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You break patterns by responding differently.

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— Andrea Dworkin, Our blood: prophecies and discourses on sexual politics (1976)

❤️‍🔥 PAC: Dirty (+18) and sexual letter from your future spouse❤️‍🔥

This PAC includes their explicit letter, a song, and a quote.

I swear to God that if you are not of age and you read this, your guides will bother you and give such headache that you will have to take a nap that lasts, at least, 4 hours.

@vermilionpearls is @pearl-tarotist NSFT (+18) blog!

“Lean in to kiss me in all the places where the ache is the most special.” ( Sanober Khan)

The sheer energy. The beauty of this woman. The women hugging in the background. The man in rainbow parachute pants. This whole video is art.

XXI. The World

Perfect skin doesn’t matter brand names don’t matter grind culture doesn’t matter all that’s important is having a hobby you love and learning to cook vegetables in tasty ways

neptune dominant, venus dominant and moon dominant people 🤝 charming everyone with what and how they speak, their grace and otherworldly beauty while STILL remaining elusive and unknown. they’re so incredibly intelligent and admired from afar it’s insane.

Firstly, these people are so understated and sometimes they WANT it to be that way. Most of them are really humble and modest in their approach to things, and at the same time, they have the belief that actions speak for themselves. The person who has to say they are king is no king, and virgo/6th house placements know this very well. These natives have a grounded earthy nature combined with the mental dexterity of Mercury, and what is really underestimated is their adaptability from being a mutable sign. We often hear of capricorns and taurus placements being too stubborn or fixed in mindset, but we never really hear from virgos, and again, that speaks for itself. These people know how to change track and get to the bottom of things as efficiently as possible. They may get anxious and nervous from their constantly thinking nature as the price, but it is an extremely useful skillset to have in an ever changing world. These people are the original troubleshooters and problem solvers, and their quickness and grounded nature is literally heaven sent to perform difficult tasks and weave their way out of situations most signs would flail at. Secondly, their critical and discerning nature is widely renowned and ironically they are criticised for it, however they are also widely renowned for their helpful and kind nature. 

Virgo/6th house placements know more than anyone else how tiring and draining day-to-day life can be, how one small thing can finally break the camel’s back, and they keep ON TOP of all this. They are so detailed and conscientious of their time and efforts because they KNOW what it’s like to feel unstrung, to lose control over the tiniest of things until you realise your life is out of control. And this isn’t the best part, the best is how KIND they are to extend the same effort and time to HELP others with the same problems. Let me ask you this, who on god’s green earth would want to help you deal with mundane but important tasks, the kind you could scream at at 3am because you missed one bill and now the bank is after you? Who on EARTH would want to pick up your disgusting hair from the shower drain and clean your kitchen because they know you’re tired, they know what it’s like to deal with seemingly little chores when your world is turned upside down? Who the hell would actually want to sit you down and help you through any kind of problems you have by actually listening attentively and giving the best golden advice they have? I’ve seen the most passionate and loving of people balk at this, and these people could DO it for their loved ones because that’s just how kind and soft they are. And I just get so angry how people mock them for this? How this is seen as a tiny thing as compared to big showy expressions of love or big expensive gifts? Their expression of love is through their hands, their crafts, their skills, their quiet affirming words. It is through how much you can rely on them, and how much they try to never fail themselves and the people around them. It is through giving their energy to others selflessly. Truly they express their love everywhere and daily while people think they barely express anything at all. 

These people could be the epitome of constant, unwavering love and devotion to the things and people around them. And they are often so kind, they say nothing, they allow their love to be seen as a constant, as a reliance, as a platform for others to grow and bloom. How solid and strong must you be to accommodate all that weight? They deal with the nitty and gritty because they know what must be done to grow into themselves, they are incredibly self-healing once they turn that kind nature inwards. I’ve heard the 6th house is what you master in this lifetime, and these people are BUILT for mastering anything they set their mind to. They are children of Mercury after all, and they are all about learning. These natives are bright lights even when they are unaware of it, are inspiring even when they humble themselves time and again, and lastly, they truly know how to not only survive, but live and thrive in this world once they value the gifts they’re born with. Take a while to rest and breathe, because you deserve a break from the constant worries and chatter that occupy your mind, and to truly enjoy what your efforts in this world have brought you. Finally, never let anyone take you for granted. What’s that saying, what you brought into this world, you can also take away? HAHA I’m kidding, but please please remember that as much as you are a shining star, never set yourself on fire to keep others warm. You’ve got a bright, beautiful and devoted heart, don’t let anyone else make you think you’re otherwise.

I know I’m better than everyone, I know I am that bitch

What a bewitching girl

my advice to girls is to stop feeling guilty about everything especially when it comes to guys. you don’t need to feel guilty for rejecting a guy even if he really likes you or he’s a nice guy. you don’t need to feel guilty about having boundaries or standards or expectations. you don’t need to feel guilty for saying no. treat people with respect but remember u don’t owe men anything. not a relationship, not sex, not your time, energy, attention, affection, not a reply or a message, not even a smile

light feminine habits

1. speak with kindness. don’t speak harshly to yourself. speak with compassion and tenderness. you’re not dumb or stupid, you’re learning. also, be mindful of your loved ones feelings when you speak.

2. slow down. drop the plans and go with the flow. meditate. plan a getaway. take a nap.

3. let yourself feel. when you feel like crying, cry. when you feel like laughing, laugh. when you feel like screaming, scream.

