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Hanif Abdurraqib, They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us
[ Text ID: A person is a whole person when they are good sometimes but not always, and loved by someone regardless. ]
Eid Mubarak! 🌙
im literally not gon have no money for the rest of my bills & (expenses like cat food & litter) once i pay the rest of my rent. my check is small this pay period and $582 of it was taken out in pre-taxes 💔
i paid my past due portion of my rent and yeah bro, i have only $22 left to last me until the 26th.
thank you for taking the time to read &/or circulate this. 🫂
pinterest going crazy
dolly vs jolene
Man senshi must be living his best life can you imagine if you were fucking around thinking about your favorite thing in the whole world, the thing you've dedicated your whole life to, and three dumbass schmucks stroll by like "damn I would LOVE to get into this very specific thing but I have no knowledge of it at all" and then you get to teach them all about it for days and they think you're so cool for being into that one thing you're into that your life revolves around. Then imagine the same situation but only one person of the three thought you were cool and that's senshi. Pretty good still I think.
Sid's pussy throb throbs from kissing her super hot big boobed bimbo gf (Trona) alone and sometimes she feels embarrassed about that
When I see people sharing so much of their kids' lives, I think about that one time my child told a joke, I shared that joke with ONE FRIEND in a private conversation, and my child said "can you please ask me next time, before you tell people something about me?"
And, yes, I absolutely should. So I apologized, and now I ask.
"I love that video of you, can I show it to a friend?"
"Can I tell a friend about how clever you were just now?"
"Can I share this in the family group chat?"
"Can I show your art to grandma and grandpa?"
And it's not like my kids don't like when I share their jokes and puns and fun moments. They love it! But they want to have control over what I share with people. Even without their faces or their names. Even people we know and trust.
And they deserve to have that control.
My children are small so the examples are small. They wanted me to ask, so I ask. Just like being told to kiss my grandma's cheek when I was a kid was far from traumatizing, but I don't do that with my kids because it's a way to practice consent and become aware of bodily autonomy.
It gets both me and them in the habit of asking for consent and drawing boundaries and seeing the lines between their life and my life, their stories and my stories.
mta nyc bus
and is your shame helpful? is it inspiring goodness and change? or is it keeping you frozen in time unable to move on and be everything you have expanded to be?
Some more “what’s in my bag” posts from flickr. We have always been the same…..
this would have got 100k notes as a tumblr post in 2018
