I actually baked! Like my name said! 🤣
Face Down pt 5
I’m a little scared to share this, but okay. Here we go.
tw: sex, violence, gun violence, minor character death, language, police, barebacking, top Jungkook, bottom Seokjin, they’re in love okay!
Hello my beans ~
On this fateful day at 1:30am, I lost access to my old Tumblr account @thecozywhaleshark
The old email my tumblr account was under got shut down due to inactivity and it cannot be undone or reaccessed. I’m working on trying to reactivate it again with any last ditch hope, but I can promise nothing.
With that, I’m 99% certain I have completely lost access to my account. 😭
I’m hoping I can somehow get this out to my followers of that account to redirect them here, so if you see this, it’s not a spam account! It’s still me ❤️
Please share if you see this and you were once a follower of mine or had heard of my page.
I’m going to reblog as much as I can from my old account, but I’m honestly not sure where go go from here. Do I repost everything individually? Or just reblog? Please let me know if you have any advice in these matters.
Thank you so much for reading this far my beans, and I hope you are having a good holiday season ❤️❤️
I never thought I was mentally exhausted
Oh….
This is…. oh
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Why is this me?
It’s summertime where I live and my house doesn’t have air conditioning. I can’t sleep when it’s hot, so I’ve barely slept for 2 weeks. I was already exhausted from working full time and being a caregiver for my papaw who has dementia and helping with my brother’s kids. Idk how much more exhausted I can get honestly.
omg
REblog if you are Asexual, support Asexuals, or spend most of your time actually thinking about Superheroes.
This is it.
ALL 3
I saw your url and i lov it. I only recently picked up baking bread cause of covid and its become so therapeutic for me. I've even come to luuv the smell of yeast and my family thinks I'm crazy for it 😂
Baking bread is super therapeutic! That and I like giving it away. I make special loaves every Christmas 🤣 honestly, the best purchase I’ve ever made was a book called The Complete Book of Breads by Bernard Clayton. It has a ton of recipes for all occasions, starter recipes, and even a section for troubleshooting a fail and a blueprint for an outdoor brick oven (that’s the dream 🤤) Yeast has its own special smell, but I totally get it haha
The Golden Boy
Okay. I know you all thought I was dead or something since I haven’t posted any writing since Christmas. But…surprise? This is dedicated to @elizabeth-buchanan because she was hella excited when I had the idea. So this is part one of a Wild West Cowboy Jungkook tale, lovingly dubbed JungooYeehaw.
Warnings: armed robbery, brothel, cursing (fuck is my favorite word; sorry, not sorry), gratuitous violence. Let’s get it.
this is about half of why tai chi works or if you dont know how to tai chi, ‘earthbender breaks’ work just as well
[Start I.D.: therapist Hack: anxiety is physical, so it needs a physical response, AKA fight or flight, take a walk for ten minutes it tricks your brain into thinking you're running away, you will start to feel relieved. End I.D.]
I don’t usually comment on posts like this but for over an entire year I suffered majorly from panic disorder experiencing DOZENS of panic attacks a day, to the point where it was a problem for me to leave the house or even my bed! Until one night i was freaking the Fuck Out, i was like! Screw it! I’ll make a run for it! I left the house at like 2am and just walked. Run a little occasionally and get REALLY angry while doing it and the panic would disappear! Instead of giving my head room to panic i’d give myself a goal: just walk around the block twice and THEN see how you feel. And reeaaally focus on that goal. Sometimes it’d take 3 hours to pass and sometimes only 10 minutes, but not once, to this day, has just getting out there and give into the fight or flight response not helped. By taking action you’re tricking your brain into regaining control when you feel out of control during panic/anxiety!
If u scared? Fuck it! Run!
Honestly the music and dancing from the cutie also helped this video. Thank u therapist hacker.
My dear lgbt+ kids,
- “If you were really gay, you’d have sex with me. Are you sure you’re not actually straight?” is not helping you find the right label, it’s manipulating you into sex and that’s abuse.
- “I accept your asexuality but I have needs. You need to give me blowjobs at least.” is not a compromise. It’s demanding you to perform a sexual act and that’s abuse.
- “You’re bi and that means you’ll cheat on me if I let you hang out with guys!” is not the cute kind of jealousy. it’s controlling who you spend time with and that’s abuse.
- “I know you go by them/they but I’m angry at you, so I’ll call you he today.” is not a normal little fight. It’s using your dysphoria against you and that’s abuse.
- “If you don’t do what I want, I’ll tell your mom you’re trans and she’ll kick you out” is not a normal little fight, either. It’s using a vulnerable situation to manipulate you and that’s abuse.
- “You’re lucky you got me, nobody else would love someone as complicated and weird as you” is not a love confession. It’s trying to make you feel dependent on them and that’s abuse.
All of those sentences are examples of someone using your identity against you. That’s not acceptable behavior and is not the way you deserve to be treated.
With all my love,
Your Tumblr Dad
bts said!! feel afraid and worried and panicked and trapped!!! feel melancholy and tired and sad and confused!!! feel apprehensive and lonely and lost!!!
bts said feel it all and breathe through it! you arent alone because i - we - feel it too!! and these emotions are real and valid and normal!!!! and we will be ok!!
If you reblog this before Valentine’s Day I’ll send you a funny Valentines card based on your blog.
The biggest scam your brain is telling you is that everybody else is human and allowed to make mistakes but that you yourself have to be perfect and flawless to deserve their company










