How people treat you says nothing about you as a person, it says something about themselves. It’s a reflection of their own thoughts. So when people call you a loser etc. you should rather worry about them than about you. Because you are absolutely beautiful the way you are. Even if you can’t see this beauty in yourself right now, believe me, it exists and there are people out there that see you as the incredible beautiful miracle that you are. But most important YOU should see you as that. Because only then you can be it. Your thoughts define who you are and if you always think bad things about yourself don’t wonder that others think them, too. You have to accept and respect yourself so you can be accepted and respected by others. You are tired of fake love? You can’t expect real love if you don’t love yourself either. So what about learning to love yourself first instead of waiting for love from people that can’t give you the love you deserve? I want you to know that you are a wonderful human being and whatever other people say about you, it doesn’t define you, it defines them, their negative thoughts. So don’t be one of them. Let your positivity and kindness flood the world.
this is originally a text one of my best friends - @mondastronaut - wrote as an answer to an ask I got lately and to which I didn’t know how to respond. honestly one of the most beautiful things I ever read (via mercury)
