โGirls like her were born in a storm. They have lightning in their souls. Thunder in their hearts. And chaos in their bones.โ
โ Nikita Gill

โGirls like her were born in a storm. They have lightning in their souls. Thunder in their hearts. And chaos in their bones.โ
โ Nikita Gill
โBe alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will learn what inspires you. You will cultivate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunning clarity. And when you do meet the right person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it because you are sure of yourself.โ
โ Bianca Sparacino
i just got a rejection for a job i never applied for??????? lmfao???? WHAT
we donโt know who you are but we donโt fucking want you
I will always reblog things like this, it wonโt ruin your blog or the look of it, and this could potentially save a life.
PLEASE reblog this.
I have reblogged this about three times now and I will never not reblog it
i actually heard of this happening in atlanta not that long ago. that shit is terrifying as hell.
idc if it may ruin my blog look or whatever, if it means word gets out about these bastards then imma reblog x1000
reposting on my friends account
holy shit, thatโs absolutely horrifyingโฆ definitely gonna reblog this shit, this could fucking save peopleโs lives.
Maybe this will be useful to some of my followers!ย
Everyone should see this, itโs really important
I reblog every time
If you donโt reblog this youโre auto required to leave
I fucking told you, auto
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hOLY FUCKING SHIT THIS IS HORRIFYING PLEASE REBLOG
oh god oh god oh god
PLEASE REBLOG
IโM NOT EVEN JOKING
WTF
Stay alert ladies!
be warned
REBLOG!!!!!!!!!
HOLY SHIT! GUYS REBLOG THE FUCK OUTTA THIS!!!
Iโm used to not rebloging anything โฆโฆโฆ..BUT HECK YEAH IโM REBLOGING THIS!!!!!!!
This is horrifying! Everyone please be careful!
Thatโs terrifying God
Listen Iโm bi as Heck and as much as I love girls, I also love boys? Boys are amazing and pure and liking boys is a wonderful feeling? I never see a lot of posts talking about cute boys so
Some Boy Aestheticsโข Iโm in love with include:
Their tired grins? Have you seen a cute boy grin when heโs tired? Life Changing
Sleeves rolled up to forearms is all good and Well but also when they have Sweater Paws in their hoodies or jumpers? Makes the tallest of them seem so smol? Iโm lov?
When they run their hand through their hair and it sticks up in places and it looks So Good
Collar Bones
Soft pudgy stomachs they absolutely make me melt
When ya boy gets flustered A++ Bonus points if he giggles Boys giggling is Everything
I think this is like the first positive post about boys that isnt to do with a celebrity for ages and it is actually super nice to read????
More soft boy things:
Boys are so fucking beautiful I love them
This is the truest boy post and there are so many things that make me melt
Boys are super wholesome and good
โwhy are you on your phone so much??โ maybe because nothing makes me happy anymore and i donโt know how to spend my time
if a teenager is at your door and they are wearing a costume!! please give them candy!! they are still in it for the halloween spirit and it honestly no different from a little kid in a costume. they are just as excited and happy as all the other lil tykes and dont you dare tell them they are โtoo old for trick-or-treatingโ because that will literally break their hearts and thatโs not cool.
Its getting close to Halloween again so I just thought Iโd reblog this again
And ifย โdonโt be rude to teenagers over a stupid jawbreakerโ isnโt enough for you, considerย
And those are just things I can think of off the top of my head.ย
and even if it is just a bored 16/17 year old out trying to see what free shit they can get. is it really gonna kill you to give them a fun sized milky way from the multipack you bought at poundland? That thing didnโt even cost you 5p, just give the kid the sugar, say โnice costumeโ, and let it go.
There are worse things a teenager could be doing on Halloween instead of trick-or-treating.
Itโs been kind if an unspoken rule in my college town that if college students show up at your door in costume you give them candy because theyโre also out to have fun and itโs way nicer for the students to trick or treat instead of going out and getting drunk. Itโs also a way for the people who donโt want to party and donโt want to drink to have fun so like, we need to stop getting angry at people older than 6 wanting to dress up and get candy.
Heck, we even offer the parents a bit of candy too! Itโs all good fun~!
IF YOU NEED TO CALL 911 BUT ARE SCARED TO BECAUSE OF SOMEONE IN THE ROOM, dial and ask for a pepperoni pizza. They will ask if you know youโre calling 911. Say yes, and continue pretending youโre making an order. Theyโll ask if thereโs someone in the room.
You can ask how long it will take for the pizza to get to you, and they will tell you how far away a dispatcher is.
Reblog to literally save a life
Iโve done this.ย Iโm alive because of this.ย
My flat-mateโs date for the night was almost as drunk as her.ย She had passed out in her room and locked the door.ย He refused to leave because he wanted to have sex.ย He also demanded food because he was dealing withย โwhiskey dickโ.ย He didnโt like the lack of food in the fridge.ย I called 911, did the stuff stated above, and he was getting PISSED about how long theย โorderโ was taking.ย He took my phone, demanded theyย โhurry the fuck upโ.ย Police arrived two minutes later, arrested him, and helped me file a police report.ย Pressing charges wasnโt necessary because he had warrants on him from THREE different states for the very thing he planned to do to me.ย Several months after this happened one of the officers informed me he was charged with two felonies because he crossed stay lines, and will be serving no less than 35 years in prison.ย The officer ripped into my flat-mate about her bringing home complete strangers, while drunk, knowing full well this shit could happen.ย
This was 14 years ago.ย ย
Do the pizza order, do it as calmly as you can.ย The dispatcher I spoke to said things like this:
โIf heโs drunk say you want mushrooms.โย I said I want extra mushrooms.
