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I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

Anonymous asked:

how you make love without dick tho?

  1. You use water color to paint on her skin
  2. You wash her hair/ help her with her hair 
  3. Cuddle up naked in the dark talking about your goals 
  4. When she’s crying you hold her until she stops 
  5. if you think she needs something you get it (ex. if her period is coming up soon you go to the store and buy ice cream/chocolate) 
  6. Wake up before her and make her breakfast
  7. sliding your finger from her forehead to the back of her ear to fix her hair to get a better look 
  8. Walking her home when it’s really late to make sure she gets home safe
  9. Surprising her with concert tickets to her favorite artist 

All of this is making love. I’m sorry society has failed you and you think the only way to make love is shoving your dick inside of her. 

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Me on Fourth of July like

Anyway, stop spreading white nationalist rhetoric and toxic nationalism thanks

Nobody said anything about race. Stop that.

It’s nationalist to state facts now?

How is this toxic?

Show me countries better than the USA.

economically

human freedom

quality of life

social progress 

image

income equality (america was among the worst)

healthcare

x x

gender equality

what exactly makes america the “best country” here? america doesn’t excel in anything.

I was gonna say aren’t we like #1 in a bunch of bad stats? Like aren’t we the top for rape and abuse?

I remember this epic moment from The Newsroom

Americans just buy into the propaganda they are the greatest country when there is absolutely zero evidence to say so.

America was a joke long before Trump came into the picture

Have reblogged before, doing so again. Will again in the future. We’re not even the greatest nation on this continent.