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• Minors DNI • 22 • She/Her • INFJ •
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its kinda scary how your whole life depends on how well you do as a teenager 

oh my god No it doesn’t don’t put this kind of pressure on people?? you can absolutely fuck up in your teen years and continue on to a good life just fine. you can drop out of school, get a GED, still go to college and finish your degree as late as you want. i know people in my school who still haven’t graduated and they’re 26. some older. you can always transfer someplace else, always build yourself up from the ground. after a certain amount of college credits, a lot of schools really don’t care about your high school GED or your SAT scores anymore. if you fuck up in your teenage years you are not a failure!! you can ALWAYS re-invent yourself, always start over. there is always a second chance.

Reblogging this for my followers freaking out over art school/college. I dropped out of high school and never thought I’d get into college as easily as I did. You will be fine!

Fun story my biology professor just told us:  When he was 23 he was married to his wife and worked two jobs to support them since she was in college: gas station attendant and construction worker.  He worked these two jobs because that was the only work he could get since he was at the reading level of a third grader.  

One night he was writing something and his wife noticed he was writing from right to left.  Since she was studying occupational therapy she realized he had a learning disability and started working with him.  He slowly began to learn to read, and at 26 got his GED and went to college.

His first year of college he took the lowest level math course he could take, 001.  Over the years he worked on learning what he needed to, ended up graduating with a biology degree.  He then went on to get his masters and PhD, graduating at the top of his class.  He is now an extremely accomplished biologist and professor.

So don’t let anyone tell you that you’re future is based on your choices as a teenager.

Seriously.  Do not believe this.  You aren’t even stuck with your choices you make in your 20s.  I didn’t start working in my current field until just after my 30th birthday.  It has nothing to do with what I went to school for in my 20s.  My husband has a political science degree, and he’s a sports journalist.

You are not tied to anything.  Go.  Be.

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My day job did not exist when I was a teenager. And the idea of trying to be an author was a distant thing on my radar. I thought I was going to be an English teacher. And then I thought I was going to be a music teacher. And then I thought I was going to be a drama teacher.

Also in there: therapist, early childhood educator, then finally: web developer–because by then it was an actual thing that existed. I didn’t actually figure out what I “wanted to do when I grew up” until about eight years ago, when I was 36. I tried pursuing writing when I was 30, stopped, then started pursuing it seriously again when I was 40. 

There is always time to change. And don’t let anyone tell you that high school is “the best time of your life” either, because that’s bullshit too.

I was a high school drop out and didn’t go to college until I was within a month of my 40th birthday. While there I changed my major twice. Then I taught art long enough to earn retirement. Before college I’ve worked in dog kennels, as a cashier, a dental assistant, a vet assistant, electronics assembly,  a machinist in the military, picking up trash in a state park and as locksmith at a university. After teaching I worked night shift as a securety guard. Life is freaking adventure, not a locked grid you must move from one square to another. Take a chance, If you fail, get back up, dust yourself off and try something new. 

Your life is not over at 25. You can continue to learn and engage with hobbies and change your life path and meet new people. Get rid of this idea that what you decide to do at 18 is gonna be what you do for life

As someone who freaks out at times about this kind of thing in my final year of university, this really helped.

Encouragment for writers that I know seems discouraging at first but I promise it’s motivational-

• Those emotional scenes you’ve planned will never be as good on page as they are in your head. To YOU. Your audience, however, is eating it up. Just because you can’t articulate the emotion of a scene to your satisfaction doesn’t mean it’s not impacting the reader. 

• Sometimes a sentence, a paragraph, or even a whole scene will not be salvagable. Either it wasn’t necessary to the story to begin with, or you can put it to the side and re-write it later, but for now it’s gotta go. It doesn’t make you a bad writer to have to trim, it makes you a good writer to know to trim.

• There are several stories just like yours. And that’s okay, there’s no story in existence of completely original concepts. What makes your story “original” is that it’s yours. No one else can write your story the way you can.