โIf heโs threatening you with sexual assault say you want onions.โย I said I want onions.
She went like this with different toppings and sauces for a description of him, like pineapple if heโs blonde, black olives if heโs tall, extra large if heโs tall, etc.
Theyโve heard this sort of coded call before.ย Theyโre trained for it.ย They will understand what youโre saying.ย Order the pizza.
Really though. Iโm in training for dispatch and this was one of the first things they taught us. Pretend youโre talking to a friend or relative, pretend youโre ordering pizza, weโll figure it out. Weโll word questions so you can answer in an easy, casual way. Please, just make the call and we will do everything we can to help you.
Reblog to save a life
HOLY SHIT. THIS IS CRAZY.
THIS IS SO IMPORTANT
I AM A 911 CALLTAKER AND I CAN AFFIRM THIS IS A THING. I AM ALLOWED TO BREAK PROTOCOL FOR THIS.
ALSO, IF YOU DONโT FEEL COMFORTABLE โORDERING A PIZZA,โ CALL AND LEAVE AN OPEN LINE. WE WILL STAY ON WITH YOU AND FIND YOUR LOCATION BASED ON GPS AND SEND SOMEONE. I HAVE DONE THIS MORE TIMES THAN NOT. WE ARE HERE TO HELP.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
Erin bless you for adding to this.
This is super important๐
IMPORTANT!!ย
I will always reblog things like this, it wonโt ruin your blog or the look of it, and this could potentially save a life.
PLEASE reblog this.
I have reblogged this about three times now and I will never not reblog it
i actually heard of this happening in atlanta not that long ago. that shit is terrifying as hell.
idc if it may ruin my blog look or whatever, if it means word gets out about these bastards then imma reblog x1000
reposting on my friends account
holy shit, thatโs absolutely horrifyingโฆ definitely gonna reblog this shit, this could fucking save peopleโs lives.
Maybe this will be useful to some of my followers!ย
Everyone should see this, itโs really important
I reblog every time
If you donโt reblog this youโre auto required to leave
I fucking told you, auto
dUDE
hOLY FUCKING SHIT THIS IS HORRIFYING PLEASE REBLOG
oh god oh god oh god
PLEASE REBLOG
IโM NOT EVEN JOKING
WTF
Stay alert ladies!
be warned
REBLOG!!!!!!!!!
HOLY SHIT! GUYS REBLOG THE FUCK OUTTA THIS!!!
Iโm used to not rebloging anything โฆโฆโฆ..BUT HECK YEAH IโM REBLOGING THIS!!!!!!!
This is horrifying! Everyone please be careful!
HOLY CRAP!!! ALRIGHT ATTENTION TO THIS!! PLEASE REBLOG THIS!!! - THIS SHOULD ALSO BE A WARNING THEM GUYS!!! PLEASE!!!
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I DONโT CARE IF YOU HAVE 3 FOLLOWERS JUST REBLOG, MEN ARE ALSO RAPED, WOMEN ARE ALSO RAPED, GODDAMN SPREAD THIS
Say it with me kids:
A ๐BISEXUAL ๐ PERSON ๐ SHOULD ๐ NOT ๐ HAVE ๐ TO ๐ PRESENT ๐ THEIR ๐ROMANTIC ๐HISTORY ๐TO ๐PROVE ๐TO ๐YOU๐ THEY ๐ARE ๐BISEXUAL
An Article from Neena Susan Thomas
โThrough a rapistโs eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewโฆed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women whoโs clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they donโt have to worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isnโt worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys youโre not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: canโt believe it is so cold out here, weโre in for a bad winter. Now that youโve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said theyโd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you canโt beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh โ HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guyโs parts it is extremely painful. You might think that youโll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and heโs out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, donโt dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but youโd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL โฆ.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from youโฆ. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver wonโt see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DONโT DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driverโs side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked โfor helpโ into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and itโs better safe than sorry.
If u have compassion reblog this post. โHelping hands are better than Praying Lipsโ โ give us your helping hand.
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog thisโฆ.Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.โ
EVERYONE BOOT THE FUCK OUT OF THIS
This is so fucking unfortunate that we need this
it just makes me angry that women need this.. but we do and if you see this, PLEASE REBLOG. it doesnโt matter if you are a male or a female. by reblogging this, you might save someoneโs life.
Donโt scroll past this, itโs so important
nothing to do with what my posts are normally about but this is SO damn important!! donโt scroll past without reading and / or reblogging!
this is fucking important. Idc if your blog is perfect, fucking reblog this. It may save someone.
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sorry if i reblog this everY FIVE MINUTES
Please be safe
this is super long but itโs 26394728% worth the read
Stay safe girls!
โโThere is nothing more beautiful than seeing a person being themselves. Imagine going through your day being unapologetically you.โ โ Steve Maraboliโ
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iโm seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls
Never donโt reblog this. There are so many people who have such bad anxiety about phone calls. This can save so many lives
you ever just get in bed and ur like yep this is where iโm meant to be