for it. He didn't give a fuck. Surprisingly a lot of male dogs were enthusiastically down for the boning too. I remember my cousin getting craaaazy annoyed at me cuz my dog kept fucking his (male) dog who was absolutely down and loving it. He was ranting about how it's unnatural and gay and all this shit and how I needed to stop my dog disrespecting him (like, not his dog, him as a person??). Any time he went over to try stop it, HIS dog was like 'piss off dude, we fuckin' while my dog didn't even pause in his thrusting. It got to the point where his dog was snapping at him when he came close while being ridden and nutted on by my dumbass himbo dog.

Anyway, long story short, my dog was definitely bi, his dog ended up absolutely covered in my dog's cum, and a few years later he joined a gang and the family don't talk to him any more. Those last bits aren't connected, they're just for flavour. Anyway, can I get a big mac meal with a coke and one of those appley things that burn the shit out of your tongue, please.

last esc post i prommy but here is how i would fix eurovision

a) jury vote value down to 25%, televote 75%

b) winners of past years can only feature as guests, not contestants. you had your shot, now move on

c) national juries need to have a fixed number of people from music related backgrounds reflecting diverse tastes and opinions, and jury lists should be public for transparency. keeping their names secret to avoid bribery has not prevented bribery from happening nonetheless

d) make votes cost the same for everyone. when some countries pay 0.20€ per vote and others well above 1€ that's gonna skew results

e) and lastly, get rid of israel

I love seeing "self-care" posts that are full of great ideas like drinking water and eating food and generally meeting your bodily needs, and they also say something like "go to bed at 9:00 pm"

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yesterday i was hiking with my dog and passed by a family with their 14 yo princess of darkness trotting behind them in very unsuitable clothes and uncomfortable shoes that clearly weren't meant to get dirty on forest mud. oh the quintessential teenage experience of doing something in a way that is stupid and sucks because it's important that it's your own way 🫡

The experience of being a teenager, especially, is relentlessly being forced to do things by authority figures who have arbitrary power over you. As a result "Okay, I'll do it, but I'll do it in the least compliant way possible" is a persistent and entirely sympathetic element of being a teenager

Okay as someone who professionally works with kids, I'll weigh on on this and say: the thing about defiance and "brattiness" is they are defense mechanisms for having no power in your life.

Kids and teens do not have power in their life. Even in the most ideal of circumstances. They can't really make informed choices about voting or houses and especially in America, the entire social structure is hostile to letting them go where they want to go.

So OP is absolutely right and put it beautifully. "it's important that it's your own way." I've seen preverbal babies force their shoes off their feet in response to a completely unrelated obligation because I can force them to take a nap but I can't make them take a nap AND nicely keep their shoes on. It is arguably a pretty stupid defiance, but defiance isn't about being smart.

It's the scream of a person without power insisting if they have no choice but to do this, they will do it their way! And that's more important than practicality. It's more important than being reasonable.

I firmly believe that deep down adults aren't less bratty or defiant than kids are- they're just given more leeway and power so they're more used to having control and use that to cope. The average 30-year-old would absolutely have a meltdown in the pasta aisle if they were regularly dragged to places they didn't want to be by another adult who they were never allowed to be away from or choose where they were going besides very limited exceptions.

(also disclaimer that in using the term "bratty" I am by no means condemning this behavior. It's born of a frustration that is completely understandable.)