4. be playful. not everything needs to be taken so seriously. spend time around babies and animals. watch cartoons and fairytale movies.

5. learn. be open. ask questions. be curious without commitment.

6. build a connection to nature. take a walk in the park. smell the flowers. cloud gaze. listen to the birds. walk barefoot in the grass. sunbathe. have. a picnic.

7. decorate. surround yourself with things that makes you feel happy. look on pinterest for creative ideas. hang pictures up in your wall. buy cute trinkets. make your space aesthetically pleasing.

8. make yourself a nourishing meal. cook/bake. learn new recipes. eat tasty foods.

9. play soothing music. listen to calming sounds or music that can put your mind at ease.

10. let stuff go. seek for a harmonious environment. stop arguing. stop worrying and let universe handle it.

sorry for being so alluring and entrancing it’s not my fault

Why is life so good? Wow.

Capricorn’s have a unmatchable commanding aura, like they don’t even have to say a word yet everyone already knows who’s in charge..

dear capricorn you don’t need people to clap for you to prove you’re worth it. you are important as is.

[From my files :: Rubin Museum NYC]

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“When you slouch, you are trying to hide your heart, protecting it by slumping over. But when you sit upright but relaxed in the posture of meditation, your heart is naked. Your entire being is exposed - to yourself, first of all, but to others as well. Through the practice of sitting still and following your breath as it goes out and dissolves, you are connecting with your heart. By simply letting yourself be, as you are, you develop genuine sympathy towards yourself. When you sit erect, you proclaim to yourself and to the rest of the world that you are going to be a warrior, a fully human being.”

~ Chögyam Trungpa, ‘Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior’

[h/t Ian Sanders]

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“When I say the feminine, I don’t mean gender. I mean the feminine principle that is living—or suppressed—in both men and women. The feminine principle attempts to relate. Instead of breaking things off into parts, it says, Where are we alike? How can we connect? Where is the love? Can you listen to me? Can you really hear what I am saying? Can you see me? Do you care whether you see me or not?

Now, these are very serious questions. And the feminine is difficult to talk about because so few people have experienced it. The feminine is presence, and relatedness, and a heart that can open so that when you meet another person you actually are seeing that person’s authentic self. What meaning does human life have if nobody has ever seen you?

I can’t tell you the number of people—men and women—who have sat in my office sobbing, saying, “Nobody ever saw me. Nobody ever had time to listen. So I am unlovable”—the saddest word in the language. Sometimes I’ve had a real flood of feeling about somebody, and I put out my hand and they say, “Don’t touch me. I’m unlovable.” And they mean it. As a child, that person was raised where the feminine was not present. You have to experience the feminine to understand it.

Ask yourself: As a child, who saw you? Who heard you? Was there anyone with whom you could be totally yourself and to whom you could trust your heart responses and speak your soul responses? Someone who made you think, ‘Gosh, I am somebody. They’re happy that I’m here.’

The great work of our time is to bring the feminine into this culture. And it’s not an easy path. How does each one of us contribute? Believe it or not, it’s done in the most personal ways. Take time to listen to your dreams, to write them down. Take time to recognize that there are things going on within you that need to be felt, or said, or lived, or grieved. Pay attention to these things both in yourself and in the people in your life. Pay attention to the authentic self.

…Love is the real power. It’s the energy that cherishes. The more you work with that energy, the more you will see how people respond naturally to it, and the more you will want to use it. It brings out your creativity and helps everyone around you flower. Your children, the people you work with—everyone blooms —everyone blooms.”

~ Marion Woodman

1. What was your dream job as a child?

2. Are you more into sports, or arts?

3. Are you the type to finish things halfway through, or go all the way until it’s done?

4. Books or movies?

5. What’s your idea of a perfect day?

6. Top 3 cities you would live in?

7. Do you prefer to spend time at home, or go out?

8. Do you have a large circle of friends, a small close group, or one or two best friends?

9. How important is religion to you?

10. Do you get upset easily?

11. When’s the last time you learned something really significant?

12. Are you the type to always put others before yourself? Or the opposite?

13. Shop online, or in person?

14. Favourite holiday?

15. Favourite time of year?

16. Language you wish you could speak fluently?

17. Would you travel to the future or to the past?

18. Least favourite colour?

19. Favourite age that you’ve been?

20. If you never had any obligations or responsibilities, how would you spend your day?

21. Night time, evening, or day?

22. Favourite letter?

23. Favourite dessert?

24. Sweet or salty?

25. Do you watch TV?

26. What do you find relaxing/calming?

27. Are you open minded?

28. Do you realize right away when you’ve hurt someone?

29. How well do you process emotions on a scale of 0-100?

30. Do you keep up with the news?

31. One thing that’s in your closet that you never wear?

32. Lot’s of shoes, or only the essentials?

33. An animal you have never seen up close that you wish you could? (If dangerous, without being hurt)

34. What do you want to be remembered for?

35. Do you open up easily?

36. Do you get along with strangers right away?

37. Do you like to eat out? If yes, what and how often?

38. Do you have a good memory?

39. Spicy food or mild?

40. Lot’s of jewelry or minimal?

41. Do you have a skin care routine? If yes do you stick to it?

42. Do you eat with your hands?

43. Do you prefer giving or receiving gifts?

44. What’s your first language?

45. Do you like to organize activities, or go along with whatever is planned?

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I used to think communication was the key until I realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they don’t understand you, its silent chaos.