you don’t hate people. you hate the concept of your finite time being “wasted” as a result of someone else’s actions. someone takes too long at the checkout. someone’s too slow crossing the street. someone doesn’t go when the light turns green.
the forest you’re missing in this case is that is the definition of your time being wasted as a result of someone else’s direct actions is: employment.
and what makes it worse is that not only is your time - your precious time that you cannot spare even a minute of for the sake of your fellow humans comfort - being stolen in the literal sense by the number of hours you commit to work, but also at a much larger scale. the stress of your employment or, maybe better yet, the stress of simply being employed can take years off of your life. even if you’re working a white collar job, the impact on your mental health can be devastating.
this is why there is so much value in being able to pursue your passions and what you love and being afforded the opportunity to do so. this is why it’s better to embrace the people around you and ask them what they love so they can feel inspired to chase that feeling. and you should feel empowered to do the same thing.
I'm quite sure nobody is missing the forest. we're all VERY aware that the reason why the minutes of our life wasted waiting behind that dipshit with the lottery tickets are so valuable is because there's SO FEW minutes left in the day after work.
the thing is, work is not optional. the fucking dipshit with the lottery tickets is.
chasing your passions is something many people don't have the privilege of even dreaming of. but if they did, they'd still have to work, and they'd still be waiting in line behind the rich asshole with the lottery tickets.
i get this frame of thinking and i empathize with the frustration, sincerely. it's very easy to feel like there's no other option but to conform to this model of labor that's been handed down to us for generations, like it's a concrete law of existence. but just for funsies, for my own mental health, let's try to reimagine what it could be. the truth is, it's not really about the dipshit with the lottery tickets or the rich asshole, or even work itself. it's about how we perceive work, value, and time. under the current system, we've been conditioned to see work as something we do to survive, rather than a way to grow, learn, contribute to society, or even just enjoy our lives.
imagine, just for a second, if we could unlearn that and adopt a framework where our time isn't viewed as a commodity, but rather a gift that we can choose to spend on what we love and are invested in one where people aren't valued based on their profit margin for capitalist interests, but their contribution to the communal good.
in this scenario, your neighbor isn't a rival competing for resources, but a comrade working with you to ensure the well-being of the community that you both play a part in.
this is the general theory behind an anarcho-communist society, for the record.
the point made you about "privilege" is a fantastic one. but consider this: isn't the system that keeps you tethered to the grindstone the same one that makes "chasing passions" a privilege rather than a basic right? if we changed the system, wouldn't that be the real game-changing development? we'd all have the opportunity to pursue our passions without the constant fear of survival hanging over our heads.
the idea is not being against labor, but against being forced into labor that steals joy and adds stress to our lives.
it's nice to do all this armchair philosophy. but my food isn't free, bills still need to be paid, and if i ever would want to do something for my personal enrichment, that will also cost money.
what's the point of thinking about all this shit when you know you'll be working until you die? i mean maybe you get something out of these thought exercises. yeah, i guess so, you say, "for funsies, for my mental health". thats nice. like, I'm genuinely happy for you and a bit envious that these thought exercises give you some kind of positive feedback.
but I don't. and most people don't. most folks get mildly annoyed to pissed off to various degrees by this, because thinking about the 'could be' and the 'what if' of an imaginary better world is aggravating to the exhausted, overburdened, the hungry, the hurting and the despaired. it's like dangling a cut of meat in front of a chained up starving dog. your better world isn't going to happen, and I'll be standing for the rest of my life behind the guy with the lottery tickets, wanting to go home so that i can lie down, close my eyes, and drift away from this hell on earth.
So you're just going to give up, then? Let the system make your life miserable, and your children's lives, and your grandchildren's?
If you're a chained up dog, at least be angry at the chains.








