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and I don’t want to know whether or not I’m still on your mind too  (via amandagenine)

1. If he sees having sex with lots of girls as an achievement, don’t have sex with him.

2. If he makes you feel bad for not doing something with him. Don’t have sex with him.

3. If he tells you that no one will want you apart from him, don’t have sex with him.

4. If he acts like he doesn’t care, he doesn’t. Don’t have sex with him.

5. If he wants to keep it a secret, don’t have sex with him.

6. If he tries to convince you to not use protection, don’t have sex with him.

7. If you want a relationship and he just wants sex, don’t have sex with him.

8. If you think that laying down with him will make him want you, it won’t. Don’t have sex with him.

(via mypenleaksiridescence)

I know this may sound odd but one of the best feelings in the world is when u finally fall out of love with someone who hurts u. When u can think of them and feel nothing. It’s like waking up from the darkest nightmare, and realizing u can survive anything.

rule #1

You deserve someone who wants to give you a fucking text back, y’know? Someone who wants you, only you, and makes you feel wanted. Someone who can’t help but message you first thing in the morning when the sun light is slow-dancing through the curtain, and they’re barely waking. Someone who wants to spend their drunken Friday nights with you, but also their lazy lemonade Sundays. Someone who holds their one-person umbrella right above you when it’s bucketing down, so that you’re sheltered, even if it means they get soaked through. You deserve someone who thinks of you, often. Someone who calls you on the phone at the end of a long day, because they want to hear the sound of your voice before they drift off into slumber. Someone who makes plans with you on a Tuesday evening, because the weekend is just too far away, and who cares if we have to go to work the next day. Someone who says definitely, not maybe, and follows through. You deserve to hear a song on the radio that makes you melt on the inside at the mere thought of this someone. Someone who could watch you sleeping for hours at a time, and be perfectly content in the grace and stillness of that moment. Someone who steals a cheeky kiss when you’re mid-sentence and least expecting to find their lips. Someone who will happily pig out on pizza with you in bed, and not judge the sweatpants & top knot look you’re sporting. Someone who is just that into you. You deserve someone who challenges the both of you constantly; someone who makes you strive to be better each day, because they’re trying to be better too. Someone you can count on to stick around when the shit hits the fan, which it will. Someone who chooses to lift you up, always. You deserve magic, and fireworks, and confetti canons exploding in your clear blue skies. You deserve someone who will always be careful with your heart, because they know just how fragile it already was before they held it. Someone who’s heart aches whenever yours does. Someone who wakes up next to you each day feeling like they’ve hit the jackpot, over and over again, and thinking what on earth did they do in their past life to be so damn lucky. You deserve someone’s complete attention. Someone who looks at you, and I mean really sees you, and all of the beauty you hold. You deserve to be someone’s first choice. Someone’s best friend. Someone’s partner in crime. Someone’s everything. You deserve to be loved; and loved extraordinarily well. And to be told that you are loved, every single day

– Thought Catalog

 As a teacher this really speaks out to me, going to try and teach my kids this. (via itcuddles)