Hypergamy Harsh Truth?
The only thing I can really say is that men donβt want to date losers so do something with yourself and with your life. No one wants to spend their precious time with someone who they view as a burden or a waste of time, no one wants to waste their life away with someone who has nothing going on for them and is just a pretty face, and no one wants to hear endless talk about the soft life or other vapidness or spend the best years of their life with someone whoβs never been able to grow up. Youβre not a teenager anymore, itβs not cute to have never grown up and itβs not fair to expect others to stand by you whilst you fuck around. If you have nothing going on for you, if youβve never lived outside of your family home or youβre incapable of working a job, and if you canβt take care of yourself then you cannot reasonably expect someone else to want to do that for you. The amount of emotional labour and sometimes even physical labour that goes into beginning and maintaining a relationship is intense and youβre not going to develop those skills overnight and youβre also shit out of luck if you donβt have basic social skills or the ability to create or maintain surface level friendships or relationships, you need confidence and youβre not going to gain those skills from anything I tell you. You need to get outside and actually work.
