pitter patter putter patter *you look down and see this*
you ever have just like, a really bad idea
anyways if you like bad things here’s a postcard
I was trying to figure out why this post starting spiking recently and then I found out you animals had this queued for Mother’s Day
’ᴍᴏᴛʜᴇʀ, ɪᴛ ᴡᴀꜱ ᴀɴ ʜᴏɴᴏʀ ꜰᴏʀ ᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ʙᴇᴇɴ ʙᴏʀɴ ᴛᴏ ꜱᴜᴄʜ ᴀ ᴘᴇʀꜱᴏɴ ᴀꜱ ʏᴏᴜ.’
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Literally all things you can do for adults as well! Especially those of us who have childhood trauma.
I’m crying over how much this would have changed the course of my life. If you’re a parent or child adjacent, please practice this. Please.
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13 helpful phrases you can say to calm an anxious child
“i am here; you are safe” anxiety has a way of making things look worse and feel scarier than when we are not feeling worried. these words can offer comfort and safety when your child feeling out of control, especially if they are at the height of their worry.
“tell me about it” give your child room to talk about their fears without interrupting. some children need to have time to process through their thoughts.
“how big is your worry?” help your child verbalize the size of their worry and give you an accurate picture of how it feels to them.
“what do you want to tell your worry?” give your child room to talk about their fears without interrupting. some children need to have time to process through their thoughts.
“can you draw it?” many kids cannot express their emotions with words. encourage them to draw, paint or create their worries on paper.
“let’s change the ending.” anxious children often feel stuck in the same pattern without a way out. help them see different options by telling their story, but leaving off the ending.
“what other things do you know about (fill in the blank)?” some children feel empowered when they have more information about their fear (especially things like tornadoes, bees, elevators, etc).
“which calming strategy do you want to use?” work proactively to create a long list of calming strategies your child enjoys. practice them during the day, at random times when you child feels calm.
“i’m going to take a deep breath.” sometimes our children are so worried they resist our encouragement to pick a calming strategy. in this case, use yourself as the calming skill! verbalize what you are doing and how it makes you feel.
“it’s scary and…” acknowledge your child’s fear without making it even more frightening by using the word “AND.” after the word “and” you can add phrases like, “you are safe” or “you’ve conquered this fear before” or “you have a plan.”
“i can’t wait to hear about…” it’s hard to see our kids suffer with worry. many parents rush in to rescue their child from an anxiety-producing situation.
“what do you need from me?” instead of assuming that you know what your child needs, give them an opportunity to tell you what would help.
“this feeling will pass.” this may be a phrase you can both use when your child is at the height of panic. all feelings pass eventually. it often feels like they will never end, you won’t make it through, or it’s too hard. and that’s okay. don’t let your brain get stuck in that moment; focus on the relief that is on the horizon.
source: this infographic was created based on a wonderful article written by nicole schwawrz found at limeadventures.com. nicole’s blog can be found at imperfectfamilies.com.
get tips and tools to alleviate childhood anxiety: www.gozen.com
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Concept: Native American Link
Being part Native Cherokee, I wanted to intertwine my background into my artwork. I saw many other people doing so with Zelda art, mixing their cultures and religions with the game. It was so inspiring I gave it a shot :)
