Absolutely no worries. I'm really glad that so many folks put their experiences out there because I think it's important to talk about all of them--not just the positive ones.
Since I've been reminded of this post, and I'm still on venlafaxine, this gives me an opportunity to do a bit of an update actually? Especially since I've got an appointment later today to discuss it anyway.
I think it's working fairly well for me? I increased my dose about three months ago, and it has certainly been an improvement.
(I was also diagnosed with ADHD and began treatment for that, along with the venlafaxine. Between the two, it finally feels like I'm on a good combination of meds for the first time in literally years.)
I've had no nightmares. I also haven't experienced any withdrawal like symptoms from occasionally missing doses, even for several days at a time (either from my own forgetfulness or from pharmacy/insurance issues).
The only negative side effect I have really had is stomach aches; I can't take this medication on an empty stomach and it's a little hard to deal with even after eating sometimes.
I am definitely having dry mouth/excessive thirst too...but since I increased the dose of the venlafaxine literally at the same time I started adderall, it's impossible for me to tell which med is causing it, and it could be both. I don't really consider this a big negative though? Because I never drink enough fluids, and especially not enough water. Off meds, I can literally go all day without getting anything to drink and not think about it.
Basically I had nothing to be nervous about this time; and it isn't anyone's fault that I was nervous to begin with, I've just had some less than pleasant experiences with meds in the past.