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It Is What It Is

@anxiousescapis

20// she/her //wlw // Bangladeshi

i learned a while ago that the whole "most of the stars we see in the sky are actually already dead because they're so far away that we're seeing them as they were thousands of years ago" thing is a myth because stars live so long that it's unlikely many, if any, of them have burned out yet, but i'm still glad that myth exists because there's just something about the thought of the sky as a graveyard of stars that gets to me

It’s interesting because one day that will be true for some people in some planet out there, but we are so young, the universe is so young, that we live in a time when we get to see more stars born than we ever will see die. There’s poetry in looking up and seeing a star graveyard, but I think there’s also poetry in looking up and seeing a star nursery.

Like, momento mori but also momento vivere

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If I were Guillermo and had a stressful coming out and no one gave a fuck and I saw my vampire friends throwing a pride parade after the neighbor comes out I would be at my limit I would slay them all

happy pride month to people who feel left out from mainstream queer media or unsafe at pride

happy pride month to anyone who cant go to pride

whether its unsafe in the area, they physically can't, or have homophobic family

happy pride month to people who dont quite know their identity yet

to people who are unlabeled, or are questioning, or

happy pride month to poc queer

to black queers and asian queers and indigenous queers and latine queers

happy pride month to disabled queers

to queers in wheelchairs, with canes, with service dogs, with inhalers, with leg braces, with crutches,

happy pride month to queers in straight relationships or appear to be in straight relationships

to bi people dating the opposite gender, to pan people dating the opposite gender, to straight but with another lgbtq+ identity, to fem presenting people dating masc presenting people

happy pride month to queers in polyamorous relationships

happy pride month to all a-spec people

to all aros, aces, alloaces, alloaros, aroaces, loveless aros, aros in relationships, aros in qprs, to aroflux people, to demiromantic and demisexual people

happy pride month to all multi-sexual people

to bisexuals, pansexuals, polysexuals, to biromantics, panromantics, polyromantics and anyone else under this umbrella

Happy pride month to non binary people

to genderfluid people, genderqueer people, to transneutral, transmasc and transfem non binary people. to bigender, pangender people. to people who use xenogenders

happy pride month to people with "weird pronouns"

to people with multiple pronoun sets, neopronoun users, to cis guys who use she/her to cis girls who use he/him to cis people who use they/them or neopronouns, to people who use any pronouns, to people who use any pronouns but they/them or any but she/her or any but he/him or any but neos

happy pride month to trans people

to t4t people, trans men, trans women, transfems, transmascs, to straight trans people, to aro trans people, to ace trans people, to lesbian trans people, to gay trans people

shout-out to neurodivergent and mentally ill queer people

to queer people with anxiety, with autism, with adhd, with depression, with ocd, with schizophrenia, with bpd, with ptsd.

to queer people who hallucinate, who need noise cancelling headphones, who need fidgets, who have panic attacks, who are forgetful, who get hyperfocused, who have mood swings

happy pride month to everyone. you deserve respect and to feel safe, even if you dont now. you're valid. you deserve to be able to go to pride without fear. you deserve accomodations at pride. even if you don't want to go to pride events, youre still amazing and valid. stay safe

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loving a place means leaving a piece of your heart there. loving someone means leaving a piece of your heart with them. loving an object means your love is imbued with it. hope this helps