it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
notice here that consent is revoked without ever saying no and consent goes so far beyond yes/no!!!!!!
It is ok to say no
I want women to take their frustrations out on me and tease me until their day has improved. I want a woman to come up to me while I’m cooking and put her hands around my waist and tell me what a good little house slut I’m being for her. I want her to see me getting dressed and help me put my bra on and remind me I look better without one as she clasps it for me. Like I’ll gladly be a cocksleeve but I also wanna be a womans play toy. I think my lesbian side is craving attention and I wanna date another woman… idk at this point. Just just ✨women✨ at this point and no offense to men but women hit my brain differently. Like have me call you Mommy during softer scenes and then have me call you Mistress of Goddess when it’s hardcore or something IDFK IVE ONLY DATED FEMALE SUBS AND SKDJWKDJWJJDJWJDB
This living rent free in my head so I’m making it live in yours too
I debated if I should post these here or not.
Please forgive if it isn’t your kind of thing! ;_;
It’s from an 18+ yuri comic story I’ll probably never end up drawing, but I wanted to see what it would be like. (/ω＼)
I AM WEEPING
Let him have the flappy strange pet!
Lil fella is like “omg! I didn’t know they could swim on that side of the glass too!”
this user’s blog is a safe place for trans lesbians.
Reblog if you want me to hurt you
Yes ma'am yes ma'am yes ma'am
Good little pain slut
Shddhhdhdhd hh. Um. Thank you miss kae
You're very welcome sweetheart 💋
Last night I remembered a D/s moment from last summer and I thought I’d share…
We had traveled to a function that was a professional meeting of VIPs. My Hubs is kind of a big deal within his niche of employment. (People know him 😉). At the weekend long event, there were several social gatherings to which spouses were invited.
I’m pretty good at the rubbing elbows thing although my preference would be that just the two of us were taking our meals somewhere fun in the city. He’s great with people even though his batteries are drained afterwards.
Anyway, getting ready for bed the first night, he came and sat near me and said,” you were really great tonight, I’m proud of you for being such a good girl. And so, whatever you want to happen tonight will happen. What would you like?”. This was a new twist.
It’s funny, because any given night, in my mind, I’m usually hoping that he’ll be extra dommy, extra rough, extra pushy. But he was being so sweet and I told him I’d like to get a deep back massage and make soft love in the bed like we use to.
I’m not sure why I chose that. Maybe because it doesn’t feel very subby to tell him to dom me. Maybe because earlier in the day he had sat me down, squared up to me, looked me in the eye and said,” when you said XXXX earlier, I found your tone quite disrespectful. I feel you deserve a spanking but I’ve chosen to extend some grace as we’ve been traveling all day, I don’t think you meant it, and we’ve got events to get to. This is your warning to be a good girl.”
I was really surprised by this as I knew I hadn’t meant any disrespect, but I was glad he expressed himself and also that he chose to just alert me. I felt admonished yet he was kind about it and somehow moments like that are a beautiful confirmation of our dynamic.
So, after a bath, I received a wonderful back massage that turned into more touching that turned into face to face love making under the sheets. It was really sweet, soft, and powerful. It’s not the kind of sex I dream about, but it was heavenly and perfect for that moment.
He had never asked that question before and he hasn’t since. Although not outwardly D/s at all, it’s a very nice night to remember.
Like this post if you want a hot trans girl to kiss you deeply (with tongue)
Reblog to suck off a trans girl (with tongue) and let her cum down your throat as she moan cutely and grabs your head to facefuck you deeper, making you press up against her stomach until you're barely conscious before letting you back up for air
To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar (1995)
Dir. Beeban Kidron
This was such a formative movie
This shit was revolutionary for the mid-90s. Among other things it helped me understand that transgender and cross-dressing were completely separate things.
To this day, I am in awe of the fact that Patrick Swayze not only campaigned hard to get the audition, not only auditioned in dress and makeup, but spent most of the day leading up to the audition walking around LA in dress and makeup.
This was a man who could sing, dance, act, ride a horse, fight, and walk in heels, he had nothing to prove to anyone, and he is MISSED.
Okay, I’m not done feeling about this.
If you’re younger, you may not know Patrick Swayze; he was Taken From Us in 2009. But Patrick Swayze was an icon of masculinity. Men were willing to watch romantic movies because Patrick Swayze was in them.
