Desi girls experience teenage rebellion in their 20s and it’s such an interesting phenomenon
“As June runs into warm July I think of little else but you.”
— Wendy Cope, excerpt of “From June to December” (A Summer Villanelle)
what's the matter honey? you've hardly touched your fleeting experience of time on earth
I used to be terrified of getting older, but one of the biggest perks that has happened with me maturing is the relationship I now have with my mother. Looking back, from 21-25 I resented her so much, and blamed her for everything wrong with my life. And now Alhamdulillah my mom and I have such a deeper understanding and trust with each other. It's something I craved my whole entire life. Alhamdulillah x10000
I think that in real life…. Relationships r like . Your partner WILL ‘trauma dump’ on you. You will have to perform ‘emotional labor’ for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult …. To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to me…. The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway
I had been rotting for a few days, and today it randomly hit me that I'm a hot girl in my 20s, single and child free and I kid you not that perspective changed everything for me.
Anonymous asked:
YOU'RE BAACCKKK <3 was literally thinking of you yesterday and missing you on the gram, hope you're doing good love :) you've got pretty much strangers out here that think about you and care about you, don't ever forget that
Stop :( I was just thinking about how excruciatingly lonely it is sometimes with no social media, no friends, and no s/o and then I get this. Thank you thank you thank you. <3
U can grieve and still live life. U can miss loving someone and love others. You can hold onto the good moments and simultaneously the bad moments. You can take the learning from a person you let go off and use it for the better. You can love someone and they may not be the right person. You can wish someone the best and love them from a distance. You can think fondly of someone and never talk to them again.. mysteries of the world…
My ass went literally "KINZA???" just like the BEYONCE?? meme. people are posting about zayns interview, kinza is posting as well, its starting to feel like 2015 again
im SCREAMMINGGG no cuz the way Zayn and I both just emerged out of nowhere.... it was always meant to be
aw I forgot what a safe space Tumblr was for me during 2012-2018. Reading my old posts and questions has me filled with such warm nostalgia I was not prepared for
Anonymous asked:
BRO I’ve been literally thinking I haven’t seen you in my dash for such a long time I hope things go well for you IN SHA ALLAH
Crying that you even thought of me. Thank you :') Inshallah
Anonymous asked:
Where. have you been what’s been happening are you okay ???
Omg I just randomly decided to log into my Tumblr that I was using when I was like 21!!! And I'm proud to report that I'm 28 now, and still struggling with the same things LOL
inshvallah
أعُوذ بالله بيومٌ ، أصحى ولأ ارى به أمُي
I seek refuge in God from the day, I wake up and I will not see my mother
No suicidal shit but this world is tiring and I wish I had no part in it