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Why Regret Something You Once Wanted?

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Sometimes it’s better to stop trying to understand life and actually start experiencing it.

Even though some pondering can be great for us, it’s important not to get lost overanalyzing everything that happens because our own way of thinking might be limited by language and influenced by harmful tendencies of our culture. Trying to fit our own lives into a cohesive and clear narrative can cause unnecessary disappointment.

There’s this quote by Mooji that I really like: “Let go of these techniques of living. Discover yourself as life. It is enough.”

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There is no feeling in the world worse than knowing you upset the one person you care about more than anything

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People have the habit of walking all over you. It hurts but denying the fact that people are forgetful and that a favor is seldom returned is naive to the point of stupidity. You need to understand that you are not supposed to carry the burden of the world. You were never entrusted the responsibility to be the better person. If something or someone bothers you, walk away. Trust me. Saying no is a less talked about virtue but a skill all the same. You need to understand that you don’t need to be scared of offending people. People may not like you. But at night, when you switch off your lights, there’s going to be just one and at most two people on your mind. If they are happy, if you are happy, I do not believe you need to worry about making yourself sad just for the sake of others.

Your worth, Cardia

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It’s a new day. A fresh start. A clean slate. Forget what happened yesterday. Breathe. Smile. Dance. Hug that teddy. Kiss that girl. Go out with all your girlfriends. Make mistakes. Correct them. Do them all over again. Because tomorrow will be another new day. A new battle. A new war. And in this game called life, we don’t carry scars, dearie.

Morning pep talk

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Have you ever felt too sad to cry? So sad that you are just dead? That brokenness that is so irredeemable that you can’t even make a sound? People look at you, you smile but it’s not you- it’s someone else in your own body. You see her smile and talk to others and wonder how you got stuck inside with nothing to escape this disgusting mess of things and people and how you must always behave. Ever have those moments?

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“I wish you choose the love that chooses you, that makes you feel like both a soulmate and a friend, that doesn’t play any games and inspires you to be the best version of you that you can be. You deserve a forever.”

juansen dizon, Forever

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“Look at you, surrendering your heart and soul to the hands of someone who doesn’t know what she has. And when she dropped it or crushed it, and you’re in pieces barely holding up, who’s going to be there for you? Me. I’m going to be the one who clean your mess, dry your tears, and support you when all you want to do is crumbling down. None of this should’ve happened. I told you to giving your heart wasn’t the answer. Yours is too fragile, too precious, her hands wouldn’t understand it. And when your heart is too busy being wrecked, I gave you mine, knowing you won’t break it in purpose. You just need it to hold on, when your heart is so ruined it’s nothing but shreds that’ll cut you. So I gave you my strength, my shoulder to cry on, and before I knew it, I abandon myself to your being. Anything you need, I’d do it. Am I crazy to do it?”

—          Yes. Because just like him handing out his heart to strangers, you throw away yours to keep him from being broken, even though he’ll never give his to you. (via a-quietsoul)

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rabbruad1
“No one really knows what the future will hold. But it’s almost always better when you’ve got a good person to hold.”

— Bruce Adler

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“It doesn’t matter if you love him, He doesn’t see how it changes him when it only affects you. It doesn’t matter if you love him, He knows what it means when a girl loves him and he enjoys it. It doesn’t matter if you love him, He likes the way you’re always there for him when he could leave you any day and still have you waiting. It doesn’t matter if you love him, silly, He doesn’t love you because he’s just a scared boy acting tough by breaking all of these hearts around him.”

aumirah // including yours (via a-quietsoul)

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amargedom
“The pain that you’ve been feeling, can’t compare to the joy that’s coming.”

— Romans 8:18

Source: amargedom
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“By all means break the rules, and break them beautifully, deliberately and well.”

— Robert Bringhurst

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tellherium
“April is the cruellest month, breeding Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing Memory and desire,”

T.S. Eliot, from The Waste Land, 1922. (via megairea)