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cause baby it's a mood

@andreams512

who died and made me an adult
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when one character brokenly says “i have nothing to offer you” and the other character looks at them with fond exasperation, because there’s nothing else they could want except the gift of their love. that shit gets me.

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mockiatoh

You can’t deserve a person’s love. You’ll drive yourself crazy thinking like that. They either love you, or they don’t. That doesn’t mean you weren’t good enough for them to love you, because love isn’t something you earn by being good enough. It isn’t something that can be quantified or doled out. Don’t blame yourself for not being loved how you need to, just teach yourself how to look for love where love lives.

This isn’t just about romantic love, or even skewed towards romantic love, although it does apply there too. One of the hardest things I’ve ever had to accept is that my mother simply wasn’t someone who was capable of loving me, and there is no version of me that I could have ever been that would have earned that love. But with acceptance came healing. I was able to love myself more instead of resenting myself for not being more than any one person could be.

Are you listening? Even love for yourself isn’t earned. It is a kindness you give yourself.

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bts-trans

210418 J-Hope’s Tweet

그립당 그때 그 시절 ㅠ..ㅠ💜

I miss itt, those times back then ㅠ..ㅠ💜

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the amount of pure joy when i find a muslim clothing store (world wide delivery 😌😌😌 hehe) that has cute clothes AND niqabs... my mom is gonna have 2 stop me from buying an entire wardrobe of clothes i can't afford LMAO

[ID: Two niqabis in matching pink and beige outfits. They're wearing plaid shirts and solid colored skirts. The person in pink is sitting in a chair and has her eyes closed, hands around the arm of the person in beige and rests her head there. End ID.]

With love, for all my hijabi/niqabi followers if I have any!

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suga-ssi

I guess these pick-up lines do work on some people (。•̀ᴗ-)✧  [cr. c_a_leaf]

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hey man i haven’t seen a single similar post (concerning???) so i feel like it’s important to make this.

tomorrow is ramadan. your eating disorder will not magically disappear in ramadan.

allah will not hate you if you relapse in ramadan. be it that you faint or you binge, if you need to break your fast because of your eating disorder THEN YOU BREAK YOUR FAST.

You are not supposed to fast when you are sick. YOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO FAST WHEN YOU ARE SICK. IT IS HARAM TO FAST IF YOU ARE SICK BECAUSE IT BRINGS HARM TO YOUR BODY. If you start feeling horribly sick and you know, you haven’t had sufficient suhoor or iftar for a few days or anything of the sort, it is okay to break your fast and even go to the hospital if you need to.

habaybi that have eating disorders, PLEASE take care of yourself during ramadan. It is a month of cleansing and forgiveness, so forgive yourself if you relapse. You can always redo your fast after ramadan.

Jazakallah please reblog this post and ramadan mubarak to you all! ♡

If your eating disorder is still potent, you will likely relapse just from trying a few days, and that’s not what Islam wants. Allah wants you to not fast while sick, be it physical or mental, or even a period.

Mental disorders are also sickness! Imams agree on that! Hunger can worsen depression, anxiety, suicidality etc and worsen it for long past Ramadan. But Allah is very clear that your fast shouldn’t risk this! Even the worsening of symptoms during the day isn’t intended!

Most muslim families won’t know this, but Imams do. Please, take your mental health seriously.