Patrick Swayze was fucking beefcake.
And this man didn’t just agree to do a movie where the only time he’s not actually in drag is the first three minutes, which involve stepping out of the shower, doing make up, and getting Dressed. He has ONE LINE that is delivered in a man’s voice, and it’s not during those three minutes.
And if you watch those three minutes, you see a stark difference between his portrayal of Miss Vida Bohéme and Wesley Snipes as Noxeema Jackson. (I am not criticizing Snipes’ performance. They were different roles.) Noxeema was a comedy character. Chi-Chi was a comedy character. But Miss Vida Bohéme was a dramatic role, played by a dramatic powerhouse.
When Vida sits down in front of the mirror, she sees a man. And she doesn’t like it.
Then she puts her hair up, and her face lights up.
“Ready or not,” she says. “Here comes Mama.”
And while Noxeema is having fun with her transformation (at one point breaking into a giggling fit after putting on pantyhose), Vida is simply taking pleasure in bringing out her true self. And when she’s done, she sees this:
And you can FEEL her pride.
All of this from an actor who, up to this point, walked on to the screen and dripped testosterone.
the fact that some of you history-ignorant children in the notes are trying to shit on groundbreaking historical queer cinema because it doesn’t meet 2021 standards is infuriating. sit down, shut the fuck up, and listen to the elders in the room for fucking once
This. If you have never lived in a world where queerness was universally pathologized and criminalized to the point that even IMAGINING a world where it wasn’t constituted a radical and potentially dangerous act, you don’t have any business judging those of us who have for how we survived it and how we found (or still find) comfort in the few imperfect representations we got.
You don’t have to like it. You probably aren’t capable of “getting” it. And to be honest, I don’t want you to! I am glad that young queer people will never know exactly what it was like “back then.” But what you also will not do is refuse to learn your own history and then shit on everything that came before you, because like it or not what came before you is the reason you will never have to get what it was like back then.
On Wesley Snipes’s role Noxeema and John Leguizamo as Chi-Chi Rodriguez.
“I grew up in the ‘70s and even within the street culture, there was a lot of flamboyancy,” Snipes told TODAY of his perception of drag before filming. “Pimps wore the same furs as theprostitutes wore.
“Some of the great musicians of the world, like Parliament-Funkadelic, were very androgynous. So it wasn’t really new for me to see men dressed as women or men dressed as drag queens.”
Snipes attended the famed LaGuardia High School of Performing Arts and then State University of New York at Purchase. He wasn’t a dance major, but most of his friends were. “That exposed me to the world of glam, vogue, drag, transgender and gay people, LGBTQ… but it wasn’t in fashion those days. But it existed and I was around it.”
Not only did “Priscilla, Queen of the Desert” pave the way for “To Wong Foo,” so did films like the 1968 documentary “The Queen” and “Paris Is Burning,” the 1990 doc that chronicled ball culture of New York and the various Black and queer communities involved in it.
Even though he was known for his action roles, Snipes’ portrayal of Noxeema wasn’t the first time he played a drag queen. In 1986, he made his Broadway debut in the play “Execution of Justice,” playing Sister Boom Boom, a real-life AIDS activist and drag nun who acted as the show’s voice of conscience. Snipes pointed out, “Sister Boom Boom did not have Noxeema’s makeup kit.”
On whether he got any pushback for stepping into Noxeema’s pumps, he said, “Not so much professionally but the streets weren’t feeling it, and there were certain community circles. The martial arts community… they were not feeling it at all.”
“In fact, when the movie came out and they would come down the street, I would see them in Brooklyn sometimes, they started listing all my movies. I noticed they would always skip that one. I would correct them, ‘Now you don’t got the full count!’”
Lesser-known than his co-stars at the time, Lequizamo didn’t really anticipate becoming a transgender icon, but he did know that they were working on something special when they started filming.
“Drag didn’t really exist in movies,” Lequizamo, who was nominated for a Golden Globe for his portrayal, told TODAY. “There were straight men pretending to be women to get out of trouble or into trouble but this was not that. I was trying to make Chi-Chi a real life trans character and Patty and Wesley were trying to be real drag queens.” Never fully articulated in the film, Chi-Chi Rodriguez has always been perceived as transgender, something that ending up making an indelible mark on LGBTQ people in the late ‘90s as trans representation in media was limited.
