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non-sexual intimacy

some drabbles and brainstorming!

a good idea to create a few more creative scenarios with non-sexual intimacy would be to take elements from BDSM dynamics to use them in a non-sexual context. 

as always, this is a super quick brainstorming to get a few ideas out of my system so it’s not going to be very long. however, here are a few examples that could hopefully be a bit inspiring!

  • blindfolding: this is entirely a scenario that came up with the fic i’m working on atm, but imagine a typical “Do you trust me?” scene, with character A extending their hand as they patiently wait for character B’s response, eyes locked together. then character B nods, takes character A’s hand and character A proceeds to blindfold them. remember the whole idea about this post is to think of non-sexual scenarios but kissing ????? blindfolded ????? UNDERRATED. we need more blindfolded kissing !!!!!!! and i shall PROVIDE. just imagine how intense it could be for character B to suddenly feel the bursh of lips against them -- which doesn’t come out entirely as a surprise, because they could feel character A’s body warmth silently looming closer, because they could feel their hot breath reaching their skin, because they knew they were there but suddenly there are lips on theirs and they kiss softly and tenderly and then character A pulls back and character B still chases them even though they can’t see them and NOW I’M SAD. do you see the potential here??????? also, a good (cliché, may i add) reason as to why character B is blindfolded in the first place would be because character A wants to take them somewhere. here, as cliché and overused as the scenario may be, here’s where you should let your creativity flow. they don’t have to go stargazing, they don’t have to go to that one special spot in the city where character A always goes alone yada yada. if they do, then GOOD FOR THEM, LOVEBIRDS. but if they don’t, that’s okay as well. imagine (and i’m thinking out loud right now): character A giving character B a tour around their house, remembering and telling them memories they’ve lived in each room, and character B, being blindfolded, picturing every single moment inside his head. /// 

on an a/n: i just thought about this scenario for the very first time like i had never pictured anything similar to that before and now I’M SO SAD I WANT TO RIGHT IT. UGH. -- but see? that’s the thing, just let your mind FLOW. focus on senses and little details, picture yourself in the situation. there’s a lot of potential to work with here!

(BYE i’m so invested in this idea i’ll edit this post later and keep adding a few scenarios i have in mind related to non-sexual dominance lol so Stay Tuned i’ll be back)

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Writer Aesthetics as Times to Write

Early Morning: journals>laptops, sunshine, writes outdoors, writes fluff, too much dialogue, pantser, too many ocs, refuses to kill any of them, listens to indie pop while writing, rarely gets writers block, pyjamas, writes music as well

Afternoon: historical fiction, writes poetry, loves old stories, Shakespeare nerd, plotter to a fault, has too many notebooks and doesn’t use any of them, reads more than they write, listens to classical music, procrastinates by making moodboards

Evening: fairy lights, tea, self-indulgent fanfiction, fantasy, pyjamas, has notebooks for planning but never refers to them, has ridiculously detailed plans that are never followed, too many ocs, listens to pop music while writing, overthinks every line

Night: knows 837281 different ways to murder someone, posts writing advice but never takes it, coffee, hoodies, multiple wips, posts writing online, listens to R&B, also draws

3am: chaotic mess, world building scattered across post it notes, fanfiction writer, too many wips and not enough time, physical embodiment of adrenaline, unsure if they can see The Void or just sleep deprived, lying on the floor in the middle of piles of notes, listens to heavy metal rock

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