• You have writing weaknesses. Everyone does. But don’t accept your writing weaknesses as unchanging facts about yourself. Don’t be content with being crap at description, dialogue, world building, etc. Writers that are comfortable being crap at things won’t improve, and that’s not you. It’s going to burn, but work that muscle. I promise you’ll like the outcome.

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Anywho it has been confirmed that Hobie is 19/20 plus he's 6'3 🤞🏾

Edit: Y'all lost y'all minds over him being 19 🤣 I woke up to 99+ notifications

Anonymous asked:

Hiiii, I love all your Hobie Brown posts, I need him biblically fr- aside from that, can I request Hobie with a punk reader (like how they meet and how they get together) I do dress punk and wear a lot of spiky things, but I'm definitely deep in the punk political scene and stuff, (if you need that info)

thank you so much!!💜

omg thank uuuu!! for me, this is the middle of the night but I cannot sleep and I love this so here!! i need him in a way that is concerning to feminism,,,,also this is not proofread it is 3:30am

warnings - punk things???

hobie brown x punk! reader headcannons!!!

  • you can relate to each other on so many levels and it’s relieving
  • you were at his concert, and you were up front, screaming, moshing, generally loving the show
  • you were loving it so much in fact that you threw your jacket on stage
  • he picked it up and swung it over his shoulder, not thinking twice about it
  • the concert went on and everyone had a great time
  • it wasn’t until after the concert where you suddenly realized “hey where’d my jacket go?”
  • like the universe listened, hobie walked right by to leave with his guitar
  • “hey! you have my jacket.” you grabbed his shoulder, taking your jacket off of it.
  • he turned around, initially not saying anything
  • “is this your jacket or are you just tryin’ to get free clothes?”
  • this sparked a small argument between you two
  • in reality, he was just asking to make sure he wasn’t giving someone’s jacket away for free
  • but you thought he was insulting you
  • after that it became a ritual to haggle each other at his shows, or any shows you happened to see each other
  • after that it was just friendly bickering
  • and you started hanging out
  • one day at a show, you both were drinking while watching the performance
  • a girl walked up to him and obviously started flirting with him
  • out of nowhere he said,
  • “politely beat it, aight I got a girlfriend.”
  • she scoffed and walked away, disappearing into the crowd
  • “wait hobie you have a girlfriend?”
  • “yeah, you.”
  • what.
  • you looked at him, dumbfounded for a moment
  • “i thought we were dating, are we not?”
  • “what.”
  • “so why do you let me borrow your cuffs ‘nd sleep at your house?”
  • this sparked a whole new confession coming from you
  • safe to say you guys started dating after that <3
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if you hate this Thing, then the Thing you hate is actually just the female form

like................................be serious

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As a seamstress, that last meme is the truth. (I mean the message behind it, not literally.)

You look bad in your clothes because they are made to be cheap, not to fit your body. Modern clothing relies on stretch materials to fit around the largest possible range of bodies, not to be flattering to any body. For all of human history until recently, clothing was custom made for individuals, but that doesn't sell large volumes of clothing units so capitalism says it's not the clothes that are wrong, it's your body and your fault. You should buy more stuff.

Celebrities have clothes custom made or custom tailored. Some people just happen to have bodies close to the digital "ideal" models that are used to size clothes. But most people don't.

It's the clothes, I promise. They are made for profit, not for you.

The problem is once again. Capitalism.

Reblog if you have used dude as a non gender specific term.

where I grew up in California not only is “dude” generally non-gender-specific, half of the time it doesn’t even refer to a person at all.

I said it to a faucet today. 

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A customer once came to me to order a sandwich and said “I want this dude”

Dude is more than a word, it’s an emotion. 

dude is a way of life

@ablogofbipanic made offhand comment just in the right time for my procrastinating brain and voila, here's naked Lucien. You can thank her.

I wish I could post him here in all his naked glory but unfortunately you have to go to instagram to witness it.

Edit: turns out Instagram doesn't allow it either so stay tuned until I figure out where one can post some goddamn dick in the internet.

Edit2: Naked Lucien is all yours on my Ao3: HERE