“Chi-Chi was a trans icon, but she also showed us that gay men and trans women can both perform and work in drag side by side, and that those relationships are symbiotic,” Cayne explained.
“It was a powerful thing. I get lots of fan mail from LGBTQ teens telling me how my character helped them come out to their parents,” Leguizamo said. “They didn’t feel like they were seen, so that was a beautiful gift from the movie.”
Lequizamo also articulates that if “To Wong Foo” were cast today, a trans actor should be cast in his role. (And that just may happen, since Beane is developing a musical for Broadway.) “Anybody can play anything, but the playing field is not fair that way,” he said. “Not everybody is allowed to play everything. So until we get to that place, it is important for trans actors to get a chance to act which they don’t. In the project I’m doing, I’m making sure that the person playing trans is a trans person so we can make it legit, make it real. That just needs to be done right now.”
a monumental film in the library of queer history.
it was formative for modern society, too.
there are a lot of action fans out there who learned from their idols that respect doesn’t cost a damn thing to give. i know plenty of people who aren’t queer saw trans women and drag queens presented as people to them for the first time in wong fu. suddenly, strange and foreign queer identities that had only been presented to them as jokes if they’d even heard of them, seemed a little more relatable, and very human.
we’re all just people.
snipes, swayze, and leguizamo were willing to play people a lot of their fans didn’t respect yet or didn’t even know how to respect and demand they figure it the fuck out.
Im assuming if you follow this blog you like sexy things, and/or you’re transgender!
If either of the above is true, you should really check out Hardcoded!
Is a super sexy game that takes place in a cyberpunk future, where droids, cybernetics, and immodest clothing are plentiful.
You play as the main character, a trans droid who has recently escaped from her previous owners, and whose look is fully customizable!
Play through multiple scenes with a variety of fun characters, and choose whether you want to have more sexual or casual moments with them.
This game is super super kinky, but offers you options to skip stuff that seems a little too extreme to you. Some of the kinks I can think of included in this game are: Tentacles, watersports, pet play, bimbofication, pony play, pillories, and loads more!
Explore with a cast of super fun and unique queer characters (with some scenes being animated), and solve the mystery of why everybody has become so horny all of a sudden!
The best part? 70% of the game is totally free! The demo is available for anybody to play, and includes multiple scenes of sexy times for most of the characters!
Plus, access to the full game as it releases costs only $1!!!!! That’s a buck!
Please please check out this super cool game and support Ghosthug games on patreon, I’m not even sponsored I just genuinely think this game is excellent and really high quality and also one of the sexiest things like ever lmao
Okay thank you for reading goodbye!!!!!
I did it again (part 1 here)
1. Godward’s A Fair Reflection (1915) and Waterhouse’s The Soul of the Rose (1908)
2. Frank Cadogan Cowper’s Damsel of the Lake (1924) kissing the lady in Auguste Toulmouche’s The Kiss (c.1870)
3. Waterhouse’s A Song of Springtime (1913) and Auguste Toulmouche’s Woman and Roses (1879)
4. Evelyn De Morgan’s Ariadne in Naxos (1877) with Waterhouse’s Sweet Summer (1912)
5. A woman from Charles Perugini’s Dolce Far Niente (1882) about to wake up Victor Gilbert’s Sleeping Beauty (date unknown)
please reblog if you save!
I JUST CHECKED THIS IS REAL IM SCREAMING
When you’ve spent 92 years on this earth with the name “Dick Van Dyke” and you’re only just now hearing the dumbest possible joke about it.
Hey it’s yet another confirmation that despite what exclusionists think, the conservatives don’t actually care about the difference between different queer identities, they just want us all dead
Found a new brush. Enjoying owls as amorphous blobs of shadow tonight.
Mothman. Yeah. This is why I think "the sleptics" are right. Owls can be scary, especially when you're a kid in the TNT area.
Witty Street Art
Sydney-based street artist Michael Pederson’s creates quirky street art that is so subtle that it’s easy to walk past it without even knowing it’s there. He encourages people to take a closer look at their streets and neighbourhoods, and second guess some signs. “I think we travel through urban space without really seeing it most of the time,” Pederson told CityLab. “I like the idea of interfering with the overly familiar background blur … Ideally with something a passerby might see out of the corner of an eye.”
